[narrator] Previously on Before 90 Days...
-[honks] -[all laughing]
I'm here only for you in the whole Philippines,
out of the whole world.
And I do love you so much.
So, am I still friend Loren, or can I be boyfriend Loren?
-For real? -For real.
[Faith speaking]
I need to take my coat off. It's so hot.
It's frustrating that Adnan keeps prioritizing his roles over me.
I have to change my swimwear,
but you're not willing to change your swimwear.
But even after I do everything that you ask of me,
and now I'm asking you to do something,
are you telling me yes or no?
I don't remember the day. I really don't.
I'm really sorry I disappointed you.
I don't wanna be friends. So, this is it.
I'm right back where I started eight months ago,
alone in Croatia.
Thank you for nothing,
because this was a horrible experience.
Okay, [bleep].
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[Niles] So, Matilda wants me to pay for this big, expensive party.
And from what I have learned from Mr. Arc,
it's not traditional to do that.
I'm beginning to think that Matilda's trying to take advantage of me.
And knocking is supposed to be a smaller affair.
Why then did you tell me I needed to have a ceremony for 90 people?
I don't, I don't really get it.
Stop talking right this instant.
[Matilda speaking]
[Loren] This way?
-[Faith speaking Filipino] -[Loren speaking Filipino]
[Faith] This way? This way, sir?
-[Loren] This way, ma'am. -[both chuckle]
[Faith] I really love enjoy I'm spending together with my family.
I also like spending time with your family,
and it was very fun.
But I didn't get to spend as much time as I wanted.
I wish we could've done more.
Faith and I just got back from Leyte.
We're here in Manila.
I feel like going to Leyte and meeting her family
really made Faith change her opinion
of all the things that I have said and done
in a positive direction.
Thankfully, today is my last day
of gonorrhea medication,
but I still have to go to the doctor
and make sure it's gone.
But hopefully, in the near future,
me and Faith can have a physical relationship.
I am sad I have to leave soon.
But I guess I'm gonna be more sad when I have to leave you.
-[Faith] Mmm. -But it's not the Philippines, it's you.
-[Faith] Mmm. -This is amazing.
That's right, with you.
-I don't care about the Philippines. -[Faith chuckles]
I care about you.
I know, I care about the Philippines,
but without you, I don't care, like, it's not...
It's just another place.
You make it special.
I couldn't imagine forgiving Loren
for cheating and hurting me so much.
But I'm starting to let my guard down.
-Hello. -[Faith] Hello.
Come inside.
So, what's the news?
Do you have a good news for me?
[Loren] I think so.
So, I went to the clinic,
and so they handed me, like, two sticks,
and then they had me pee in a cup.
So, are you sure that you didn't have any gonorrhea?
[Loren] I hope so. You tell me.
That's good, no additional treatment recommended.
-Congratulation. -We did it.
-[laughs] -[Loren] Yeah. Yeah.
[Faith speaking]
[laughs]
So, what we can do now?
[Loren] We can do anything.
So, maybe we can drink tonight?
-[Loren] Sure, we can go anywhere. -Oh.
-[Faith] Yeah, and I'm so excited to drink. -Oh, yeah?
-Yeah, with you. -[Loren laughs]
-Actually, together with my friends. -Oh, really?
-[Faith] Mmm-hmm. -Okay, we can do that.
Yes, we can see that.
[Loren] Now that I have the all clear letter from the clinic,
I'm excited for what tonight might bring for me and Faith.
-[Faith] See you later. -See you.
[Loren] But I do feel the pressure,
because we only have a few more days
before I go back to the US, and we haven't even kissed.
-[Faith] Okay, bye, see you. -[Loren] Bye.
[Loren] You really do look amazing.
[Faith laughs] Really?
-[Loren] Yeah. -[Faith] Thank you.
So, in America, if you were to go to, like,
different parts of America,
the drag shows are all different.
So, I'm guessing the drag shows in the Philippines
are gonna be different than the drag shows in Las Vegas.
[Loren] Maybe I'll get a job there.
I'll just walk to the dressing room
and start getting them dressed.
See if they stop me.
[Faith] Tonight, I'm going to introduce Loren
to my best friends at the drag club.
I'm excited because drag show is a part of Loren's job.
But my friends know Loren had cheated on me.
So, they are protective of me.
I just hope they can accept our relationship.
Let's go over here.
Okay, get ready.
[speaking Filipino]
[Faith] Let's go.
[audience cheering]
♪♪ I wanna get drunk I wanna get down ♪
♪♪ I wanna get dirty I can get down ♪
[Len speaking Filipino]
Hi.
[Angel] Hi.
-[Len speaking Filipino] -[Dondon] Hi.
[Faith speaking Filipino]
-[Len] Hi, hello. -Hello.
-[Dondon] Hi. -[Loren] Hi.
[Faith and Loren speaking Filipino]
-This is my best friend. -Hi.
-Len. This is Dondon. -[Loren] Yeah?
[Faith] And this is Angel.
By the way, this is Loren and my boyfriend.
[all chuckle]
[Len laughs]
So, how are you?
[Loren] I'm good.
I'm here in the Philippines, right?
With my girl.
-[Len and Dondon] Ooh. -That's all I want.
-[Len] Girl. -[speaking Filipino]
[speaking Filipino]
[Loren] Come on, girl.
So, bring it up. Right? Show them.
You love them.
You want to show that you're happy.
[speaking Filipino]
[Faith] Whoo!
[Len speaking Filipino]
Faith, Faith, Faith, Faith, Faith, Faith, Faith, Faith,
Faith, Faith, Faith!
-[music playing] -[Len cheering]
[Loren] I was shocked to see Faith get on stage.
I know Faith has done pageants in the past,
but I've never seen her dance before.
The way she moves her body, it's super feminine.
It's very sexy.
-[music stops] -[friends cheering]
-[friends laugh] -[Len] Okay.
[friends exclaiming]
[Angel speaking Filipino]
[Loren] My first kiss with Faith feels like magic.
I wish it was more intimate, you know?
But I'll take it.
'Cause now we finally got some action.
Tonight might be the night that me and Faith are physical
and it might take our relationship to the next level.
I'm feeling like it's gonna be a good night.
Matilda, I, I know you're mad.
You vented how you felt, okay?
But when you still continue to get louder,
all, all that was just, that's too much for me.
Do I seem like the kind of guy who has energy to argue?
[Niles sighs] We're here.
That visit with Mr. Arc could've gone better.
He spent most of it reprimanding us
for not following proper Ghanaian customs.
[Matilda speaking]
And as my stand-in father,
he's telling me I have to get married on this trip.
That is, it's a lot to digest.
And to be honest with you,
I really wish I had handled the pressure a little bit better.
[door closes]
You know Matilda,
I did feel attacked by Mr. Arc.
And I,
I didn't think that I should've been attacked.
So, I, I guess I just pointed that somewhere else.
That was probably not the right thing to do at that moment.
And I should not have accused you
of trying to intentionally mislead me.
One thing that came out of today
is that I understand now
just how important the knocking ceremony is
and how important it is for the traditional marriage to follow it.
Okay, so you did tell,
you did tell me a lot of things.
This was just new information,
and the way Mr. Arc explained it was different.
If you don't know something, ask me.
Let me, let, let me tell you.
Don't go to Mr. Arc
and act as if I didn't tell you anything about getting married.
I am sorry for doing that today, okay?
Now that things have calmed down,
I'm starting to think about what's really important here.
All the mistakes that I made,
all the mistakes that, that, that she has made, that's not--
It's not important who, who's right, who's wrong.
The only thing that's important is that we're together.
Matilda, these past two weeks have been...
they've been an eye opener for me.
I understand your family's doing a lot for me.
They were willing to bend the rules
on something that it is, is sacred in this culture,
just to accommodate me.
But perhaps I shouldn't just expect everything to be done my way.
That's where all the mistakes started happening.
And now that I know better,
I would like to get married to you
right after the knocking ceremony.
Yes, I, I am, I am sure.
I wanna spend the rest of my life with you.
I love you.
[Niles] The truth is, we're two kindred souls who found each other.
I'm very certain of my decision.
I had a change of heart,
because in my 28 years on this Earth,
I have never met anyone who was as patient
and as understanding of my personality,
as Matilda has been in, in my time here.
That and I learned more about the traditions, the customs.
So, there's still a chance for me to do this the right way
and have the traditional Ghanaian marriage.
The only question is, do we have to have the big party?
Thank you. That was intimidating to me.
I love you.
I wanna spend the rest of my life with you.
I think I believe in the concept of soulmates now.
Mmm.
That, you know, that everyone has that one person
that they're just compatible with,
and nothing can separate them from it.
Not even being born on the opposite ends of the Earth.
-Ah. [continues speaking] -Relax your head.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] Squishy, squishy, squishy, squishy.
-We sure are, aren't we? -Mmm-hmm. Mmm-hmm.
My dress. Your dresses too.
We have a lot to do.
And I have to tell my friend that finally,
Matilda is getting married.
[chuckles]
I don't think Mr. Arc pressured me to get married.
'Cause, you know, if he had pressured me,
I would've just said, "No, I'm not doing it."
[Matilda] I love you.
I love you more.
-[kisses] -[Matilda] Yeah.
[Niles] He gave me all the information that I needed.
And therefore, with that,
with the information that I needed,
I can now make an informed decision.
And my informed decision is that I will admit-- that--
is that I want to marry Matilda,
I want us to start the next,
the next step of our lives together.
I don't feel pressured.
I don't feel like I have to do this.
I want to do this.
I'm happy.
[laughs]
[Adnan speaking]
-[Tigerlily] Not so bad? -[Adnan] Mmm-hmm.
[Tigerlily] With these new rules,
I'm losing a little bit of myself.
[Adnan speaking]
-I didn't know [chuckles] you meant this. -[Adnan speaking]
[speaking Filipino]
[speaking in English]
My best friend saw you...
[Tigerlily speaking]
I'm so excited.
What if we, like, made a baby already?
So, I think that we should go to the pool today.
They have, like, a really cute pool here.
[Adnan speaking]
Okay. Thank you.
And I can show you, like,
the different swimwear options that I brought,
so you can pick?
[Tigerlily] I arrived in Istanbul a few days ago
to meet my husband, Adnan.
So far, we have spent a lot of time
talking about Adnan's double standards
and how Adnan thinks men and women should act.
But I think that we're finally making some progress.
Okay, baby.
-Like this? -[Adnan] Yeah.
'So it's a long sleeve, pants.
-Yeah. -[Tigerlily] All right.
I'm really surprised that Adnan is agreeing
to wear a T-shirt to go swimming.
But I appreciate that he's making the effort
because the same rule should apply to both of us.
If I have to cover up,
so does he.
[Tigerlily] What?
-This is cute? -[Adnan] Yeah.
We're not going diving, honey.
I don't really want to be covered up
at the beach. I mean,
I've been skiing and I wear less clothes than this.
Let me see what you're wearing.
T-shirt.
-Okay. -[Adnan] And short, baby.
-[Tigerlily] That? -[Adnan] Yeah.
[Tigerlily] But I see your legs.
-[Adnan] Uh, my legs? -Do you see my legs?
What about tan lines?
Am I gonna, like...
What...
-[chuckles] -[scoffs]
I can't. Like...
[Adnan] You want this one?
[Tigerlily] I need some vitamin D, like,
on my skin. It feels good.
I... I don't know.
[Adnan] Okay.
This looks like I'm going to a party.
We'll make a party in
-when we're swimming. -[Tigerlily] Fine.
Whatever. I'll wear this.
Let's just go.
[Adnan] I appreciate
Tigerlily, she is changing clothes for me.
The place is cute, yeah.
I'm trying to do
all the rules of being
a good wife to a Muslim man.
But I'm seeing people
at the pool wearing normal things.
Like bikinis.
And it's frustrating.
[Tigerlily] Not so bad?
[Adnan] I know.
[Tigerlily] I feel like this dress
is almost like a straitjacket.
I feel like I can't even breathe.
It's very constricting.
[Tigerlily speaking]
In the past, I fought really hard
to get out
of what felt like a controlling relationship.
And I told myself that
I would never go through
those experiences again.
The situation with the swimsuit,
it's too much.
So I just want to, like,
nip things in the bud now before it gets out of control.
This is not what I had in mind.
I'm used to wearing
-what I usually wear. -Yeah.
[Tigerlily] When you said that,
I didn't know
you meant this.
You didn't say
you're not gonna be able to wear a swimsuit at the beach.
You're not gonna be able to... You didn't say anything.
-You might have said... -I told you...
[Tigerlily] ...okay, your life will be changing,
but I thought you meant, like,
you would be so romantic,
and so our lives would be changing together.
And we'd be happy.
I thought you meant, like,
that's how our life would be changing.
[Adnan speaking]
[Tigerlily] But I become comfortable with this,
then at some point, are you going to be, like,
okay, well, I think that you should go and wear
something more covered?
Or is it, like, this is it?
Like, no changing after this?
-[Tigerlily] So this is bad, too? -Yeah.
-You understand why? -[Tigerlily] You're changing things.
So the only way to not make it...
[Adnan speaking]
I don't know.
It's like I don't have a choice.
We love each other.
And I need
to make sure that he's happy.
And if the only way forward
is for one of us to give in,
like, he can't be the one to compromise in this situation.
I have to.
It's just not gonna change.
[Joe] There's something that I haven't told her,
but I'm scared to say something
that's gonna make her even more upset.
[Magda speaking]
[knocking at door]
[Joe, in Polish]
[in English] I got you coffee.
You want the coffee? Aw.
I made it special for you.
Thank you.
[Joe] How are you feeling?
Are you still mad at me?
I just need more time.
How much time? Like, if I had to get a stopwatch?
You don't take this serious.
[Joe] I do take this serious.
This is our second day in Poland.
We went out last night.
Everything was going good. And then
got into a little scuffle
regarding me being with another girl,
which was, in her eyes, cheating,
in my eyes, being single.
You know, I was hoping that we would just have a normal,
civilized conversation about this,
but her reaction definitely caught me off guard.
Do you want to talk about last night?
[Magda] Maybe now isn't a good plan.
We can talk later.
Okay.
I do hope that Magda could
hopefully just move past this and we can
get over it and just
enjoy our time together in Poland.
I booked a salt mine trip for us today.
Would you still want to go?
Can you give me, like, 15 minutes?
[Joe] Sure. Can I have a kiss?
Oh.
[Magda speaking]
but all the time in my mind is he slept with another girl,
and he can't even
explain me when that was happened.
That really pissed me off.
So I'm just scared he will do that again.
Oh, don't wait for me.
[Magda] I know this day will be
hard for me after what happened yesterday,
but, uh... [sighs]
I don't know, I will try to,
let's say, have fun.
So, you've been to this salt mine before?
Question, is there a pepper mine?
-[Joe] Hello. -Hi.
-[Joe] How are you? -Welcome to the salt mine.
-How are you? I'm Joe. -I'm Patrycja.
-[Joe] Nice to meet you. -I'm Magda.
Nice to meet you.
-[Joe] Let's do this. -[Patrycja] Let's enter.
[Joe] So one of the top five things to do in Krakow
is go to this salt mine.
-[in Polish] -[Joe, in English] Thank you, thank you.
This is tight.
The salt mine
has salt in it that you can, uh,
harvest maybe
and put on different dishes to make it taste salty.
And, uh, that's all I pretty much know,
is that they get salt from the earth in a mine.
-Oh, [bleep]. -[Patrycja] Watch your head, watch your head.
[Joe grunts]
[Patrycja] And follow me this way.
I will show you something special.
-[Joe] A lot of salt. -[Patrycja] Watch your head.
-It's lower here. -[Joe] Okay.
[Patrycja] These are salt sculptures.
[Joe] So the miners made these guys?
[Patrycja] Yes.
[Joe] Wow. That's very cool.
[Patrycja] And this is a small chapel where...
-[Joe] Oh. -[Patrycja] ...the miners prayed for safety.
[Joe] Whoa.
They were probably praying to get out of the mine. [chuckles]
Yes, in one piece.
[Joe] Yeah.
[Patrycja] Mining was a very dangerous job.
[Joe] Oh, really?
It's 700 years old,
-this mine. -[Joe] 700?
This is very cool.
-Is that salt on the ceiling? -It is salt.
We call it cauliflower, the white salt.
-Cauliflower. -And it forms in the wet areas of the mine.
[Joe] There's still people mining?
[Patrycja] No.
But this is a very special place.
Do you know that people come to get married
in the salt mine, in the chapel?
-Yes. -They get married here?
Are you a couple?
-Yeah. -[Patrycja] Married?
Do you want to get married here?
[Magda] I don't know if here's a good plan.
Magda definitely seems a little salty.
Definitely not
the happiest camper in the salt mine.
[Patrycja] And this is the biggest chapel of the mine.
[Joe] Whoa.
[Patrycja] Take a look at this beautiful chapel
and I will be back in a second.
[Joe] Okay. We'll miss you.
This is exciting.
I feel horrible that I made Magda upset.
I don't want to go all day like this.
I'd like to, you know, clear the air
so we can enjoy the time we have.
I don't want her to be in a bad mood all day.
Are you having a great time?
Yeah.
Yeah, I thought that
this would lighten the mood a little bit.
A good old salt mine.
No?
Well, I just wanted to tell you
I'm sorry about last night.
Yeah, I just...
I have a lot of things in my head
and I'm just scared you will
not tell me about some things,
or you will do that again.
[Joe] I'm sorry about this.
Like, I feel bad how that it made you feel.
And I don't want you to ever feel like that.
Like, I want to be with you and only you
for, like, the rest of my life.
I don't care about anyone else.
What's the most hurt me is
you can't explain when you [bleep] another girl.
I really don't remember, like, the time or the date.
So there was...
more than one?
No, it's not more than one.
Yeah, but if you don't have sex
a lot of time,
how can you not remember that?
That's fair.
You're the only person I'm with.
Right now. But I'm talking about the past.
[Joe] To be honest, there's something
that I haven't told her.
But there's definitely a part of me that's scared
to say something that's gonna
make her even more upset
or cause an even bigger fight.
This will be your last chance to tell me everything.
[Niles] So how much is, um, the bride price?
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[Niles] In Matilda's culture,
the groom pays the bride's family
what they believe that she is worth.
[both speaking foreign language]
[Niles, in English] I believe in Mr. Arc to do
the negotiations for me.
But, you know,
not understanding a word that's being said,
I'm kind of worried about this.
[Mr. Arc] Aha.
I'm really, really hoping Mr. Arc
understands that I'm not a rich man.
["Fresh" playing]
I understand.
Of course.
But because Niles is leaving,
go back to the United States
very soon, our wedding will be tomorrow.
We have so much to do.
He's gonna be the one doing most of the talking, right?
I think so.
[Niles] Okay.
We've arranged with Mr. Arc
to come with me to tell Matilda's family
about the change in plans.
And assuming that they allow such a big change
on such short notice,
we discuss the terms of the bride price
right then and there.
Need any help?
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[Niles] In Matilda's culture,
the groom pays the bride's family
what they believe that she is worth
in the form of money and gifts.
[Mr. Arc, in foreign language]
[in English]
[woman, in foreign language]
[Mr. Arc, in English]
[in foreign language]
[Niles, in English] It's strange to me
to place a dollar amount on Matilda.
It makes me feel like I'm purchasing a bride.
[in foreign language]
[in English] And if they were asking for what Matilda's actually worth,
nobody could pay that. [chuckles softly]
That said,
Mr. Arc said he would negotiate
a good bride price for me.
And since I did not plan to
pay for a wedding on this trip,
I'm really, really hoping Mr. Arc
understands that I'm not a rich man.
[in foreign language]
[Matilda, in English] Since my father
is no more around...
[in foreign language]
[Matilda, in English]
[Abena, in foreign language]
-[Mr. Arc] Uh-huh. -[Mary] Mm-hmm.
[in English]
[Niles] Okay.
All that's gonna happen on the same day?
[Mr. Arc speaking]
Okay.
Are you happy for that?
[Niles] I'm very happy for that.
[Mr. Arc] Uh-huh.
[Niles] So how much is, um,
the bride price?
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[in foreign language]
[Abena, in foreign language]
-[Mr. Arc speaking] -[Charlotte speaking]
[in English] I believe in Mr. Arc to do the negotiations for me.
[all speaking foreign language]
[in English] But, you know, not understanding
a word that's being said,
I'm kind of worried about this.
That makes me a little uneasy.
[Charlotte speaking foreign language]
[Mr. Arc and Charlotte speaking foreign language]
[Mr. Arc, in English]
[in foreign language]
-[in English] -[Mary] Tomorrow.
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[in foreign language]
[Mr. Arc, in English]
[in foreign language]
-[in English] So, as part of customary... -[Mr. Arc] Yeah.
...you need to get some items.
[Niles] The cloth.
Yeah, and, um, how much... How...
How much in total?
[Mr. Arc speaking]
-4,700 cedis? -Yes.
My, oh my, okay.
Honestly, perhaps Mr. Arc
could have worked them down a little lower.
4,700 cedis
comes down to about $400.
Given how much I've spent on this trip,
that might be tough to come by.
The truth is,
I haven't exactly told Matilda
the full story on my financial situation.
I know that
I'm gonna have to come clean.
But the thought of facing Matilda
and her family with another disappointment, it's...
I... It's too much to handle.
-I know. -[Mr. Arc] I need it for...
I need... I know. I need to go withdraw some money for that.
[Mr. Arc] All right.
[in foreign language]
[Niles, in English] Bye, everybody.
[woman speaking]
Hold on.
I have to think. [chuckles]
[woman, in foreign language]
[in English]
I'm thinking about booking a flight
and just going back home.
It's gonna help you forget this guy.
[Vanja] Maybe she's right.
But at this point, I'm feeling super confused.
I don't know if I'm ready for that yet.
I barely slept.
Uh, it's...
I'm just still speechless from what happened last night.
Just heartbroken completely.
I really thought Bozo was my person.
And, um, you know,
I thought he felt the same way about me
that I did about him, but I was wrong.
I see all these people,
all these couples, and I'm alone.
I don't even have a friend out here.
It blows my mind. I never expected this.
What a fool have I been
to get myself into this situation.
You know, like, I have been so successful
at so many things that I have done in my life,
but, um, obviously I have been
super bad at picking men. [chuckles]
You know, it always ends up being good, good, good at the beginning,
and then things end up blowing up in my face.
So, like, it's so confusing.
[Vanja speaking]
Bozo and I were supposed to go
to the national park together.
But I don't want Bozo
to completely destroy my experience here,
so I decided that I want to go
to this national park by myself,
just get outside of my apartment,
um, so I'm just not stuck inside feeling sorry for myself.
[line ringing]
Hi.
[woman on phone] Hi, Vanja.
[Vanja] Look how beautiful everything is.
I love it.
[Vanja] I'm in Krka National Park.
-You like it? -[Sanela] Looks beautiful.
How you doing?
[Vanja] Awful.
I cried again. I couldn't fall asleep.
This is my second night of sleeping three hours.
My eyes all look like [bleep].
I'm, like, swollen and everything.
-I know. -[Sanela] I'm sorry.
I know how you feel, Vanja,
but he's not right for you.
He had so many red flags. Forget him.
You need to let go.
I'm thinking about booking a flight and just going back home.
No. No, you're gonna stay there
and you're gonna enjoy your free time.
Because of him, you're not losing your vacation.
Vanja, you have time. You're still in Croatia.
Stay in Croatia.
There's many beautiful men in Croatia.
Go back on the dating app.
I feel like it's too early. It's too soon.
I don't know if I'm ready for that yet.
[Sanela] Why would it hurt you going on a date?
Have some dates. Get to know other men.
That's gonna help you forget this guy.
I want to hear a story about a guy who made you smile
and made you laugh...
[laughs]
-Is that for me? -Yes.
-[Vanja] Thank you so much. -[Bozo] Yeah.
Give it a try. What do you have to lose?
Go on a date and I want to hear all about it.
-[laughs] -You're evil.
Sanela has been very supportive.
She doesn't want me to sit around sulking.
She wants me to
try to salvage whatever's left
of this vacation by myself.
But Sanela doesn't get it.
She is happily married,
and she does not know what it's like to keep
putting yourself out there only to get rejected
or end up heartbroken.
I don't know. Maybe she's right.
I just have to get out there and see what happens.
But at this point I'm feeling super confused.
Well, I appreciate you. Thank you.
-Bye. -[Sanela] Ciao.
[exhales]
[indistinct chatter]
[in foreign language]
-[people laughing] -[woman, in English] Okay.
[Faith] Tonight is going great.
Me and Loren had our first kiss.
That's it? Just one?
-[Faith] More... -[woman] Later on.
[Faith] I'm in my happy place,
because Loren is my first boyfriend
in my life.
And so I feel that I'm a Disney princess.
[chuckles softly]
[Loren] What did you think of this drag show?
-[Faith] Very nice. -[Loren] It was okay.
Yeah, their makeup is very good.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] Yeah.
I'll work with them. [laughs]
That's my job. I help drag performers.
I help them get dressed and help them get ready.
Make sure they're on their set on time.
[woman speaking]
No. I'm gonna get a different job that pays better.
'Cause if we get married, I'm not going back to Vegas.
What? Married?
I mean,
-if she wants. -[Faith] I'm waiting.
-[woman] Where's your ring? -Oh, come on.
But it's up to her.
If she really loves me. If she really thinks I can be loyal.
Right now, I'm doing good.
Right?
-[Faith] Yes. -[woman] Wait.
The last time I saw Faith, she was crying.
Yeah. But I thought she knew the whole time
that I sleep with other women.
[woman] But you have a relationship with her.
Online. It's different.
'Cause I never meet Faith,
it's like, hopefully, relationship.
And now that I meet Faith,
perfection.
Amazing.
But before that, Faith is, I hope so.
Hold on.
I have to think. [chuckles]
Five.
Is that real? Five?
No.
Seven.
[woman, in foreign language]
[in English]
[in foreign language]
-[in English] I'm the bad guy. It's okay. -[Len] Yeah, you are.
I know. I'm the bad guy.
[Joe] It's been weighing on my mind
that Magda does not know that
I'm friends with someone I dated.
But I'm worried that she's not gonna take it well.
You're the only person I'm with.
[Joe] You're the only person I want to be with.
-Okay. -[Joe] And I want you to trust me.
[Joe] It's been weighing on my mind
that Magda does not know that
I'm friends with someone I dated.
I think Magda's gonna have some reservations about
how friendly you are with Jill.
[man] It's a big risk, Joey.
Maybe I should talk to Magda about Jill.
But I'm worried that she's not gonna
take it well.
I told you everything. There's nothing else to tell you.
And I'm sorry I hurt you.
Okay? You trust me?
It's...
But you love me?
I love you.
I'm only yours.
From the beginning. From the first day.
Well, I'm only yours now.
Forever.
-Promise? -[Joe] Promise.
Okay.
[Joe] The more I think about it,
I don't feel it's a huge deal that I dated Jill.
It was, like, seven years ago.
You know, Jill is just a really good friend of mine.
I don't view her as an ex-girlfriend.
So I decided not to tell Magda
'cause I don't want that to be an issue.
So you're having a great time?
[Magda] Yeah, it's kind of cool.
I want to forgive him
because when I look at him
in his eyes, he was serious.
But I need some time to start
to trust like I trust him before.
You want to lick the salt before we go?
[Magda] No.
Oh, something just dripped on me.
[Magda] So, I hope so Joey will change
and just
start to think about
something is not okay if you are in a relationship.
If he really wants to be with me all his life
and marry me, have kids with me,
he has to grow up.
[Joe] You good?
I'm not feeling good, babe,
after this underground,
my head, it's
terrible right now.
I think you need a little nap and you'll feel better.
Yeah.
Oh, my gosh, I've never felt like this before.
[Joe] You need me to carry you up?
[Magda] I think I can do it.
Boom.
Homemade ice pack.
Tonight, I am Nurse Joey.
I'm hoping she can see that I'm there for her,
and I'm gonna do anything I can to help her feel better.
I don't like to see her feeling like [bleep].
[Joe] Okay.
Do you want anything else?
Like soup?
Tums?
-[Magda] No. -[Joe] Nothing?
Just you.
-Just me? -Yeah.
[Joe] Magda?
Do you like my sleeping outfit?
It's a kimono.
It's from Japan.
Do you like that?
I got a smile.
[Magda] But Joey is awesome. He care about me.
He's asking all the time if I need something.
I never had that
in my last relationships.
I never had that in my life.
Uh, just my mom care of me that way,
so that was awesome to feel like
he will care of me no matter what.
And I feel like it was right to forgiven him.
[Joe] Does this help?
Yeah, if you maybe massage
my head, it will be better.
Whoa, whoa, whoa. What about my ice pack? There you go.
[Joe] Yeah, since you're the one that has the brains,
we have to protect them.
Yeah. You're right. [chuckles]
Mat, there's something I need to tell you.
What?
It is a lot to explain right now.
Ah.
It's so frustrating
to be with a man who can't tell the truth.
[Matilda speaking]
Oh, God.
I still have a wedding to plan tomorrow.
And that is a lot of stress.
[Niles] I know.
It's gonna be virtually impossible
to plan a wedding in one day, but we're gonna try.
Even though we only have one day to pull this off,
thankfully Matilda had already
set quite a few things in motion
because she was planning to have a wedding
on this trip. So,
it's good to know we're not starting from scratch completely.
[Matilda] Oh, God.
[Niles] I am happy that Matilda and I are getting married,
but, boy, there's a lot of expenses that weren't planned.
[Matilda speaking]
-[Niles speaking] -[Matilda] Yes.
[Niles] That's gonna be a hefty price here.
When I changed my mind about getting married,
I kind of sort of
forgot all about the wedding clothes,
marriage certificate, and all the gifts
and cash for the family,
which is all part of the bride price.
[Matilda speaking]
Like, they have an ATM down there.
-[Niles] Okay. -I'm waiting for you here.
-[Niles] All right. -[Matilda sighs]
[Niles] There's a very real chance that
I may not have enough money in my account
to cover it all, so I'm kind of panicking here.
So far I've been keeping my financial issues
a secret from Matilda.
I didn't want to worry her, but I'm afraid that
once I tell her about my financial situation,
I don't know if she'll even want to go through with the ceremony.
[Niles speaking]
[Niles] Well, this is all I have.
This is about...
-What? -1,300 cedis.
That's all I have.
[Matilda speaking]
In my account, yeah.
Oh, God.
I...
-I'll have to... -[Matilda sighs]
So where are you gonna get the money for me?
Mat, there's something I need to tell you.
What?
Before... Just before I embarked on this trip here...
I, um,
lost my job.
[exhales]
That's why I don't have money, actually.
I had a job that I loved.
It was
helping people just like myself
live independently.
Unfortunately, the day before my trip,
I was blindsided
by a letter
that said that I was being let go because
I wasn't working out,
whatever that is supposed to mean.
I was devastated.
So I am between jobs
for the first time in a long time.
Between the travel expenses,
taking Matilda shopping, the dinners,
I just wasn't paying attention to my balance.
Why didn't you tell me?
[Niles] Well, it was because
I didn't want to alarm you so close to this trip.
I had already decided I was gonna...
I had already paid for everything for this trip.
And that's the thing. That was pretty much all...
With no more money coming in for the time being,
this was... That was all I had left.
[Matilda] I feel bad that Niles lost his job.
But it's so frustrating to be with a man
who can't tell the truth.
If he was honest with me
and my family in the first place,
we could have negotiated lower for the bride price.
We need to find a way to get the money.
Or my family will not
allow him to get married to me.
[Niles] It is a lot to explain right now.
And, like I said, we're... With...
When it came to the wedding plans,
as you might have guessed,
I've been pivoting on a dime on a lot of things.
I will see what Mr. Arc is willing to do
to help me cover the rest
of the expenses for this wedding.
I know. I... I will...
I'm gonna go in the morning.
[Matilda speaking]
[Niles] I thought about asking my parents for the money.
And
a son really should be able to ask his parents
to help out in a situation like this.
But my parents aren't supportive of this relationship,
so that's not really an option.
So we'll just have to talk to Mr. Arc in the morning.
If he won't help me pay for the rest of this wedding...
I don't know where we go from here.
That was a really big mistake in my life.
Is there anything else I don't know?
It makes me a little weary that
it's a little bit of a pattern. It's pretty reckless.
So that's definitely a concern.
♪♪ Some girls get a tingle ♪
♪♪ From a smoky saxophone ♪
♪♪ Some girls Give you a twirl ♪
♪♪ If you play that Slide trombone ♪
Um, yeah.
Could you do the hot chocolate with soy milk?
-[waiter speaking] -Okay. Perfect.
No whipped cream.
-Okay. -Thank you so much.
-You're welcome. -Thank you.
Talking to my cousin, Sanela,
did put me in a better headspace.
The day is over.
I'm not sure what I'm going to do at this point,
but I'm definitely not going to go back to my apartment
because that would just be pathetic.
And I don't feel like feeling pathetic at this point.
I still have a couple of weeks left here,
and I'm just not giving up on myself.
-[waiter] Here you go. -[Vanja] Oh, wow. Yummy. Thank you so much.
This looks amazing. Thank you.
Ooh.
Wow.
Excuse me. You look-- You look very lonely.
Do you mind if I sit next to you?
-Oh, yeah, sure, sure. -[man] Yeah?
-Be my-- Be my guest. -[man] Thank you.
You're all alone and, uh, beautiful,
so I thought I'd come by.
-You're very kind. -Yeah.
[Vanja] Thank you.
[man] Okay. What is your name?
-Vanja. -Nice to meet you.
-What's your name? -I'm Noah.
-Noah. Nice to meet you. -[Noah] Yeah.
-What are you having? -[Vanja] Um, hot chocolate.
-[Noah] Oh, that's good. -It's a little cold.
Where are you from?
[Noah] I'm from Switzerland, actually.
Oh, I have a lot of family in Switzerland.
-[Noah] Do you? -Yeah, I do.
Where are you from originally?
Um, I'm originally from Bosnia,
but I live in Florida now.
-[Noah] Oh, now. Nice, nice. -Yeah, yeah.
So what brings you here?
Well, I was actually, um, here,
um, meeting who I thought was my boyfriend.
And then the second I got here,
he essentially friendzoned me.
Oh.
Yeah.
-[bleep] -[Vanja] I know.
That's exactly how I feel.
Okay, so you already booked the whole trip,
-and then you're stuck here all by yourself? -[Vanja] Yeah. I--
Yeah. So, um, now I don't know what I'm going to do.
-Yeah. -I'm trying to contemplate
whether or not to book a flight back.
[Noah] You should enjoy your time now.
You can still meet other nice guys.
-That's my advice. -[chuckles] Thank you.
Thank you. I called my cousin earlier today,
and she told me I should try to go on some dates.
Yeah, why not?
Like, we are having one right now, right?
[chuckles awkwardly]
-Are we? -[Noah] Yeah.
How is this not a date?
-[Vanja] Conversation's-- -Like, it's not set up, but it's still a date.
But to be honest...
I'm in a relationship.
-Oh, wow. -[Noah] Yeah.
But we just opened it up.
Uh, [stutters] so if you wanna--
You know, if you want to hang out another time,
I can give you my number.
-Oh, thank you so much for the offer. -[Noah] Yeah, you're welcome.
-[Vanja] But no phone numbers for now. -That's okay.
I appreciate it.
-[Noah] Okay. -Thank you.
He's in an open relationship, great for him.
But that does not fly for me.
I don't share.
But it makes me feel a lot better
knowing that hey, even though Bozo
couldn't put his hand on me,
the fact that Noah is hitting on me,
there are still men who find me attractive.
Maybe I am open to meeting someone new, so I might as well stay
and take a little peek and see what's on the apps.
I'll talk to you later.
-[Vanja] All right. Thank you. -Bye-bye.
I'm gonna make you some eggs, Magda.
Last night, Magda was in bad shape.
But, yeah, I Dr. Joe'd her very nice, you know.
I did sleep in the bed with her last night,
but there was nothing sexual.
Yesterday, things were better
after talking to Magda in the salt mines.
But then, like, Magda experienced her first hang--
Uh, not hangover, migraine.
To me, it looked like a really bad hangover.
They're similar.
How are you feeling?
[Magda] Thank you so much. I'm so hungry.
[Joe] I'm glad you're feeling better.
[Magda speaking]
I really like to sleep with you.
[Joe] I know.
Our first night in the same bed,
it's exactly how I pictured it.
I'm just kidding. It definitely was not.
I did not, uh, picture you being sick.
Yesterday, when I feel horrible, I just need him,
and I feel him all night like,
"Magda, I will be here for you,
and I will be always for you."
And I start to trust him more.
It's the first time the man showed me how much he loved me.
And that was great.
In real life?
-Not on FaceTime? -In real life.
But just try to behave.
-Just a little. Always. -Yeah.
Okay, let's go.
Let's go.
Oh. Not romantic?
[Magda] Okay.
It's a very cool boat.
-[Magda] I'm nervous a little. -[Joe] Don't be nervous.
I'm actually very excited to meet Magda's friends.
You know, I wanted to meet people that know her.
And more importantly, I wanna meet the dog.
[Magda] Look, they are already here.
Magda's friends live in Katowice,
which is, like, an hour-and-half away.
They've been watching Hades while Magda has been with me in Krakow.
And because of work, they can't watch him any longer.
So they have to bring the dog to Magda.
Baby!
My baby!
-Hello. -[Joe] Hi.
-[Ola] Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you, too.
-[Anna] Hi. Nice to meet you. -[Joe] Hi. Nice to meet you.
How are you?
-Good. How are you? -Hi. Nice to meet you. I'm Jakub.
[Magda] Hades.
Look, he's your new father.
Yes, your new father.
-[Joe] Yeah. He's a big guy, huh? -[Magda] Yeah.
[Joe] It was very cool meeting Hades.
I'm a big dog guy.
But Magda did say, if I cheat,
the, uh, dog can eliminate my penis.
Yes.
When my ex cheated on me,
my dog would just bite his penis.
So I'm just warning him.
So how was your first week together?
[Joe] I thought it was very nice.
[Anna speaking]
Surprised?
-[Anna] Yeah. -Um...
Something unexpected in your first week together?
[Jakub speaking]
Are you a reporter?
-Um-- -You know, we must know.
It's definitely, uh, an experience.
Your mother likes Joey?
-No, he don't meet her yet. -[Joe] Oh, yeah.
[Magda] I think so this week, we're going to go to her.
-[Anna] Are you nervous? -I'm not that nervous.
I'm pretty good with, like, parents and people.
[Ola] Thank you.
[Anna speaking]
Baby. But just one. Just one bite.
-It's from aunty. -[all laughing]
So, Joey, you need to get married, right, for her to work and all?
To live in the US, yes, I would have to marry her.
Do you want to live in the US?
-Of course. -[Jakub speaking]
[Magda] Yes.
You are ready for that?
Well...
It's a lot to think about.
It's a short amount of time.
And, uh, after that, of course, we have to make decision.
I did know she wanted to get married and have kids
and how quickly she wanted to move,
but it doesn't make sense
to try to really rush it when...
And there's a little bit of doubt
and trust issues that we need to work on.
So do you think that the amount of time
that you're going to spend together
will be, like, enough to know?
[Joe] Yeah, I don't know.
I don't know. It's just--
[Joe] What do you mean?
I just want to see like, "Yes, Magda, I love you. I want you right now."
[Anna speaking]
Oh, you lived in-- I didn't realize that.
[Magda] Yeah.
That was a really big mistake in my life.
I didn't know it was-- I don't think I knew that.
Is there anything else I don't know?
I was surprised when Anna talked about my ex-boyfriend.
She's scared, me being hurt again.
But I hope so he will not judge me about that.
[Joe] How long did you move to Germany for?
Like, one-year-and-half, I lived in Germany for him.
Yeah.
[Magda] No, I hope so.
It comes as a surprise that Magda says she moved to another country for an ex,
and she's willing to do the same thing with me
without really getting to know me.
So it makes me a little weary
that it's a little bit of a pattern for her.
It's pretty reckless and a little impulsive.
So that's definitely a concern.
[Faith speaking]
I just act the way I'm supposed to act with a drag queen.
[Faith speaking]
-[Loren] How does she know? -[Faith speaking]
She's never been one before either.
[Loren] I'm the bad guy. It's okay.
-[Len] Yeah, you are. -I know. I'm the bad guy.
I'm her best friend. So...
[Loren] Yeah. Yeah.
[Loren] No more sleeping with anybody.
-[Len] Are you sure? -[Loren] Mm-hm.
-[Len] Really? -Yeah.
This is probably exactly the conversation
I thought I'd have with her friends.
But I don't want them to think negatively of me with Faith right now
that we're doing so good.
But really, Faith, I really do love you.
And I'm not gonna cheat on you.
That'd be just crazy.
But do you think I want to hurt you on purpose?
[Loren] Ever?
You gave me a second chance, right?
Why would I waste that?
[Faith] I know.
Don't cry.
I want to cry. Don't even--
I had one too many of this one.
Okay, I need to go to the bathroom.
[speaking Filipino]
[Angel speaking Filipino]
[Dondon speaking]
[in English] Hello.
So we're here all night? We're gonna keep going?
-Come on. -[Faith speaking]
-Okay. -Ready to go.
-So... -Sure.
[Faith] Thank you, ma'am.
[Len speaking Filipino]
[Faith in English]
But it's frustrating because me and Loren are in a good place now.
So this makes me uncomfortable.
Bye-bye.
-Bye. -Bye, love.
[Len speaking Filipino]
[in English]
[speaking Filipino]
[Dondon speaking Filipino]
[Len speaking]
[in English] Thank you.
I don't even know what to think right now,
but I feel stupid for giving Loren a second chance.
Okay.
If he's really actually flirting in front of my friends,
I don't think there's any hope for us.
I just want to tell you,
my best friend saw you
that you was flirting with someone else.
I don't think so.
-Who? -I don't know who is that.
Maybe you are flirting with your drag queen.
[Loren] No.
I give them attention because that's their job.
It's just a part of you to flirt with them?
Everyone's supposed to do it.
Don't bring your attitude here.
It's not all about "Yes, I'm from USA.
I'm white. I'm a foreigner.
I'm bringing my attitude here."
No, I just act the way I'm supposed to act with a drag queen.
-My best friend told me in that way. -I know.
-But how does she know? -I trust her. Stop it.
-[Loren] She's never been one before either. -I don't want to talk to you.
[Loren] I feel blindsided by this.
I don't know why Faith is getting so bent out of shape about me flirting
with the drag queens at a drag show
because that's what you're supposed to do.
I'm just being supportive and showing them that they're doing a good job.
I tried so hard this whole trip just to make her happy,
and I don't even understand what I did.
Faith already has trust issues with me,
so she's definitely going to believe her friends over me.
Well, I hope you talk to me tomorrow
so that I can explain myself more.
I've only got a few days left.
If she's not willing to hear me out,
I'm afraid that any future with me and Faith, it could be over.
[man] Next time on Before the 90 Days...
-Hi. -Hi. How are you?
-[Vanja] Good. It's good to see you. -[man] Good to see you.
[Vanja] My God, you're tall.
I only have a week left in my trip...
Nice.
He is hot.
Whoo!
Looking at him, I'm just thinking like, "Bozo who?"
[Vanja speaking]
I want you as my boyfriend, and I want Rory as my friend.
I don't want to choose.
I want to make peace together.
You want to see him?
Sunny's emotions can be unpredictable.
And I don't know if Rory is feeling
some type of way about Sunny
after how he behaved last night.
This meeting could be another total disaster,
and I don't know how we would come back from that.
Last night, I don't know.
I don't think I was flirting with anybody.
[Faith speaking]
I am very disappointed because I defend him to my friends
only for him to do it again and again.
Is this so much that you can't get over it?
-[Joe speaking Polish] -[shopkeeper speaking Polish]
[speaking Polish]
-[Joe in English] Is that right? -[Magda speaking Polish]
[Joe speaking Polish]
[Joe in English] It's gonna be my first night in Magda's apartment.
And, um, I think it is important that me and Magda
have a conversation regarding our future.
So I think it's important to, like, wait a little bit.
I don't want to, like, put a timeline necessarily on, like, a proposal.
[Magda speaking]
[speaking Portuguese]
[in English] There's something in my gut that's telling me
that she's not here for the right reasons.
[speaking Portuguese]