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But I don't think we're just friends.
Has there been chemistry so far?
-[Loren] This is so nice. -[Faith laughs]
So you're really okay with me meeting your family tomorrow?
[Faith] Yes.
[Loren] Do you think you're going to tell them what I did?
We'll see.
Faith's family's opinion of me is a huge factor
in whether or not me and Faith move forward in this relationship.
And the cheating and the STD
doesn't show me in the best light.
That's gonna be a whole thing.
[chuckling]
[Sunny] You know, we've been fighting.
Getting over the Rory situation,
that's going to be something that takes time.
But right now, I just wanna focus on us.
This is kind of what we needed, you know.
[in Portuguese]
[Ingrid] Hmm.
[Brian] Ingrid warned me about her parents,
but I didn't think someone could be that rude.
[in Portuguese]
I mean, I don't even know how me and Ingrid can have
a meaningful relationship
if her parents don't accept me.
You are the biggest scammer I've ever come across.
You wanna play me off for a freaking fool?
You're gonna be nothing now
but a bitch to me. Do you understand that?
[bleep]
He should have never told me that he loved me.
[woman] What was the reason for quitting her job?
[Joe speaking]
My girlfriend, Magda, has been extremely direct
with her intentions.
I did not expect her to say that the day before I leave to Poland.
Maybe there are some more red flags
than I've been willing to see.
[line ringing]
[Veah chuckles]
Our skin colors complement each other.
[Sunny] Yeah, it's nice.
We needed a cute, romantic night.
Yeah, I totally feel more connected now.
[Sunny speaking]
We was making the bed breaking.
Like we were trying our best to break the bed.
Three times.
-Uh... -Okay.
[Veah chuckles]
[Sunny speaking]
[chuckles softly]
Smiling is talking. I don't need you to say much.
[Veah chuckles]
I'm shying to talk about.
You knew a lot of things.
And you make me to not feel innocent anymore.
You were never innocent.
That did not come across as someone that didn't know what they were doing.
Last night, we get super busy.
I think probably we didn't even sleep.
Probably we slept at four.
Because we was busy working for each other.
As a man, I did work harder.
That's the man's job to work harder
and she was the passenger.
-[Veah] Shall we get up and get ready? -[Sunny] Okay, baby,
Oh. Okay.
[Sunny speaking]
Hey, babe, I'm going to need your help.
I don't know which one to wear.
Choose the color for me.
This one.
-Do you like it? -Yeah.
It's the same colors of yours.
Okay. Let me wear that.
I wanted to ask you something.
-Yeah, babe. -Um...
Do you think right now
you would be willing to meet Rory?
I just think because we did have such a good time,
now would be the time.
Like I kind of reassured you that I was all about you.
Like we are in such a good headspace now together that
now would be the time to meet up with him.
And it would mean a lot to me if you would meet Rory.
-I understand. -[Sunny] Thank you.
I'm not ready to meet Rory, be honest,
but I just wanna make her happy.
Like if that's what she wants.
Okay. Let me. Why not I should try for her?
I'll text Rory right now and let him know.
[Sunny speaking]
[Sunny] Hey, taxi.
[Veah] Oh, this is it.
How are you feeling?
Babe, uh, honestly, I'm feeling totally weird.
Like seeing an ex-boyfriend,
I never done that. I'm feeling so nervous.
And I don't know, am I gonna be able to control myself
to not feel anything?
You just have to think of us as friends.
And not my ex-boyfriend.
But I have to see it on my own eyes
that that's what is exactly you guys are.
And I wanna see how, when you are with me
and he is also here, how you react.
Like, are you reacting like as my girlfriend
or are you gonna give him more priority than me?
Like I want to see, like, who you're taking seriously.
[Veah] Do you feel like I put more trust in Rory?
Yeah, you do.
[Sunny speaking]
But I am worried that when I'm gonna see him,
how I'm gonna actually going to really react.
Like, I just want you to be calm
and understanding going into this.
I don't want you to freak out
because I know you get really jealous easily.
[Sunny speaking]
I wanna ask him few questions.
Like, "What do you want, man?
Why you're here in my city and with your ex-girlfriend?"
I don't wanna be that jealous boyfriend...
[line ringing]
[voice mail] Hi...
[line ringing]
[Joe on phone] Hello?
Hey, Joey, where are you?
[Joe] Oh, [bleep].
[producer] Okay.
Okay. [bleep]
Let's go. I gotta pack.
[Joe grunts in frustration]
Oh, [bleep].
Oh, God, it's not good.
This is [bleep] up.
[Joe] Today I'm leaving for Poland.
Really not off to a good start.
I overslept.
I haven't even started packing.
All my [bleep] is everywhere.
I don't know where to start.
Let me think about it.
It's gonna be cold there, right?
The kimono. Should I bring it?
It's badass, right?
Why? How much time do we have?
[producer speaking]
Oh. [bleep] I kind of still have to poop so...
[bleep] Probably shouldn't be joking around.
It's like the slightest thing can distract me,
but I really cannot miss this flight.
[grunts]
Very stressful packing in 10 minutes.
Ever since I met Magda five months ago,
we've dreamt of this day together.
She's made all these arrangements.
She got the dog a babysitter.
If I don't make this flight,
she's gonna be really pissed.
[sighs in exasperation]
[sighs] I think we'll be okay.
[line ringing]
Hello?
[Magda] Hi. How are you doing?
I overslept.
Um, so I was like, two hours late.
That is why I didn't pick up the phone.
I was sleeping.
[Magda speaking]
I was up all night, stressed out
and I did not expect to fall asleep.
Of course, I'll take this seriously.
I'm coming to Poland, aren't I?
-I'll get to you. Don't worry. -[Magda] Okay.
Okay. Love you. Have a good day.
[Magda] I love you too.
-Bye. -Bye.
I'm feeling nervous, a little anxious.
This trip has a lot riding on it.
It's a lot, a lot of pressure.
Definitely doing my best to not get overwhelmed
with the amount of serious [bleep] we have to discuss.
Our marriage, kids, visas. It's just a lot to take in.
And then on top of everything else,
the real icing on the cake would be Magda telling me
she doesn't wanna have sex on this trip.
I mean, it'd be very difficult for me
to plan the rest of my life,
you know, without knowing if we're sexually compatible
and especially her telling me the day before we leave.
Just a lot to to think about.
Oh, my God. Can we turn around?
I forgot one thing. I'm so sorry.
[bleep]
It might be my passport on the counter.
Oh, God.
I'm on a roll this morning. I'm on a roll.
[grunts in frustration]
I know we have to get to the airport
three hours early for international flights.
Be right there.
[bleep]
I already passed the three hour window,
so I'm starting to freak out.
Oh, this is [bleep] up.
Okay.
There's definitely a chance I don't make this flight.
How late are we?
[Joe] God damn it!
What the hell? Well, he's been talking to you for all these months.
He knows what you look like.
And now he decided he's not attracted to you?
[Vanja] Emotions are running all over the place.
Obviously, your mind is always going to wonder
what's going on.
[Sanela] What is he hiding?
Maybe his ex-girlfriend is still in the picture.
If she tells me she's happy with you
and then yeah, I can respect that.
[Sunny] How do you feel about that?
What do you feel?
I don't want Rory to go home.
[upbeat music playing]
[line ringing]
-[Ingrid on phone] Hi. -Hi. How are you?
[Ingrid] I'm fine. Good morning.
Good morning. I'm here.
[in Portuguese]
Yay!
[Brian] I only have a few days left in Brazil,
and we're flying out to Recife today
to spend the rest of our time on a beautiful beach.
[in Portuguese]
I first went to Recife about five years ago,
and I loved it so much
I decided to stay for three years.
[in Portuguese]
Yesterday was very strange in meeting Ingrid's mom
and I'm worried that this will affect our relationship.
[in Portuguese]
[Brian] I'm eager to get a change of scenery
and get out of Gurupi.
Even though it hasn't rained,
I just feel like there's a cloud over me here.
It's time to go.
[in Portuguese]
I'm really relieved that Ingrid's not relying solely
on her parent's approval,
but it still makes me nervous.
The only person that Ingrid's parents have
approved of is her ex-husband
and Italo's father is always gonna be in Ingrid's life.
[in Portuguese]
I mean, I'm feeling the pressure right now.
At this point, the clock is ticking away
and I've got a few days left
and we got to solidify this relationship
before anything moves on.
Definitely happy. Definitely excitement.
-Yeah? -Yes.
Let's go.
Let's go. Let's go.
[upbeat music playing]
[Ingrid speaking in Portuguese]
[in Portuguese]
[Brian] Here in Recife,
I'll be staying at the same apartment
that I stayed when I lived in Recife,
because it's more accessible for me.
But Ingrid asked for her own hotel room
so she can have privacy and space.
I do understand the pressure and the problems
that we went through staying at the same hotel.
But I feel disappointed because me and Ingrid
definitely have a limited time to connect.
And being intimate is definitely a part of that.
So I do hope that she grows comfortable enough
to stay with me.
There's nothing I want more
than to be able to leave Brazil
knowing that me and Ingrid
will continue our relationship.
So this trip will be very telling for us.
And then the doors open,
I came out and I saw Bozo
and he was standing with this.
[laughs] I was just like, "What is that?"
[Vanja] He gave me a plant.
And I actually thought it was sweet
because it's a live plant with a pot,
so it's gonna keep living.
It's not going to die. [laughs]
I know, I know.
But at least while I'm here, it can keep me company.
[chuckles]
Yesterday was a bit of a rough day.
Emotions are running all over the place,
and I just feel like I need someone to talk to.
So I decided to call my cousin.
I haven't talked to her this entire time
that I've been here in Croatia
and I wanted to get her perspective
about the situation with Bozo.
So he planned a cooking class for me,
-and that was so sweet. -Oh.
So here's the crappy part.
He said he doesn't have
a romantic attraction to me right now.
Yeah, that was my reaction.
[Sanela] What is he doing?
I don't know. Like that hit me so hard.
I actually ended up breaking down and crying.
[exhales]
He's facetimed you.
He's been talking to you for all these months.
He knows what you look like.
He seemed like he was head over heels over you.
And now he decides he's not attracted to you?
What the hell?
[Vanja] And then he wants to see
whether or not the physical aspect of it
can change for him and I get it.
You know, sometimes it can be hard
when you first meet somebody.
-You know, you have to just feel that over time. -Yeah.
I know you like him. You saw his picture.
You've been talking to him.
You guys have, something's are common.
And you have that connection to him.
Um, but do you remember, Vanja,
he's been always somewhat inconsistent.
He will be hot. He will be cold.
What? What is he hiding?
I don't know.
Maybe, I don't know, because he plays basketball,
maybe he's got a lot of girls liking him.
And I can't help but wonder like if he's hiding something,
if his ex-girlfriend is still in the picture.
[Vanja] Two months ago, Bozo ended things with me
because he was dating somebody
for a period of time and she was a local.
He said that they dated in the past as well.
So I kind of understood.
But they broke up and he came back to me.
Bozo did not share details about the split,
and I also did not want to ask
because I felt like,
all right, this happened.
It's in the past now. We're moving on.
But I did think about his ex from time to time
because, you know, obviously your mind
is always going to wonder what's going on.
And get this.
Today, Bozo texted me.
He still wants me to meet his friends.
That's good.
That's a good sign.
I would like to hear from their mouths what he said.
Like, are we in a relationship or what's going on?
Yeah, I want to know if he even told his friends about you
and how he talked about you.
I think that's the questions you need to ask his friends.
-Yeah. - [Sanela] And what were the reasons for breakup?
[Vanja] Yeah.
I'm hoping that things will change with more time.
I'm no longer just a person that he talks to online.
I'm here in real life,
and maybe he just needs some time to adjust.
And I'm hoping to get a little bit more insight
by meeting his friends.
But I have been hurt so many times in the past,
every situation that I've put myself in
I ended up walking away heartbroken,
and it takes time to recover from that.
And I don't know.
It's just a lot to take in.
It's a lot to process.
[Sanela] So he's got a couple more weeks
to get his act together
and realize who you are and how lucky he is.
And if he doesn't, he's not worth it.
[in Filipino]
Oh. Okay.
[Faith] My family all seem to be charmed by Loren
but they don't know what's really going on.
[in Filipino]
[in English]
[in Filipino]
[soft music playing]
Mind's racing, body's racing, one last look outside.
I will be leaving very soon.
♪♪ Your love is sweet ♪
♪♪ I want it but I know it's not good for me ♪
♪♪ You're no good for me ♪
Thank you.
[Rayne] I have all my belongings packed,
and now I'm headed to the airport.
I feel sick, like nauseated,
and I thought we were gonna be married
and forever together
and to turn out we're gonna end up hating each other,
it's really heartbreaking.
I am numb right now.
I mean, deep down, I am angry.
Obviously, he had some stupid things to say about me.
But even though he had stupid things, which I had no idea
he even had in his mind in the first place surprised me.
It's like, why the hell did you invite me over?
Why did you lead me on?
Why did you tell me you love me?
It's a bunch of bull.
Like, why are you keep talking like that?
You know what I mean?
And I felt a horrible energy for some reason.
And then I noticed Victoria out there
and then I understood
why the heck I had that feeling.
It was a very, very dark energy.
I will miss Chidi because
I know it wasn't completely all on him.
Like I know that Chidi wanted me.
But there's a force that he's too weak to come out of,
you know, like he's too weak to break from.
[Rayne speaking]
And wanted him.
And how much I wanted to be there.
But I'm not gonna come back to somebody
who treated me as bad as they did
because it shows that he listened to family and friends...
[Victoria] Are you okay?
[Chidi speaking]
I'm grateful she came.
I appreciate her for all her sacrifice.
But it was so shocking that it went that way.
Rayne is not good for you.
So let her go.
[Chidi] Yes, it's painful, but it's better for us.
We can't keep
doing the same thing and expect a different result.
No. It's better we quit.
It's better we just go our separate ways.
[Chidi] It's quite unfortunate,
but that is what it is.
[Rayne] Honestly, he's not the Chidi that I remember.
Like I have to let him go.
I have to have my own funeral for him
because that's not Chidi so...
To me, Chidi's dead and gone, honestly.
There's the smile, there's the body you fell for,
but the inside is like gone.
-[security] Hi, welcome. -Hi, thank you.
Thank you.
[soft music playing]
[Rayne speaking]
I think eventually Chidi will try to reach out to me.
He always tries.
There's no hold on me.
[Rayne speaking]
When I think about this trip,
as much as I've been through that pain,
this was really a big step for me.
Back home like I never leave my farm.
But I traveled all the way to Nigeria on my own.
[Rayne speaking]
[soft music playing]
What I'm taking away from all of this is that
the love that I have felt from my kids and my chickens,
is a love that is so strong you can't cause pain. You know what I mean?
So it's like I still have the light. I still have the love.
I still have the hope.
I think the right person is out there somewhere.
I'd rather move on from this species.
If there's an alien, a high tech monkey
or anything else that exists out there,
I'd rather give it the time of day
than another person.
Because I deserve better. [chuckles] So...
[soft music playing]
What gifts do you think
we should bring to your family?
Dried fish? I know that's popular.
Which of these did you eat growing up the most?
-Squid. -[Loren] Okay.
[in Filipino]
-Perfect. -Thank you.
[Loren] I guess one broom. What color?
[in Filipino]
[Loren] Does your family use wood when they're cooking?
-[Faith] Yeah. -[Loren] And then one wood?
[in Filipino]
You know that I have enough, right?
-Yeah. It's enough. -Oh, okay.
[upbeat music playing]
-What? -I'm sorry.
[Loren] Today's the day I'm gonna meet Faith's family.
This is a very important day for both of us.
Faith has got to be just ecstatic
to see her family again after a year.
And then for me,
if I want to be with Faith forever,
it's important that I can make a good impression on them.
Jumpy.
I don't know what her family
is gonna think about our relationship,
but I'm hoping that if it goes well,
then maybe I can get out of the friend zone.
[upbeat music playing]
[Faith] We're here.
[Loren] You think your family gonna like the gifts?
-It's good? -[Faith] They're gonna like it.
[Loren] Okay.
[in Filipino]
Miss you!
[in Filipino]
You want it? Okay.
You got it?
-So this is my mom. -Yeah.
This is Loren.
-Hi, Loren. -[Loren] Hello.
And this is Abigail
and this is my two brothers.
-They are twins. -[Loren] Yeah.
And of course, this is my beautiful trans sister.
-Bea. -Nice to meet you.
[chuckling]
[Faith speaking]
-So you can follow me. -Okay.
[Faith speaking]
This is my house.
So you can sit down here.
Squid?
-Squid? -[Faith] Yeah.
[in Filipino]
Yeah.
[Faith] Do you know what " Guapo" means?
-Yeah. -What?
-No. -[Loren] No?
-"Guapo" is handsome. -[Bea] Handsome guy.
[Loren laughs]
[in Filipino]
-[Abigail] Let's eat. -Let's eat everybody.
So they are plate and this food is a vegetable.
There's the pork and that's what we call...
Yeah. I eat everything.
-Right? So... -Yeah.
[in Filipino]
Faith's mom, she made like a mixed vegetable.
I would have chosen like slightly different flavors.
Not that it was bland. It had flavor.
It felt like it was missing like a little something.
Maybe something Filipinoey.
But, you know, I would never complain.
[in Filipino]
Yeah.
[in Filipino]
[in English]
[in Filipino]
-Of course. -Did you understand?
I know that one.
[in Filipino]
She's not a girl, you know.
Mm-hmm. Yeah.
I only like trans women.
You don't like look like a man. You like trans?
[Loren] Yeah. Only women.
No regular women, no boys, only trans women.
[in Filipino]
[Faith] When I was young, my mom always told me
not to have a boyfriend because, you know,
it's hard to find a man
who wants a real and honest relationship
for a trans woman like me.
So it's a big deal that Loren's meeting my family,
and I know my family wants to make sure
his intentions are good.
[in Filipino]
My sister asked if your family knows that you are here
and meeting me as a transgender or a ladyboy.
Uh, my mom, she don't like
that I like trans.
-She's... -Against everything?
-[Loren] But I don't care. -Yeah.
-Because I love Faith, right? -[Bea] Yeah.
[Loren] She is my life.
She's gonna be accepted no matter what.
You love Faith as your wife someday?
She has to say yes.
[in Filipino]
For me, it's yes.
My family all seemed to be happy and charmed by Loren.
But they don't know what's really going on.
When will you decide you'll be together?
[in Filipino]
To build trust for each other.
It's very important to trust, right?
That's right.
[in Filipino]
[Joe] Gracias, mi amor.
On my way to Poland.
I have less than an hour to get on that plane.
[bleep]
There's a huge line in security,
and I don't know if I'm gonna make it in time.
It's not good. It's not good at all.
[dramatic music playing]
[Joe] Gracias, mi amor.
[bleep]
I have less than an hour to get on that plane.
There's a huge line at security at my gate.
As far as, [bleep].
And I don't know if I'm gonna make it in time.
Not good.
It's not good. It's not good at all.
I just got through security.
I gotta catch the flight.
I think it's boarding in like 10 minutes,
which is pretty cool.
So we're gonna run. We're gonna run.
We here.
Thank God. Somehow I made it to my gate in time.
So I'm officially on my way to Poland
to meet Magda for the first time.
I am super excited.
A little nervous, a little anxiety.
Maybe some butterflies.
It's been a little rocky with Magda the last few days
after she found out I slept with someone else
when we first started talking.
I'm just hoping that after, you know, me and Magda
meet in person, she'll realize that
she has nothing to worry about
and this will work itself out.
Okay. We are on the plane going to Poland.
This could be the beginning of a brand new chapter in my life.
I'm a little freaked out
by how fast everything is moving.
But I'm definitely as ready as I'll ever be.
[mouthing]
[upbeat music playing]
[in Polish]
Oh, yeah.
My name is Magda, and I'm 23 years old
and I'm from Bedzin in Poland.
-[man cheering] -[woman] Bravo!
Volleyball. It's my life.
[Magda speaking]
[chuckles]
[Magda speaking]
[growling]
He's my best friend. I go everywhere with him.
I'm training him to be good for people,
for kids and never hurt anyone.
[in Polish]
Another hand.
Yeah, just one person.
So he bite him...
[Magda] Last year I started to work at the prison
like a prison guard.
I know how to shoot. I know how to kill people
in a few minutes.
[upbeat music playing]
[chuckles]
I just saw something in his eyes.
After a few days talking,
I know I don't want to date anyone but him.
And I feel like he's gonna be my future husband.
Let's go. Let's go.
I'm 100% sure I want to marry him
and have a family with him
and tomorrow Joey's coming to Poland,
So I'm so excited to see him.
I can't wait.
♪♪ I do everything for me now ♪
♪♪ Spirit feeling free now ♪
♪♪ Have to go in deep now ♪
♪♪ Make it back to me now ♪
[in Polish]
[Magda] Every Sunday, I'm going to my mom,
to her house,
to eat something, to speak with her.
[in Polish]
My mom is like my best friend.
She knows everything.
I don't have like secrets from her.
[in Polish]
My last ex-boyfriend used to live in Germany.
So after three months of dating,
I moved for him to Germany,
but it didn't last long.
He was always going out,
and I find out he was cheating on me
with his ex-girlfriend.
[in Polish]
I have issues to trust, and I can't be hurt again.
So we have to talk about a lot of things
when we will be together face to face.
And if I will find out, Joey will lie to me about anything.
[in Polish]
So what kind of girls did Bozo used to date in the past?
No [bleep].
[upbeat music playing]
[Vanja] I've been looking through everything.
What's the right outfit?
Yeah. I just want to make sure that I wear the right stuff
because tonight is a little bit
of an important evening.
Tonight, I'm getting to meet
Bozo's friends for the first time.
And my mind is all over the place.
I don't know if there's still hope for us or not.
I'm really anxious to meet all of his friends tonight
because I just really don't know what to expect.
I mean, I don't even know if he's told them about me.
I really don't know what I'm walking into tonight, to be honest.
In any relationship, meeting friends is a very big deal.
And the fact that Bozo is introducing me to his friends
means a lot like he's leaving the door open
for the possibility of our relationship growing.
So I'm being hopeful.
-[knock on door] -[Bozo] Miss Pink?
[Vanja] Come on in.
-Thank you. -Wow.
So I've been trying to get ready for tonight.
I'm picking up my clothes.
Is this okay?
None of these other ones? This is good.
-Okay. -I love this.
All right. You put it on me.
Here. Put it that way.
Here we go.
[Bozo] I feel bad that Vanja and I haven't exactly
had the best romantic time and stuff.
It is confusing for me
because on online we just clicked.
Like Fred and Barney, like Rocky and Bullwinkle,
like Thelma and Louis.
but in person, I don't know what it is,
she's just different.
I'm hoping that I just need time
and things will change.
Sorry. How do you feel? All good?
-Did you sleep good? -Well, there's a lot on my mind.
So it's a lot of emotions to process through.
Hey, you cannot believe how bad I feel.
I really didn't want to make you cry
or hurt your feelings or whatever.
I'm so happy that you're here in Croatia.
Well, I appreciate that.
-Yeah. -I appreciate that.
Yeah.
-Okay. -Okay.
Okay. I think we're ready.
Yeah.
I'm excited and nervous and anxious.
But hopefully your friends are cool.
[Vanja laughs] Smurfs.
[Vanja] God, I love these streets.
They're just not made for heels.
Yeah. If I fall, you'd better protect me.
Yeah.
-This way? -This way.
Here they are. Hello.
What's up? What's up? What's up?
Hi. Hi. Hi. Vanja.
Nice to meet you.
Vanja. Nice to meet you.
Hi. Vanya. Nice to meet you.
Wow. Yeah, I see.
The flight was a problem.
I got delayed a couple of times.
So it took a little longer
to pick me up from the airport.
That's it.
For me--
No. [laughs]
I feel like he definitely looks better in real life
than he does in the picture.
Thank you.
So what kind of girls did Bozo used to date in the past?
Ooh.
I'm interested in your answer as well.
[all laughing]
No [bleep].
I don't know if that's good or bad.
Personality and stuff.
Last week we were talking with Bozo.
He did mention he met a girl online
and that she's coming to visit.
We were surprised that she came all the way over here
to meet Bozo being a full package
with the appearance, personality.
Wow.
-Because she's so new to me-- -Look I'm still shaking over that. Look at that.
Whoa!
[upbeat music playing]
[Brian imitating fanfare]
[in Portuguese]
[Brian] Today is our first day in Recife
and it's amazing waking up in one of my favorite Brazilian cities.
[in Portuguese]
[Brian] It was definitely a bummer to sleep alone last night.
But I'm looking forward to taking her around Recife,
and I hope she considers staying with me tonight.
That'd be huge.
[in Portuguese]
[upbeat music playing]
I'm ready.
Cheers.
[in Portuguese]
Mm.
[in Portuguese]
I need a partner.
[in Portuguese]
[Brian] I know that people don't get into a relationship
to become a caregiver.
But at the same time as I get older,
being in a wheelchair...
I will need more assistance with things,
and I do understand that it's not easy
for that person that's gonna be with me.
But I do believe when you love somebody,
through thick and thin,
you do what you need to do for them.
And I'm not sure if Ingrid has that in her.
[Joe] It is very surreal that I'm here.
There's a lot riding on this trip
and will probably play a huge role in the rest of my life.
[Joe] Oh [bleep].
Yeah. You know what?
I'm just I'm [bleep] done with this.
[in sing-song voice] Germany, Germany.
We are going through Germany.
We're going to Poland.
It's gonna be crazy.
Trying to meet my lady.
[grunts]
I'm gonna meet Magda.
Wow.
Very excited.
[chuckles]
Taking off. Two hours before I see Magda.
Two hours.
♪♪ ...peachy Oh, that's so easy ♪
♪♪ Even if it isn't ♪
♪♪ Keep it easy-breezy ♪
♪♪ Oh, if it ain't peachy Oh, that's so easy ♪
♪♪ Honestly, I think you're reaching out Keeping it peachy ♪
[Magda speaking]
So I had a plan to booking an apartment
and stay a few days alone with him in Krakow
to explore and have a romantic time.
I don't know what he will say to me
if he's gonna kiss me.
[chuckles]
[upbeat music playing]
[bleep]
We're in Krakow.
I'm going to see Magda.
A little more nervous now that we're here.
[Magda gasps] He's already here.
I can't believe in that.
My heart is beating too fast.
[Joe] I got to get my bag, but I'm getting close.
This is crazy.
It is very surreal that I'm here.
If you told me a year ago,
I'd be in a Krakow airport
meeting a girl, I would not believe it.
Going to meet the woman of my dreams.
There's a lot riding on this trip and uh,
it'll probably play a huge role
in the rest of my life, whatever happens with it.
[Magda] I didn't see him yet.
Too much emotion right now.
[gasps]
[chuckles softly]
Oh, [bleep].
-You show everyone my ass. -I'm sorry. I can't help it.
How are you? You look amazing.
Very beautiful.
[Joe] To be here with her is beautiful.
She looks amazing.
I felt like I looked better than she expected.
[Magda] I didn't expect he would smell good,
but he smelled really good
even after 15 hours flight.
I put cologne on.
Why wouldn't you want to jump on me, huh?
Tan. Wow.
-[Magda] Wow. -[Joe] Wow.
Beach volleyball got you a little tan.
I like that.
[Magda speaking]
I feel empty before he come,
and now I feel like...
You feel complete.
It feels good. It feels natural.
I'm really happy you made it.
You know, I had my alarm set early,
and I woke up just in time.
Mm-hmm.
In time.
I woke up just in the nick of time
and I made the flight.
And you make me a little stressed.
Yeah, but that's cute.
Cute stress.
Cute stress?
It's not a cute stress.
I'm waiting for you five months.
I know.
It'll be worth it.
-Yeah? -Yeah.
-Are you sure? -I'm sure.
I'm positive.
Don't be stressed. I'm here.
Okay.
Let's go.
[Magda] I'm so happy to finally be with Joey.
We're in Poland.
So he has to prove me he will love me.
He wanna be with me and he'll take care of me.
If I didn't wanna be with you, I wouldn't be here.
I'd be with someone else.
I want to trust him. I love him.
And we will see what will happen in this trip.
I feel like we're gonna be okay.
I hope so.
Wait. Is this for me?
[in Polish]
[in English]
[Magda speaking]
[in Filipino]
[upbeat music playing]
[in Filipino]
This one's beef.
Okay.
It's going great. Enjoying my little island trip
of fun with my girl Faith.
And she's with her sisters right now.
You know, first time she's seen her family in, like a year.
So I'm happy she's able to just go out and do her own little thing.
Yeah.
I'm trying to be hopeful and positive
because her family really did seem to like me yesterday.
But I'm sure when she talks to her sisters,
she's gonna tell them that I was sleeping with other women
and got gonorrhea, and I don't know
how they're gonna react to that,
but I feel like Faith's family completely controls
the outcome of our relationship.
So I'm scared to see what's gonna happen.
[quacking]
[rooster crows]
[Faith] Hello!
Hi!
[in Filipino]
Today, I want to spend some alone time
with my sister to talk about Loren.
I'm happy that I've been getting closer
and that he made a good impression to my family.
But after this cheating,
[in Filipino]
[Abigail] One year.
That's what you said earlier.
[in Filipino]
[Faith speaking]
[in Filipino]
[upbeat music playing]
Who broke up in that situation?
You or her?
Ah!
When Bozo says that he's not
harboring feelings for his ex-girlfriend,
I don't know how much I believe that,
but if he's telling the truth,
That means there's something else
on his mind that's making the situation between us awkward.
What he told me is that he's wanting us to give it
a little bit more time to see
if the physical connection develops.
[Vanja] I'm already booked here for three weeks.
Thank you. I invited him to stay in my apartment,
on the couch. He didn't even have to stay in my bed.
And he wouldn't.
Thank you guys.
Don't worry about three weeks.
[bleep]
I just wanted this to be a fun night.
Great time. Great talk.
But somehow it became totally opposite.
[Bozo speaking]
Holy [bleep].
Yeah. You know what? I'm [bleep] done with this.
[Vanja sobs]
I put my life on pause
to give her the opportunity to [bleep] meet you.
Do you think I'm [bleep] happy to see you?
-I don't care. -[Sunny] Do you think I'm [bleep] comfortable
-to see you? -I [bleep] don't care if you are or not.
You're some dude that she met
on the [bleep] Internet.
[upbeat music playing]
I got a message from Veah
that they're back together
and she wants me to meet Sunny.
I mean, I guess I'm happy to meet him,
just to get a feel for him.
My end goal here
would just be making sure she's okay.
She's safe around Sunny and she is happy.
My biggest concern would probably be
just his overall attitude.
Cause he's gonna see that her and I are pretty close.
And if I feel like he's being disrespectful,
I'll just react on that.
So he better not come in hot. [laughs]
[Sunny speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
Hi, Rory. This is Sunny.
Sunny, this is Rory.
What's up, man?
Heard a lot about you.
Yeah, I did also a lot about you.
You guys want to shoot some pool?
[Sunny] Yeah. Maybe you can go first.
[Rory] Okay.
Yeah, that's Rory.
I don't know.
[Veah] Oh. Good job.
-Thank you, baby. -[Veah] Your stripes.
What have you guys been getting into?
Anything fun?
Yeah. We're trying to have fun.
So are you having fun?
Yeah, man, I've just been sightseeing.
Trying to stay busy.
How are you guys doing?
You're battling?
I know me being here caused problems,
but I apologize for that.
[Sunny] So what makes you to come here?
[Rory] She asked me to.
If I know her, she wouldn't have gotten on that plane.
No.
She don't have faith in herself.
It's her first time in a foreign country.
She doesn't know what to expect.
She's not experienced.
[Sunny] Yeah. I understand that.
But you see in our culture
doesn't allow to have a relationship
with a ex-boyfriend.
It's like totally bull [bleep].
I'm being honest.
It's totally bull [bleep] here.
If she tells me she's happy with you
and doesn't need me in the country,
then yeah, I can respect that.
[Sunny] How you feel about that?
What do you feel?
I don't want Rory to go home.
I'm still scared because of the fight we had the other day.
-About what? -And 'm scared that there
-might be more fights like that. -Okay.
So I just feel better
-if Rory stays in South Africa. -Okay, okay.
What is the reason we had a fight?
This gentleman.
[Veah] I don't wanna fight with you.
I just want you guys to get along.
So why did...
You see, I just ask you to leave her alone
and how she react and how she reply.
That means her friendship
is more important than relationship.
Can you see that or not?
No, that's not true.
That's something between
you and her that you got to talk about.
No. But you need to see that you're not supposed to be here.
I'm not the [bleep] problem.
-You're the -You're the [bleep] problem here.
Be honest, you're the [bleep] problem here.
Not me.
So do you think I'm [bleep] happy to see you?
-I don't care. -[Sunny] Do you think I'm [bleep] comfortable
-to see you? -I [bleep] don't care if you are or not.
You're some dude she met on the [bleep] Internet.
I put my life on pause
to give her the opportunity to meet you.
[Sunny] That doesn't make sense.
[bleep] Appreciate that.
Rory, you don't need to call him names.
You guys just need to calm down.
-No. I'm asking are you safe or not? -[Veah] What happens when
you literally threaten to break up with me?
I want you to bring you here.
To be with you right now.
You need to choose what you want.
I'm not sending Rory home.
So [bleep] it.
-Be with yourself. -Babe, come back.
-No, I'm not doing that. Bye. -Babe? Babe?
-Babe? -He's here. He's gonna help you.
-Don't worry. -Sunny.
-Leave me alone. -[Veah] Sunny!
[Sunny] Leave me alone.
-Sunny. -No, go to your ex.
[bleep]
Sunny!
[Vanja] Next time on Before The 90 Days...
[Faith] ♪♪ Jingle bells Jingle bells ♪
♪♪ Jingle all the way ♪
[Loren] I came here to build a future with Faith,
and so as much as I'd like to just be happy,
we are on a tight timeline,
and we need to start thinking about what comes next.
I'm here only for you in the whole Philippines.
And I do love you so much.
[Faith] Yes, I know.
[Loren] So, am I still friend Loren
or should I be boyfriend Loren?
Is it more difficult to get divorced in America
than it is separated here in Brazil?
Chicago is easier. It's an easier process.
[in Portuguese]
I mean, she never really asked
how many times I've been married,
so I really haven't lied about it.
But I don't understand why it matters.
And I wish she would judge me for my current actions
and not my past.
We're trying to have the knocking ceremony in a few days.
The thing is, I'm not ready to get married yet.
-I will have to come back on the next trip. -No, no, no.
[bleep]
Yeah, but it was, like, meaningless.
You know I love you.
I don't want to lose you.
[bleep]
Please. It's too much for me.
[Sunny speaking]
[sobs]
First he tells me I'm just a friend.
Then he tells me all we'll see
if the physical develops or not.
What's going on?
I mean, I just feel like I was played a fool.
She's amazing. What are you doing?
Let me ask you something.