[Brian] Previously on 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days...
[Rayne] In my life, I've never experienced romance.
But, then, five years ago, the man of my dreams fell in my lap.
When he said he was blind,
it just hit me. Like, I wanted this guy forever.
So, the attraction is that he's blind?
I was never looking for a blind man. But I'm very self-conscious.
So, knowing that Chidi fell for my heart and my mind is a huge turn-on for me
because I'm gonna be so free.
[laughs]
[Loren] Faith is my perfect ladyboy.
She's perfect pretty much in every way.
[woman] Wow!
[Loren] 50 bucks.
And that's pretty much all I can afford.
But Faith doesn't know that I'm broke,
and that my plan is to go to the Philippines and stay there forever.
So, I don't know how Faith is going to react.
[tense instrumental music]
[Tigerlily] I was in a ten-year marriage that was very controlling.
I told myself that I would never get married again. But, then, I met Adnan.
I do have plans to visit.
And the day that I meet him, we're getting married.
[dramatic instrumental music]
[woman] You're kidding, right?
[Tigerlily] No, I'm serious.
I want to thank you, Lord, for introducing me to Rayne.
Rayne is a very sexy woman, but I'm a Christian, and
[Chidi] Yes.
[dramatic instrumental music]
[Brian] When I was 27, I was carjacked and shot.
That left me a quadriplegic.
And I thought that, maybe, real love just wasn't in the cards for me.
But then I met Ingrid.
[Brian] Ingrid has no idea what all this entails.
Ingrid knows that I'm in a wheelchair, but she doesn't know details.
The bathroom stuff, sexual stuff.
And on top of that, Ingrid doesn't even know
how I ended up in a wheelchair in the first place.
My carjacking was not some random event.
[dramatic instrumental music]
-[upbeat instrumental music] -[rooster crowing]
[chickens clucking]
[Rayne] I know.
You're gonna keep me company, okay? 'Cause I'm gonna miss you.
You're gonna be my helper.
Okay?
I can't believe the day is finally here.
I'm packing to leave to Nigeria
to hopefully meet the man that I'm gonna spend the rest of my life with.
Okay.
I have a perfume that I really, really, really like.
So, I'm definitely gonna put this in the carry-on bag
'cause I'm gonna wanna spray myself right before I see him.
Chidi is my Nigerian Prince Charming
that I met about five and a half years ago on social media.
I had already fallen hard for him,
and a few months into our relationship, I found out he was blind.
His impairment might have scared off some people,
but it just makes me fall so much more harder for him.
I can't wait to see him!
After five years, finally getting to be physical
with a man that you love that much, and intimate, it's just gonna be like...
it's gonna take me out of this world.
It's gonna be so amazing.
[clucking]
And I'm prepared.
I got underwear!
[laughing] I got some underwear.
It's not, like, dirty-dirty, but it's real cute, soft,
and something that leaves for him to feel.
Like, when he touches down the side, he'll be able to feel that. [laughs]
Being intimate with Chidi
will be a whole new experience.
He won't see me, so I could be me.
I could just... I don't have anything to worry about.
[laughs]
I feel like it's gonna love-making, not just sex.
Never have I been involved with love-making, so I can't wait.
Okay. I got all my stuff and I'm excited.
-Are you gonna miss me? -[Lexi] Yeah.
So, Nana will be here.
And, then, don't forget to collect the rest of the eggs.
-I already got some this morning, so... -Yeah.
Okay.
[soft instrumental music]
The hardest thing about leaving is saying goodbye to my kids.
Even though my mom will look after 'em,
this is the longest I've ever been away from them.
Okay, hugs. I'm off.
-Okay. -You be a good boy.
-Okay. -I'll see you in three weeks.
-[Devin] Okay. -[Rayne] Okay.
[Lexi speaking]
I'm definitely proud of her for willing to go that far.
I feel like my mom, after all these years,
she deserves somebody to take care of her.
We'll see you later.
[Devin speaking]
I hope she stays safe
because I love my mom a lot.
[Rayne] I feel nervous, anxious.
This is my first trip outside of the US.
I don't even leave the house, not even to go to the store, unless I absolutely have to.
Here I am about to fly all the way across the world,
and I absolutely know nothing about Lagos, Nigeria.
[playful instrumental music]
I'm definitely terrified of coming back with ass worms and a rash.
[Rayne] Oh, yeah. Because of the food and the flies,
and just how dirty a lot of the things are.
I believe, deep down, I have a strong immune system,
so I should be able to handle a lot.
But, yeah, definitely afraid of the worms. [laughs]
But when it comes down to Chidi, I just see him as my last hope,
'cause at this point in my life,
I have just given up on men completely.
Like, I'd rather date, like, an alien or a high-tech monkey.
[laughs]
[soft music]
Thank you.
Feeling very anxious, excited.
I can't wait to plant my lips on him and give him a great big hug.
Good morning!
[attendant] Are we going international or just domestic?
Nigeria.
I'm getting more and more nervous. I got goosebumps now.
[laughs]
Yay! I'm finally going to Africa.
My goal is to go see what my Chidi has to offer me.
I know he's real sweet with his words.
I just wanna see how he is with his ways.
I expect lots of hugs and kisses.
[song playing]
This will be a new chapter for me
because it's like being reborn again.
You have a whole new excitement, a whole new meaning, a whole new purpose.
Like, I know I have my kids and my family.
But it's not until you have true love
that you really, truly feel like you're complete.
I'm excited! I'm ready to see you, Chidi. You better be ready for me.
I'm coming.
[laughing] And you can't run.
[upbeat music]
♪♪ Happen to run into ya ♪
♪♪ I'm gonna tell ya You've been on my mind ♪
I can't wait to go to the airport.
This is it!
♪♪ So, baby, get a rocket ship And put me on it ♪
♪♪ I'm a woman I'm gonna own it ♪
[Tigerlily] Today, I'm leaving for Jordan,
and I'm going to be meeting my fiance, Adnan, in person for the first time.
And right after I land, Adnan and I are going to be married.
And I can't wait.
[playful instrumental music]
My kids are with their dad, and it was pretty hard saying goodbye to them.
This is the first time that I've ever left them.
But I know that it's worth it because this is their chance
at having a family and being happy, too.
God.
Yeah.
No, I'm just going on a trip for a week.
-[woman] Ooh, I'm sorry. -That's okay.
Some people might think that I'm an over packer,
but I need everything that I've packed.
I'm bringing three huge wedding dresses
for the big wedding celebration.
And I have at least 12 to 18
fully-accessorized outfits for my six days in Jordan.
I just hope these bags make it to Jordan with me.
What if something goes wrong?
I would just die.
I have not slept yet.
I thought that I would feel really tired,
but I'm actually so excited about just
[upbeat instrumental music]
Thank you so much!
-Hey! -Hey!
[laughing]
[Tigerlily] My closest friends, Cruz and his partner, Shay,
are coming with me on this trip.
They are my glam squad, and I know that I can trust them
to make sure that I look perfect for my wedding.
So, as soon as we land, you're gonna go get married, huh?
Yeah. [laughs]
[Cruz] Are you excited? Nervous? What are your feelings right now?
I'm not nervous at all.
I just wanna get on the plane already and go.
Like, I wanna be landing in Jordan.
[soft instrumental music]
Tigerlily is being so willy-nilly about everything.
We gotta hurry! We can't be late!
[Shay] It's gonna be,
"Hi. Nice to meet you. Let's go sign our marriage contract."
-Yeah, pretty much. -It doesn't make sense why they're rushing it.
All right. This is our first flight!
She's never met him, doesn't know what she's walking into,
and she's not even nervous.
Any normal person,
even knowing the person before their wedding,
would be nervous.
[upbeat instrumental music]
[prayer being recited on loudspeaker]
-[horns honking] -[indistinct chatter]
[instrumental Middle Eastern music]
[meowing]
[cheering and singing]
My name is Adnan. I am 22 years
And I love my life.
[cheering and singing]
And, today, my friends and my brother and my cousin...
The tradition here in Jordan,
they make a ceremony and dance for me
because, tomorrow, I will get married.
[Adnan speaking]
My best model look,
this is my side, like this.
And the straight one.
I love it.
[upbeat instrumental music]
But I am not going with every girl
because, now, I have met Tigerlily.
♪♪ Walking home All eyes on me ♪
♪♪ All eyes on me ♪
[Adnan speaking]
♪♪ I... I will just blow Your mind, yeah ♪
[Adnan speaking]
[soft instrumental music]
When I am saying to Tigerlily, "I love you,"
and she loves me,
inside my heart, my mind, my everything is complete.
This is my woman. This is my future wife.
[all laughing]
Because of my belief, I don't respect sex before marriage.
[grunting]
[all cheering]
[upbeat instrumental music]
[horns honking]
[Adnan] When I'm going to airport tomorrow,
I will make sure to be so cute and so handsome
when I meet the first time with Tigerlily.
I am sure 100% to get married with Tigerlily tomorrow.
I need the rings in my finger!
[upbeat instrumental music]
[Faith] I'm very comfortable with who I am, but...
But, now, I meet a special someone, Loren.
[upbeat instrumental music]
[stewardess] We hope that you enjoyed the flight.
Thank you and have a pleasant day.
Oh, yeah! Let's go.
Never really been in an airport.
If I ever do this again, I'll know more of what to do.
♪♪ Ain't nothing But open spaces ♪
♪♪ Come ahead of me ♪
♪♪ Feel so free ♪
After 20 hours of flying, I'm just one short flight away
from meeting my girlfriend, Faith, in the Philippines.
I didn't lose the ring between airports.
I've been dreaming of a relationship with a ladyboy like Faith
for my whole life. So, I'm going all in on this.
But me and Faith have a lot to figure out.
My finances, my desire for an open relationship.
These are not easy things for someone to accept.
But I have a deep love for Faith, and I hope we can work through it.
[soft instrumental music]
[horns honking]
[Faith] My name is Faith.
I am 30 years old and I live in Manila.
[speaking foreign language]
I really love working at the hotel because I have a stable job.
And I live there for free.
And because of that, I'm able to send money to my family.
I am lucky because, here at the hotel, they accept me for who I am.
[upbeat instrumental music]
you cannot change your gender.
But there is lots of beautiful ladyboy and trans women here in the Philippines.
And the city has a prestigious trans beauty pageant, so...
When I was 15 years old, I joined my first-ever pageant
and I won.
[laughs]
[giggles]
[traditional instrumental music]
I'm very comfortable with who I am, but...
[speaking foreign language]
So, that's why I'm single for 30 years.
Yeah.
But, now, my life has changed because I meet a special someone from US.
♪♪ My destiny ♪
My special someone is Loren,
and we first meet in a dating app, actually.
This relationship is very important for me
because this is my first boyfriend, actually.
...because, finally, I have a boyfriend.
[all laughing]
Loren and I have sent some sexy pictures to each other,
and I'm open to sleeping with him during this trip.
But I told Loren,
I want to make sure I love him enough
before we go to sex.
The Philippines is a very poor country. And the US,
it's a lot of opportunities, so you can earn more money.
So, if I move to the US,
I think that Loren and I will make
a successful life together.
[somber instrumental music]
No one has ever loved me before.
I'm scared to have my heart broken.
So, I really hope that Loren is who I think he is.
This is it. This is gonna be life-changing.
My nerves are starting to creep in a little bit.
Like, I'm gonna be married by the end of the day.
I just hope that I'm making the right decision.
[tense instrumental music]
All right. It's just a little over an hour
before I'm meeting the love of my life.
And I can't wait.
I am.
[laughs]
After 20 hours of travel,
I am finally about to land in Jordan
and meet Adnan for the first time.
I have major butterflies.
Like, I'm gonna be married by the end of the day.
It's a lot. [chuckles nervously]
I'm hoping that, when I see Adnan in person,
the love that I've been feeling for him will
But, you know, like, in the back of my mind, I'm like,
"This is too good to be true."
I just hope that I'm making the right decision.
Oh, my gosh.
[Cruz speaking]
[soft instrumental music]
[speaking foreign language]
today is the day I will meet Tigerlily, my fiance,
in person for the first time.
My favorite brother, Thaer, is coming with me
to make me no stressful and make me comfortable
It is so big deal.
[sighs]
[Adnan speaking]
But it's so hard when you love someone.
I don't know what I do.
[playful instrumental music]
Almost done.
[laughing]
[Cruz speaking]
[Tigerlily speaking]
[sighs]
[Shay speaking]
This is it. This is gonna be life-changing.
I have been waiting forever to meet him,
and I am so glad that this moment is finally here.
[intriguing instrumental music]
I just... I'm ready.
-[Adnan] Tigerlily! -[Tigerlily] Hi, baby!
[uplifting instrumental music]
There you are.
[Adnan] Finally, you are with me now.
[Tigerlily] Finally.
-I missed you, baby, so much. -I missed you so much.
You're so cute, baby.
When I saw Tigerlily the first time,
I feeling something fire inside me.
[soft instrumental music]
-I kiss your head... her head, yeah. -[chuckles]
So, I don't know. Is that, like, allowed or not allowed?
And I love her so much.
Baby, is my outfit okay for Jordan?
Yes, baby.
-But we will fix it something. -[laughing]
I want to introduce you to Cruz and Shay.
-Cruz, how are you? -How are you, my man?
-Good to meet you. -Nice to meet you, too.
-Pleasure. -Hi, Shay. How are you?
-[Shay] Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you, too.
Yes.
[all chuckling awkwardly]
In my religion and my country, Tigerlily can't have man friends.
Tigerlily explained to me, "This is my hair stylist
and I know him before 20 years like my brother."
So, for now, I am accept.
[Cruz] How does it feel to finally be with your man
that you've been waiting for so long?
-Well, not that long, but you know what I mean. -[both laughing]
But, in the future, Tigerlily can't have guy friends.
It's not acceptable to me.
-[Cruz] All right. -[Adnan] Let's go?
-[Cruz] Let's go. -You will be my wife today?
-Are you sure? -I'm sure.
[both chuckle]
Meeting Adnan in person,
he's so handsome, and he's everything I've ever dreamed of.
But my nerves are starting to creep in a little bit.
I am putting all my trust into him.
But if I find out that I was wrong,
then it will already be too late.
We'll already be married. So, it's a little nerve-racking.
[tense instrumental music]
[Shay] Kiss my hand.
Sometimes, I like to show off. Sometimes, I like to fly through the airport.
Pass everybody.
Let 'em know, like, I got this.
[Chidi speaking]
We're gonna connect emotionally,
not with eyes, but with hearts.
[security guard speaking]
[Rayne speaking]
when I approach him and I see that sexy smile lit up.
I'm gonna go find Chidi. [laughs]
And I'm gonna get what I want.
[instrumental samba music]
So, just landed in Sao Paulo.
Ten-hour flight.
Hungry. Anxious. Happy.
[chuckles] Just everything.
[upbeat instrumental music]
Just touched down in Brazil
I got one more flight to catch
before I meet Ingrid, my girlfriend of two years.
This is the first time we're meeting in person, and it doesn't feel real.
It's strange going through the airport in a wheelchair sometimes,
'cause people are staring all the time.
People are wondering how the hell is he doing it?
Sometimes, I like to show off.
Sometimes, I like to fly through the airport.
Pass everybody, you know?
Let 'em know, like, I got this.
Taking these long trips definitely is hard on me, hard on my body.
But it's so worth it,
because I really feel that Ingrid is the perfect person for me.
And I hope there's nothing about my chair or my past that changes that.
[festive instrumental music]
[oinking]
[upbeat instrumental music]
[soft instrumental music]
[panting]
[uplifting instrumental music]
[Ingrid] Oi.
[Ingrid speaking other language]
-[Vilany speaking other language] -[speaking other language]
[chuckles]
[Bernard in English]
Today is a great day indeed.
Oh, my God.
[chuckles]
I can't just wait to get to the airport.
[Chidi chuckles]
Indeed.
Everything is just like a dream.
-[Bernard] You can feel it again. -Yeah. Because, you know...
Yeah, yeah.
And it's going to be, um, a different experience entirely.
[Bernard speaking]
You, you jump on her?
Rayne, of course, has told me how she looks like.
She has long hair, brown in color.
She has, um, a deep and big eyeball.
She has, um, hips.
But her body size is slim and skinny.
When she's here, I can't wait to have a first-hand feel...
Just feel the whole beauty.
[Rayne] Oh, I'm so nervous.
I've landed in Lagos, and I'm about to meet Chidi.
I have goosebumps. I felt faint.
I feel like having a stroke, a heart attack, everything all at once.
I'm feeling very overwhelmed in the airport
by how busy and chaotic.
And everyone just seems like they're just going in every direction.
Which is kind of scary.
I'm used to being around hundreds of chickens, not people.
[man speaking]
[Rayne] It is so hot in here.
I'm feeling sticky. I'm about to see Chidi, and I'm a--
Well, I guess it's a good thing he can't see me, huh?
Oh, my God, he can smell me.
I gotta fix that.
[Chidi speaking]
We're going to connect emotionally.
Not with eyes, but with the hearts.
The hearts, we do more of the speaking.
[Rayne speaking]
...when I approach him, and I see that sexy smile lit up.
He calls himself my soul-mate.
We're meant to be. Therefore, he's mine.
Oh, my God.
I'm gonna go find Chidi.
That's what I wanna go do. I'm gonna go find him.
[chuckles] And I'm gonna get what I want.
Bye.
-[Chidi speaking] -[Bernard] All right. So...
All right.
I'm here.
[overlapping chatter]
-[man speaking] -[Rayne speaking]
-[Bernard speaking] -[Chidi speaking other language]
-[Bernard speaking] -[speaking other language]
[Bernard in English]
-[Chidi] Where? -[Bernard speaking]
[Bernard] Hi.
-[Bernard speaking] -[Rayne] Uh-huh.
-Good. And you? -I'm good.
-Okay. -You've gone past him.
-[Rayne] Huh? -[Bernard speaking]
[Rayne] Okay.
[Bernard] Let me do this. Oh, you want?
Let me help you with one.
-[Rayne] Oh. -[Bernard speaking]
[Bernard] Right here. [chuckles]
Chi, she's here.
-What? -She's here.
-Chidi. -[Chidi exclaims]
[Chidi speaking]
[Rayne] Mm-hm.
-I see my girl. -[Rayne] Yeah.
[Rayne speaking]
Come on!
-Oh, my God! -Sure you can't see?
Yeah, I can't see. But my heart sees you.
[Rayne] Aw.
You're so sexy.
[Chidi speaking]
[Rayne] Thank you.
It's just hot.
I like your hair.
And, um...
Huh?
I'm almost the height of you.
-[Rayne chuckles] Thank you. -[Chidi] Yeah, you're perfect.
Yeah.
She's just a perfect description of beauty.
[Rayne] Thank you.
[Bernard] All right, guys.
-She's so beautiful. -[Bernard] Mm.
Like an angel.
[Rayne] Thank you.
Let's move on.
[Rayne] I felt like I've known him in another life.
So meeting him is just like feeling, like, at home.
Oh, you look so sexy.
Wow.
I can't wait to put my hands all over him
and kiss those sexy lips of his and his eyes.
And I'll give him back rubs.
And get him just used to physical touch with me.
The chemistry between us is undeniable.
But that makes it even more difficult to tell Rayne
that we'll not be sleeping in the same room tonight.
I hope she doesn't get too much mad about this.
[Rayne] I put my hand here.
[Chidi] All right.
How many kids do you want?
Maybe five.
[Cruz] Five.
Wait. So, five?
You didn't even tell me, baby.
This is things that you talk about
prior to setting a wedding date
or even an engagement.
[Cruz] It is clear that they are rushing into this marriage.
[upbeat music playing]
[Adnan] My brother is going with a taxi to hotel
to bring your luggage and your stuff.
[Cruz] Awesome. This is a lot of luggage.
-[Shay] Is it all gonna fit? -[Tigerlily] I don't know.
-[Adnan speaking other language] -[man speaking other language]
-[in English] Yeah! -There we go.
Yay!
[Tigerlily] I know, baby.
I know, but I can't have anything happening to you.
-You're gonna be my husband, baby. -[Adnan] Mm.
[engine revs]
[Shay shrieks]
[Tigerlily] After four months of phone calls,
I am finally with Adnan in Jordan in person.
We are headed to the hotel to drop off Cruz and Shay
because they're not joining us to sign
the marriage contract tonight,
but they will be there with us
for the big wedding celebration
that Adnan has been planning,
in a couple of days.
[engine revs]
Oh, my gosh.
I might need some Dramamine.
[Adnan speaking]
I want you to be my wife. I can't wait.
I love you so much, honey.
[Adnan speaking]
So how far is the airport from the city?
-How far? -Uh-huh.
To city, maybe 20 minutes.
[Cruz] Okay.
[Shay] Oh, that's cool.
All right.
When Tigerlily and Adnan first met,
there was these fireworks,
and there was love in the eyes.
And then we get in the car,
and now, there's complete silence.
You would think they're about to get married,
they would have so much to talk about.
And it's just crickets. [chuckles]
So do you live in Amman?
[Adnan] Yeah.
Do you have any sisters?
I have five sisters.
-Five sisters? -Wow.
And nine brothers.
There's 14 of you guys?
[Shay] Oh, wow.
How many kids do you want?
Maybe five.
[Cruz] Five.
Wait. So, five?
You didn't even tell me, baby.
I don't know yet.
Man.
-Y'all better get busy. -Yeah.
Have you ever lived anywhere else besides Jordan?
[Adnan speaking]
What are you gonna do when you live with me in the US?
I'm just coming one week in one years.
-Where? -[Adnan speaking]
So you're okay to live in the US and then just come--
Yeah.
[Tigerlily] It seems like Adnan is going to want to spend
a lot more time in Jordan than I thought.
And I'm a little bit shocked that he's saying that he wants five more kids,
considering my age.
But since we're getting married in a few hours,
we don't really have time to get on the same page.
Welcome to Jordan, guys.
Wow.
I am just hoping that since we love each other so much,
that will be enough for us to work out everything together.
Are we good to check in?
-[Adnan] Yeah. -[Tigerlily] Yeah.
[Adnan speaking]
You have to go get married.
-We want to get married today. -[Shay] Okay.
You don't want to maybe wait a day?
No, I can't wait.
[Shay] Go on a first date?
You want to meet his family first,
see where he lives, how he lives?
I just want to make sure you guys are sure.
Yeah. Are you sure, baby?
-Of course I'm sure, baby. -Okay.
[Cruz] It is clear that they're rushing into this marriage.
I mean, Adnan wants five kids, and Tigerlily had no idea.
She didn't even know.
[Shay] This is just things that you talk about
prior to setting a wedding date
or even an engagement.
All right, give me one last hug as a single lady.
When I see you again, you're gonna be married.
She already has two kids.
She just finished going through a rough divorce.
So there's a lot more for her to lose
than she's willing to think about.
This whole thing just doesn't feel right to me.
-Bye. -[Tigerlily] Bye.
-This is crazy. -She's gonna do it.
She's really gonna do it.
-[man speaking other language] -[speaking other language]
[in English] I finally landed in Palmas.
I'm about to meet Ingrid.
Feeling nerves, excitement.
[speaking other language]
[upbeat music playing]
[Faith speaking other language]
[Faith in English] This morning,
I will go to the airport to pick up Loren.
This is my first time meeting my special someone so...
I can't believe this day is finally here.
And I'm just pray that Loren is real.
Because this is the first time that I'm very excited...
[clicking tongue]
Yes.
[Faith speaking]
-Bye. -[receptionists] Bye.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Just landed in the Philippines.
Having faith that Faith will show up to the airport so I can meet Faith.
In a matter of minutes, I'm gonna see her.
Even though I look like a hobo.
In a minute, I see Loren. [chuckles nervously]
And I'm so excited and nerve-racking.
All right, I got through Customs.
Got my backpack. Passport looks good.
And now I've got a few more steps,
and I'm in the Philippines for real.
My nerves are overwhelming right now.
Meeting with Faith for the first time is gonna be amazing.
This is it, right? This is the big moment.
The end of the old life, beginning of the new life.
I'm not coming to the Philippines
to hang out with my girlfriend.
I'm coming to finalize a long-term relationship which will lead to marriage.
This is a really big deal.
And if I definitely wasn't serious about Faith,
I wouldn't literally throw away my entire life to make this work.
[Loren] Oh, yeah.
Yeah.
Mm.
Finally.
Mm.
-Good. How are you? -[Faith speaking]
It was good.
[Loren] Oh.
-[Faith speaking] -Yeah.
I love you.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Before I left the US, she told me she's not ready to have a first kiss yet,
but I can say for the first time, it was perfect.
It's what I've been waiting for for months.
[Faith speaking]
...but I'm so proud
because as a trans, um, Loren is so excited.
But wait, wait. I have a surprise for you.
-Okay. -Okay. Just turn around.
All right. Okay.
-Okay, ready. -Yeah.
-[Faith speaking] -Is that--
This is for you.
Yeah. Yeah.
-Magic. -Magic.
-[Loren] No, you're magic. Come on. -[Faith] Yeah.
Yeah.
[Ingrid speaking other language]
[Ingrid speaking]
[laughs]
[laughing]
I finally landed in Palmas. I'm here.
I'm about to meet Ingrid, feeling nerves, excitement.
I want to give a good first impression,
and it's how I roll my chair.
It's how I present myself.
I want to make sure I'm upright.
I'm... push strong.
Look at her in her eyes.
They say it's the first 15 seconds
are some of the most important seconds,
of your life sometimes,
and I want to make sure it goes right.
I mean, if this works out for me,
it would just change dramatically my life.
[whistles]
[Ingrid speaking]
[Brian speaking]
So I got the broken suitcase.
And the cart.
So that's... that's bothersome, but...
[dramatic music playing]
What?
Hello.
Hello. Hello. Hello. Hello.
I want to jump the gate.
[speaking foreign language]
[Ingrid giggles]
Nice.
I'm blown away. I'm blown away. I'm happy.
-Soft smelling nice. -Soft.
We waited two years for this.
And now finally, I can touch, smell, feel.
-Oh... -My God, it's unbelievable.
[Ingrid] Brian.
[Brian] Ingrid didn't seem to blink an eye about the wheelchair.
Sometimes you never know how someone's gonna react to that,
so I'll take that as a win.
But I know there's a lot more to learn about Ingrid
and a lot for her to learn about me.
So I hope tonight goes well
and our chemistry continues to grow.
Wow! Whoa, whoa!
[speaking foreign language]
No, no, no.
♪♪ We got everything on top of ground♪
♪♪ And we got everything in the sun ♪
I like the way it looks over here.
I was surprised there's not green moss
growing in the airport, because it's so humid.
[Chidi] Yeah.
[Rayne] I just arrived in Nigeria,
and I'm so excited to be walking with Chidi,
because I get to be the one to finally lead him.
And it just feels so natural.
Wait, wait, you're gonna step down.
Watch out, 'cause it's, like, it's an awkward curve right there, look.
All right.
[Rayne] I used to get really jealous of his sister,
his brother, anybody who was out there helping him.
I'd get like, "Oh, that's not fair."
I want to do it. [laughs]
[laughing]
I'm here now, Chidi.
-Yeah. -Right here, Chidi.
Chidi. I'm right here.
[both laughing]
I cannot believe my luck. Rayne is finally here with me.
It's beyond imagination.
Oh! Look at the chicken! Aww!
-What was that? -A chicken.
I want to talk to a little Nigerian chicken. [laughing]
[laughs]
And she's carrying something on her head.
That's cool. I gotta do that.
[Chidi] It is Rayne's personality
to constantly fill the silence
with the sound of her own voice.
Oh my God, he had his thingy out.
[indistinct] thing.
-He was just standing there, hanging out with... -[Chidi laughs]
[Chidi] But I love hearing her perspective
and experiencing the world through her eyes.
[Bernard] All right.
[laughs]
So far, meeting Chidi has been everything I had dreamed for it to be.
-[Bernard] Come in, guys. -[Chidi] We are home.
[Rayne] Step up.
But at the same time,
I'm starting to feel really, really anxious
about staying at his sister's house.
[Chidi speaking]
To be honest, I've always had a strange feeling
about like...
[Rayen] I've talked to his sister
a little bit here and there.
I have nothing against her as a person.
But ever since I was young, I've always had this feeling
about some sort of drama
or something in the future with a man's sister.
I don't know.
[Chidi] There was never an issue in my past.
That's just an intuition that I have,
and most things that I feel deep within
for that long period of time end up coming to fruition.
[Bernard] All right.
Wow. Look who is here.
[al exclaim excitedly]
-[indistinct] -I like your hair.
-Thank you. -Hola, baby.
-Aww, hey, cutie. -Welcome to our home.
Thank you.
-[Bernard] Come right in. -Please come inside.
[Chidi] You can see how beautiful she is.
So beautiful.
More beautiful than I imagined.
-Thank you. -Sit down. Welcome.
Thank you for coming.
Yeah. Thank you. Thank you for inviting me.
[Victoria speaking]
Chidi's happy.
-Chidi's happy. Yes. -Yeah.
-Yeah. I wanna see where Chidi lives. -Yeah. So... [laughs]
[Victoria speaking]
And I will do everything to make her comfortable.
[Chidi] This is my room.
[Rayne] Ooh! Pretty color.
[Chidi] I don't have much, but...
Oh, yeah, it's nice.
-Um... Eh... -Chidi's things.
-[laughter] -Check this out.
Aww. Sexy smile.
-[laughs] -I like those.
[laughing]
[Chidi speaking]
I would almost say that the chemistry between us is magical.
But the truth is that I must remain
steadfast in my vow of celibacy.
They didn't have to do that.
Yeah.
[Ingrid speaking]
[Chidi] But Rayne is not even aware that
we will not be sleeping in the same room.
So I need to tell her tonight before we go to bed.
I just hope she doesn't get upset.
[Rayne] I'm so sticky.
-I need a shower. -Yeah, of course.
[Rayne] That is better.
[grunts]
Chidi.
-You are refreshed now. -Yep.
That's great.
Um, once more, I wanna appreciate you for coming.
I love you so much.
I love you too.
Mmm...
[chuckles]
You have sexy little strong arms there.
-And you... -Nice and strong.
But, um...
I have something to tell you.
So...
I hope you understand.
I know.
[Rayne] I'm trying to be respectful, but I gotta admit,
I feel totally rejected.
Seven thousand miles and five and a half years later,
and he's putting two doors between us.
That hurts. That... that's like stabbing me in the heart.
[Chidi] I love you so much.
[kisses]
[Rayne] I'll let him have his space.
But I'm hoping he just needs some time
to adjust to me being around.
Because I didn't come all the way over here just for me to be alone.
[Chidi speaking]
[Adnan] I can't believe, baby. After maybe 30 minute...
Wait. Why?
Now I'm more nervous.
Adnan keeps springing this new information on me.
It is really starting to hit me
that I am marrying someone
that I just met a few hours ago.
And I'm panicking.
Oh, my gosh.
[upbeat music playing]
[Adnan] Tigerlily. [Tigerlily] Yes, baby.
[Adnan] Hurry up!
Hold on. I'm not ready yet.
You want some help?
Do you know how to do makeup, honey?
[chuckles]
[chuckles] It's okay. I'm almost done.
It's pretty surreal that
it's only been a few hours since I arrived in Jordan
to meet Adnan for the first time.
And now I'm getting ready for the ceremony
where I legally become his wife.
It's all just happening so fast.
Come on.
[Tigerlily] Because Adnan has his brother living with him,
we are staying at a hotel in Jordan
so we can have some privacy.
How is this, baby?
Come here, let me see.
Mm...
Okay. It's okay.
I don't know why Adnan's hesitating,
I mean, I think that I'm completely covered.
But tight.
You cover, but tight, you're showing your body.
-It's tight? -Yeah.
-[Tigerlily] See, I don't know these things. -[Adnan] I know.
Okay.
[Adnan] I can't believe, baby.
After maybe 30 minute,
and you will be my wife, honey.
And after this, I can kiss you and can hug you
and can sleep with you.
[chuckles]
I can't wait.
So, baby, what's gonna happen when we get there?
Are you excited?
-Yeah. -I'm super excited.
I'm just a little bit nervous.
I am nervous, because I don't know,
like, the cultural traditions,
like, am I going to, like,
understand what they're saying.
Mm-hmm.
Wait. Why?
Because, baby, this important moment.
I'm gonna meet your mom?
Like I... I wish I would have known.
I had no idea she was going to be coming.
And my brothers,
I didn't know anyone was going to be there.
Now I'm more nervous.
Adnan has always just said it was going to be
the two of us and his brother as the witness.
Like I can only handle one important thing at a time.
Now I'm stressed.
I'm... panicking.
This changes so much,
meeting your mom is a huge deal for me.
When I meet them,
how do I greet them?
What do I do?
You'll be okay. Everything is fine.
You're nervous about it?
-I am. -I know, baby.
I am forget to told Tigerlily about my family there,
because I have many things to do.
I make all the plan. Make a wedding.
It's a lot of things. It's not easy.
But it's normal to have my family there with us.
Everything is okay.
Trust me, baby.
[Tigerlily] Since landing in Jordan a few hours ago,
Adnan keeps springing this new information on me
with how many kids he wants to have,
where he's planning on living
and now meeting his mom for the first time
with no notice at all.
It's a lot.
[Adnan] We are here.
Oh, my gosh.
It is really starting to hit me
that I am marrying someone
that I just met a few hours ago.
And what I'm about to do is super-permanent.
This could be the biggest mistake of my life.
I mean, maybe I don't want to do it.
[Adnan] Are you ready?
[man] Next time on Before the 90 Days...
[Ingrid speaking foreign language]
Sex is is very important for me in a relationship.
But Ingrid's never had sex with someone in a wheelchair,
so, I hope she can keep an open mind about it.
I took the blue. Half the blue.
You never know. And I don't wanna be unprepared.
[man speaking]
I'm a really shy person.
I had a one girlfriend, but didn't work out.
I'm going to his country to meet him,
but I'm kind of freaking out a little bit.
We have had communication issues.
And if we got into a fight,
like, who am I gonna have there?
You know, nobody.
Your... your ex?
I want to take it slow
because this is my first boyfriend.
This is the first relationship that I have.
[Loren] I understand wanting to take it slow.
But If I plan on staying in the Philippines forever,
I really have to develop this quickly.
-We have 20 days. -Yeah.
That's how long we have, literally.
Yeah.
[Ingrid speaking]
Aww!
So cute.
[Ingrid] What are you trying to buy for?
If you kill that, I'm gonna become
-really pretty freaking violent. -Okay.
[Ingrid speaking]
[Victoria speaking]
It give me concerns.
Let the chicken live.