[man] Previously on Before the 90 Days...
Will you marry me?
[Loren] It's a "Yes?"
[Faith] As a trans woman,
I never thought someone would ask me to marry him.
[laughs]
Okay.
When things ended with Bozo,
I got on the dating app, and I matched with Josko.
And there's just something about him
that makes me feel like we click.
Wow.
But at this point in my life,
I haven't been thinking about myself as a mom.
This has kind of been thrown at me out of the blue.
I'm gonna meet your mom soon, right?
Mmm-hmm.
[in other language]
[Adnan in Arabic]
[Adnan's mother in Arabic]
[in English]
What do you mean?
[Tigerlily] If we get pregnant,
I'm not going to be okay with him
going to Jordan every month
while I'm at home raising the kids.
This feels like a slap in the face.
Mmm-mmm.
Well, can you just get up, please?
[Sunny speaking]
I just didn't know what to say,
and I was uncomfortable,
like your dad's talking about
I should convert to be with you.
[Sunny] The truth is if Veah doesn't convert her religion,
I can't be with her
and I don't know how I'm gonna tell her.
It's really freaking me out.
[soft jazz music playing]
[laughs] Wouldn't you want to know?
[laughing]
Josko and I are going to a hotel rooftop
where there's a nice little bar and a Jacuzzi,
so we're just gonna have a nice little evening.
Super excited. Can't you tell?
[laughs] Let's see.
I had my first date with Josko two days ago,
I have been walking on air ever since.
We had so much chemistry right off the bat.
It was super tempting.
But Josko did not spend the night.
After waiting so long,
I didn't think it would be right
to rush into having sex on the first night.
Also I found out that Josko had a child
that he was actually fostering.
And I have no idea what that might mean for us.
There he is.
Hi. So good to see you.
How are you?
Very good.
What a great idea to get me half naked again.
See?
What do you think?
[Josko speaking]
[Vanja] This is so romantic.
-Look at this. -Yeah.
[Vanja] Look at the look at the view over there with the water.
-This is amazing. -[Josko] Yeah.
I love it.
[laughs] What a great line.
-Right? -[Josko] Yeah.
[Vanja] So when was your last relationship then?
Interesting.
But you are looking for something serious now?
[Vanja] Me too.
You know, I've been celibate for six years.
Yeah, yeah, like no guy in my life.
Correct.
Well, that's by yourself.
That's by yourself,
but nothing with another person.
Oh, my God, TMI.
[both laughing]
What do you mean wild?
Oh. Is that a bad thing?
[chuckles softly]
[Vanja] For me, sex is like the biggest gift
-you can give another person... -Yeah.
...and it's a special thing, and it creates a special bond.
So for me, it's not something
that I want to do just with anybody.
So I haven't been able to meet anybody
that I feel that connection with.
Does that answer your question?
[Vanja] I've never felt this connection
with somebody so quickly and so soon...
-Yeah. -[Vanja] ...and felt so comfortable with them.
This is all kind of weird and new and different for me.
[Josko] Yeah.
That's enough kisses.
Mmm-hmm.
For now.
So I'm getting a little wrinkly.
Should we go back to my apartment?
I think so too.
Mmm-hmm.
I'm just blown away by how he appears
to be just so wonderful.
He's doing all the right things.
He's saying all the right things,
and it's making me feel reassured.
This just feels so good.
It feels so right.
All right. Home sweet home.
[Josko] All right.
Mmm.
I think so, too. [laughs]
Oh, my God, this is awesome.
[both laughing]
[Joe] Wow, that looks beautiful.
I definitely want to impress your mother.
-Wow. -If we can put something like that with heart
or you have in a Polish language
for favorite woman.
Yes. Oh!
[Magda] Oh, it's a devil, not woman.
-I got this for you. -[Magda chuckles]
You're dressed like it.
[both laugh]
[Joe] And now a bakery?
[Magda] She love this kind of stuff.
She's a sweetie girl like me.
[Joe] So what would your mom like? What do you think?
Oh, yes.
[Joe] She likes Italian things,
-this is a good start. -[Magda] Yeah.
[Joe] Today's very big day,
I'm going to meet Magda's mom for the first time.
We're gonna pick her up, take her out to dinner.
I definitely feel pressure that I make a good impression,
especially knowing how close they are.
Yeah, let's get one of those.
Plus, I know Magda's been
worried about how committed I am
So hopefully having Magda's mom on my side
is gonna win me some brownie points
or should I say pierogi points.
What did your exes bring your mom
so I know what I'm competing with?
They buy her one rose. That's it.
One rose? [laughs]
Losers!
[laughs]
[Joe] I feel like she would definitely like me.
I feel like parents just generally like me.
I don't know why.
[chuckles softly]
[Magda] Okay. We are here, baby.
[car door opens]
Hello.
-How are you? -Nice to meet you.
You look beautiful.
-Please. -Thank you.
[in Polish]
Okay, everybody ready?
My mom is like my best friend,
so, yeah, it is very important
Joe building some connection good with my mom.
But this meeting might not go that well,
like Joe thinks.
I told my mom...
I don't want to make him nervous,
but I know after what happened,
my mom have a lot of concern.
-[Joe grunts] -[car door closes]
Ow!
[Magda] So Joe has to prove to my mom he's a good person
and the right man to have in my life.
Do you like the flowers?
Thank you very much.
[Joe] Beautiful, right? Big.
Oh.
[in Polish]
[automated voice speaking in Polish]
[Joe] It's hard to gage how I'm doing,
which makes me a little nervous.
Maybe it's just the language barrier,
but I'm not getting the warmest vibes.
It's very awkward, very awkward.
[in Polish]
Oh, my gosh.
[in Polish]
My mom asks you
what you can say about me, what you feel.
[automated voice speaking in Polish]
[laughs]
-[speaks other language] -Yes.
[waitress] For you, enjoy.
[in Polish]
So my mom is worried because...
[Joe] Why would you tell her that?
[Magda] Because she's like my best friend
and she know everything.
[Joe] Okay.
Um...
Why would she tell her mom that
that if she wants her mom to like me?
It doesn't make sense.
I'm sure Magda's mom has already came up
with her own horrible opinion on what type of person I am.
It definitely puts me at a disadvantage.
I don't know how I'm gonna be able
to win her over after that.
[Loren] If this all works out,
we go to Thailand and we get married.
Me and Faith, we're going to go see an immigration lawyer
and I'm hoping I don't have to go back to the US.
[lawyer] Now here's the problem.
There is currently no law in Thailand
that allows same sex marriage.
[Veah] Hi, babe.
Oh, my God, you look so beautiful.
[Veah chuckles]
I don't want anything to ruin our happiness.
But I do have to talk to Veah
about converting her religion to the Muslim.
It's time for me to come clean.
Okay, babe. [clears throat]
[Sunny speaking]
[tropical music playing]
Babe, did you put all the clothes on the bag?
Yeah, I think so.
Okay. That's perfect.
There you go.
[Veah] Thank you, baby.
I'm happy that we are going on this trip.
I'm super excited that we're gonna be out of this all everything.
Just it's gonna be me and you.
Yeah, I'm excited about that.
[Sunny] After meeting my father,
between me and Veah, things were so tense.
[zipping]
[Veah] Hurry, babe. I need your big, strong arms.
[both laughing]
Thank you, babe.
And I'm happy that we're gonna do it together.
Just me and her.
Yay! Going on a road trip.
-[Sunny] Let's go. -Okay. Let's go.
Let's get out of here.
Getting out of Durban. It's so pretty out here.
Look at the trees and everything.
It's so green. I love that it's just so green out here.
[Sunny] There's more beauty here you haven't seen.
No, this is gonna be good.
Like we definitely need this time.
We just want to put everything
kind of like behind us right now
and focus on building our relationship.
And I really wanna go forward.
I feel really bad how things turned out with Sunny's dad,
but he was so adamant that I need to convert
and I don't know that if it's just...
you know, his dad being from a different generation,
or if Sunny kind of wants me to convert too.
He's never made it seem like our different religions
would be a major problem for him.
But I'm scared that it's a bigger situation than I thought.
-[Sunny] We're here now. -We're here!
"Drakensberg Sun." Oh, my God.
This is so pretty. A lake. What the heck?
We've had a lot of outsiders
give opinions on our relationship,
from Rory to friends, family
and of course,
there comes a lot of doubts with that.
Wow, this is nice.
But I still feel like he's the one
that I'm supposed to be with.
Finally. Are you ready?
Yeah. Let's go in and see our room.
Oh, my God, this is beautiful.
Should we mess everything up on the bed?
[Veah] What is that? Champagne?
-[Sunny] Make sure... -[Veah] It scares me, but it's fun.
[Sunny laughing]
It scares the crap out of me.
Cheers to us, baby.
Mmm.
You know, you've always been
like really cute and like romantic
and I love this side of you.
I'm glad. Thank you so much, baby.
That's my job, baby, because you're my partner,
I need to make sure you're happy.
[Veah] All I want is just a cute little life with you,
like peaceful.
Come, give me a kiss for that.
So are you ready to mess up?
Or you wanna just look at it like that?
[Veah chuckles] Yeah. Hold on. Give me a second.
We'll mess it up.
Okay. I'll be patient.
I'm really happy that
we're having such a great time together.
Doing all the romantic things together.
But I'm feeling also guilty deep in my heart because
I've been thinking about a lot
and I really need to talk to her
about converting her religion to the Muslim.
It's not just important to my family.
It's also important to me
to have a Muslim wife
because I saw all my life
the Muslim wife they are respectful to their husband.
They are faithful to their husband.
They listen to their husband.
And we can raise our children together with the same religion.
[Veah] Hi, babe.
Oh, my God, you look so beautiful.
[Veah chuckles]
I don't want anything to ruin our happiness tonight.
But I know that I have to bring this conversation as soon as possible.
Because if she refuse,
we can't go further.
[in other language]
[Loren] Yeah?
The time is so very fast.
I know. It's almost over.
I'm happy for what's gonna happen to us
-the next, you know. -Yeah.
The next days, an hour, and a weak and a month.
[Loren] Yesterday, Faith and I got engaged.
I feel great.
This is everything I ever wanted,
with the person who is just absolutely amazing and perfect.
And now my flight to go home is booked for tomorrow.
But I'm hoping I don't have to go back to the US.
So me and Faith,
we're going to go see an immigration lawyer
to find out the best way
for me to stay in the Philippines with Faith forever.
Hopefully, this meeting is good news, right?
She'll have something good to say, yeah.
If this all works out,
we go to Thailand and we get married.
Does that sound like your best plan?
The good one? The one you want to do?
Yeah.
No, just you wait.
The lawyer is like, "Oh, marry the mom."
No, I don't like it.
I am so happy that Loren asked me to marry him.
[Faith in Filipino]
I love him so much,
but when it comes to marriage,
he has crazy ideas.
[Loren] One of the ways we can do it is we go to Thailand.
Another plan would be that I marry somebody here
and get citizenship.
What if I just marry your mom?
-What? My mom? -Your mom.
The Thailand option is much better.
[Faith] And I hope the lawyer agree.
[chuckles]
Are you nervous about anything?
[Faith] Yes, of course.
-[lawyer] Hi. -[Loren] Hello.
-Hello. -Hi.
-Hi. Nice to meet you. -Nice to meet you.
I'm Faith and this is Loren.
-Hi, Faith. Hi, Loren. -Hello.
[Janina] How can we help you today?
[Loren] So I came here from America...
-All right. -...to meet my girlfriend, who's now fiancee.
-All right. Congratulations, you guys. -[Alyssa] Wow.
-Aw. -[Alyssa] That's a nice ring.
[Loren] And the plan is to get married.
But she's trans
and so we can't just get married right now, right?
We couldn't just walk into a wedding chapel.
[Janina] Yes, you can't do that.
Yeah. So like your question is to how
considering it's not allowed in the Philippines.
Right. I have some ideas.
[Janina] All right, go ahead.
[Loren] So the first,
the main plan that we're really into.
So we fly to Thailand
-because you just need a visa to go to Thailand. -[Janina] Yeah.
[Loren] We get married in Thailand
and then come back to the Philippines,
and I'd get my visa,
and then we could do whatever.
[Alyssa] Now, here's the problem.
There is currently no law in Thailand
that allows same sex marriage.
[Loren] But I have friends that are married
that are gay from Thailand.
I don't know how they did it then
because they said they got married in Thailand.
Yeah, Thailand is not one of the countries
where gay marriage is legal,
but you can find other jurisdictions
where gay marriage is legal and then...
So a place she doesn't need a visa to get to?
And I think the visa requirement is not that strict.
[Janina] If you guys want to consider that,
you can go to Taiwan and get married there,
and then the US will recognize that.
So you can get your spousal visa once you get married.
But unfortunately,
it will not be recognized in the Philippines.
So you'll just deny it like forever?
Under our laws, a marriage is between a man and a woman.
So you in turn cannot get
like spousal visa here
or get a job here by virtue of your marriage to her.
-Right. -[Janina] Kind of out of our hands.
Okay.
But as for the US side, you guys will allow her.
I know this isn't what Loren wanted to hear,
but I've always considered living in America.
We'll have more opportunities there,
which is great because
I can help my family more.
So this makes me, you know, excited.
[Janina] Best advice the fiancee needs a K1.
It's the easiest now
because you're already engaged.
So to get a K-1 visa, though,
don't I have to make a certain amount of money.
Because it's a sponsorship kind of thing, right?
Yeah.
So I make like no money at all,
like I can't afford rent.
So I guess if you guys are serious
in bringing her to the US,
that's one of the things you have to get in order,
like because your economic status
will come into play.
[Loren] This is what I didn't want to hear,
because the whole point was to never leave here.
I don't want to go back to Vegas.
I don't want to go back to my life.
So the best option will be the fiancee visa I think.
-That we can do. -Okay.
This plan I don't think is gonna work
and I don't want to talk to about Faith
because Faith is really happy.
She wants to come to America.
But I could never afford
to sponsor Faith with a K-1 visa.
It's not gonna work.
-Nice meeting you both. -[Faith] Nice meeting you both.
[Loren] And now I'm gonna board a plane tomorrow
without the love of my life.
And with no idea
when we'll see each other again
and no way to live here.
I'm devastated.
[Tigerlily] I'm leaving tomorrow.
[Tigerlily] It's really important to Adnan to have kids,
but my age window is closing.
Baby, if we can't have children naturally,
there's other options.
[Arabian music playing]
[speaking foreign language]
Yeah.
One Turkish chai. One cappuccino.
[Tigerlily] A chocolate fondue.
And the San Sebastian pistachio baklava, yeah.
[speaking foreign language]
Adnan's family has been visiting us in Turkiye,
but they just left to go back to Jordan.
And while it's been nice spending time with them,
I'm beginning to see how hard it's going to be for Adnan
to leave his family and be living in the US.
There are a lot of topics that have come up on this trip
that I know we need to talk about.
But it's our last night together in Turkiye
and I just want to enjoy it.
I love you so much.
I know. I'm leaving tomorrow.
Yeah.
[chuckles] Do you think that I'm pregnant right now?
[chuckles] Well, we'll find out soon.
[Adnan] Yeah, hopefully.
While I've been in Turkiye,
Adnan and I have been trying to conceive a baby.
I know that it's really important
to Adnan to have kids.
So I am getting a little bit nervous
because my age window is closing.
It's been a long time since I've been pregnant.
So I really don't know what to expect.
Baby, I know that we both want a big family
and we talked about, you know,
having lots of children and all that.
But what happens if for whatever reason,
we can't?
[Adnan speaking]
Okay, wait.
No.
In my religion, I can get married
with four women in the same time.
I will kill you.
[Adnan] Wait, wait.
In my mind, I'm thinking about
which way I would kill you.
Would I strangle you?
-Would I drown you? -Baby, wait.
[laughs]
How would you like to die, honey?
Has anyone in your family done this?
Like is this something from like long time ago?
He get married.
Another wife, when he with my mother
and my mother is not accept and get divorce with him.
So, like, he was able
to get married to another woman
without asking your mom's permission?
Yeah.
Like, when I am child, my father, like, is busy with other wives.
My mother is sad and nobody to care about me
when I am young.
I want to be like a good father,
not a bad father.
I understand.
I thought that polygamy doesn't really happen
so much in Islam anymore,
that it was more of an old thing.
So it's surprising to hear
that Adnan's dad had multiple wives.
Thankfully, Adnan says that he just wants me.
He doesn't want other wives.
But with Adnan being 22,
it does worry me
that what he wants could change over time.
You know, who knows what the future holds.
So I think that
if we can't have children naturally,
like I agree, we'll keep trying,
and if it just doesn't happen--
-We'll find a way. -There's other options.
[Adnan] Yeah. Other options.
Okay?
Okay.
Um...
I did not expect Magda to tell her mom this.
I need to turn things around.
I really do love and care about your daughter,
and I wanna you eventually marry her and start a family.
I don't know.
[Joe speaking]
[Josko speaking]
[Vanja] The fear is so overwhelming
that I just...
[cries] I just don't know how to handle that situation.
[Josko speaking]
[dramatic music playing]
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] I just met Magda's mom
for the first time and found out
Magda told her mom
that I cheated on her.
What do you want to say?
Um...
I did not expect Magda to tell her Mom this.
It definitely puts me in a bad position.
It's really important to me
that I get Magda's mom's approval.
So I need to turn things around.
Tell her that I love and appreciate you
and I really did not mean to hurt you.
I know I did, and I feel horrible about it.
[in Polish]
[Magda] She's just scared.
If you will bored or something, you will leave me.
I wouldn't leave you.
I really do love and care about your daughter,
and I wouldn't be doing this
if I didn't want to eventually marry her
and start a family with her one day.
I don't know.
[Joe speaking]
Okay. I can just say to her.
[in Polish]
[Magda] My mom is very happy
and you think she will be happy
if you will be happy, you know.
[in Polish]
[in English] I will be happy. Um...
[Magda speaking in Polish]
[Magda's mom speaking in Polish]
[Magda] She's just curious how
you think everything will be look, you know,
when I will be moved there.
I don't know. After spending a week in Poland,
I might decide to move here.
I really like your pierogies a lot.
[in Polish]
[Joe] I'm just kidding. I imagine we would have
a very good life going to the beach,
hanging with friends...
dogs, cats...
[automated voice speaking in Polish]
[Joe] Does that make sense?
[Magda] Yes.
[Joe speaking in Polish]
[in Polish]
My mother just wants me to be happy
and feel safe with you, and that's all.
Safe? I'm more excited about me being safe.
[all laughing]
[in Polish]
So what did you think about last night?
[Vanja] Last night I went on a date with Josko,
which was spectacular
and then we came back to my place and this time
I invited him to stay.
And it was incredible
to get to spend the night with him.
I just loved every second of it.
[laughs] First night in bed.
Yeah. I didn't sleep all night.
Thanks to you.
[Vanja] Yes.
Yeah, 'cause you snore.
[both laughing]
I did not have sex with him last night.
He's amazing,
but knowing that I have to go back to the US soon,
I am worried about getting in too deep with him.
I feel like I was holding back
so that I don't end up hurt again.
Me too.
Okay.
Yeah.
[Josko speaking]
[Vanja] Whoo!
Wow.
We're going on a hike today for the Omis fortress.
I absolutely cannot imagine a better way
to spend my last full day in Croatia
than to and visit this beautiful place
with this beautiful man.
[Josko speaking]
[Vanja] What is?
[Vanja chuckles]
[Vanja grunts] God, this is so pretty.
[Josko] Nice.
-It's a real castle. -Yeah.
-[Vanja] Oh, my God! -[Josko] This is super nice, yeah?
[Vanja] Wow. What a view.
I can't believe you've never been up here.
[Josko] No.
Sucks this is the last day.
I don't want to go.
Like what?
I think the fact that you're fostering a kid is super...
just honorable. It's amazing
and the kid is lucky to have you as a father.
-[Vanja] But it's scary. -I know.
You know, I dated somebody
and he had a daughter
and I essentially watched her grow up for five years.
-Yeah. -And when our relationship ended,
the fact that I could no longer see her,
it just broke me so much more.
My ex-fiance had a child,
and I created a very strong bond with her.
I really loved that little girl.
She was my little princess.
It's just difficult
because you see them growing up and you're excited
about what's coming next and then all of a sudden
you're no longer in their life.
It is very hard to fathom
putting myself through that experience again
or putting the child through that.
The fear is so overwhelming
that I just... [sobs]
I just don't know how to handle that situation.
What if our relationship doesn't work out,
and then he ends up being scarred?
And I end up being hurt and you end up being hurt?
It's just the fear of hurt for everyone involved.
And what if I'm not a good mom?
You know, I have my strong independent woman lifestyle...
where I work four jobs, and you know,
I do so much stuff.
[sighs] What if I don't have enough to give?
[sniffling]
What are you talking about?
[speaking English]
Are we getting married then?
I'm worried about those. Yeah.
[Vanja] I finally meet this guy that checks all the boxes
and he comes with a child.
It's a lot to take on, especially because this is not...
even something that I entertained for years.
So, you know, you go with...
years thinking, "Oh, I will never have kids."
And then all of a sudden there is this potential that
I might become a stepmom.
[chuckles] And I'm leaving for Florida tomorrow.
So, what do I... What do I do with this now?
I feel like so much is happening and being thrown at me all at once and...
and seeing that he thinks so highly of me
makes me even scared even more
because does he see in me that I don't see in myself?
You know, does it even exist.
Maybe he's seeing something that he wishes he sees.
And I really don't have that to offer.
You know, and then maybe I would let him down in the process, too.
[crying]
It's a lot.
I'm sorry I'm crying.
I've been patient because I wanted to know each other more better.
But you know that I'm Muslim and my religion is,
it is important to me.
[continues speaking English]
You have to.
[upbeat music playing]
[Veah] Good morning, babe.
[Sunny] Good morning, baby.
[Veah] Look at this view.
It's so beautiful, but so different from Durban.
This really looks so beautiful.
You like that?
How do you feel being out of the Durban?
No more noise...
[continues in English]
This is really adorable. I love this.
The first night of anniversary, it was amazing.
Look at the monkey.
It's coming our way.
[Sunny] Monkey.
This is a huge, nice place.
I know she loves animals.
Monkeys.
Come on. [clicks tongue]
I think that's the mother.
She have two tiny boobies.
[laughing] This is so cool.
Come here.
I just want us to enjoy our time together.
And let's all the problems from Durban and meeting my father...
to melt away.
Okay, we can watch monkeys all day,
but I feel like we need to go get ready for the day.
-[Sunny] That's true. -Let's go.
And some point, I do have to talk to Veah
about converting to my religion.
And I'm nervous about it.
But I have to have a faith in our relationship
because I know that when we are together, we are perfect.
My God, it's an ostrich.
It's so cute and bald.
[all chanting]
[man shouting indistinctly]
So we're going to go around here.
[all singing]
I know she love dancing, so I wanted to surprise her.
with the South African Zulu dancing.
[Zulu music playing]
But I really enjoy seeing these amazing people
because I never seen this type of culture in home.
[Veah] This is so freaking cool.
All I can think is that, man, they are flexible. [laughs]
They're really doing the most, and I love it.
[local music playing]
When the Zulu dancers pulled us on the dance floor...
[speaking English]
[Veah] ...I didn't know Sunny was so shy about dancing,
-But it was cute. -I was shy. [chuckles]
[Veah] You did so good.
[Sunny] Thank you. It wasn't me. It was You made me do that.
[Veah] Well, you know I love dancing.
Dancing is like my passion.
And your bum also.
[Veah] I did show Sunny how to move the booty.
Sunny's raunchy ass said he wanted me to do that in bed tonight.
[Sunny speaking English]
What?
No more talking. [laughs]
Ooh, food.
Thank you.
This looks so delicious.
Thank you.
It was a really fun day.
It has been a fun couple...
Past couple days.
Finally we're here in the dinner,
romantic dinner.
How do you feel about our future?
What do you see?
[Veah] Us living in the middle of nowhere,
with a couple of kids and a bunch of animals.
That's a good idea. I love them.
-What else? -[Veah] Just a cute little life...
-...with a swing. -[Sunny] Okay.
Okay, babe. [clears throat]
I've been patient because I wanted to know each other more better,
and we have feelings for each other,
like it's truly deeply.
I never forced the issue of where I'm converting to my religion.
We haven't even talked about it since she met my dad.
But it's time for me to come clean and be honest about my true feelings.
You know that I'm Muslim.
And my religion is, it is important to me.
[Veah] Yeah.
You know, in our religion, say that,
that if you're with the woman, she is not like, Muslim...
so that person had to come Muslim,
you know, to be with that person.
You have to.
[Magda] I want Joe to play volleyball.
I want to show him a little of my life.
-[continues in English] -Out!
Magda's pretty good. I wouldn't say as good as me, but...
Oh!
[bleeps] Sorry.
That's okay.
[bleeping]
All right...
I totally may be too early.
But I started having some lower abdominal pressure.
I'm hopeful that it's positive.
Right.
[upbeat music playing]
I got it.
Saw that? Natural.
[all exclaiming]
[speaking indistinctly]
I feel like I'm gonna be really good at this.
Today is our last day in Bedzin,
and tomorrow we are going to the Polish mountains of Zakopane.
So I am very glad that everything went great last night with Magda's mom.
Coast is clear, smooth sailing after that.
[speaking Polish]
[speaking English]
Joe has been in Poland more than a week.
He already met my friends, my mom, and now I want Joe to play for volleyball.
Because it's my hobby. It's my passion.
I hope so he will like this, too.
I want show him a little my life.
Sure.
-[grunts] -[bleeps]
I didn't know what was going on.
[speaking English]
-You got it. You got it. -I'm wanted to get it. It just went to you--
Ah!
[Joe] Okay.
Got it. I got it.
Oh!
No, no, no, no.
Ah!
Magda's pretty good.
I wouldn't say as good as me, but I'd put her as like...
a strong second place on the team.
-Sorry. -It's okay.
Try? Conquered that volleyball court.
Babe?
-[bleeps] -[grunts]
-My bad. -[Magda] That's all right.
Thank you for the match.
Hey. Thank you. Thank you.
It's okay, babe. We can drink.
We can stay a little longer and I will...
Yeah, yeah. We should practice that.
Yeah. Okay.
You got it.
Beautiful.
That's sick, right?
[grunts] Cheater.
-[laughs] -Um...
Who do you normally play volleyball with?
Mostly girls or guys, too?
Mostly with girls.
But I play with men, too, sometimes.
From Czech Republic, Slovakia, Poland.
Why do you have to play with guys?
It's more fun, and it's more like adrenaline over there.
Have they ever hit on you and tried dating you?
Of course.
-Who wouldn't? -Everyone want date me. Babe.
[imitating] Everyone want date me.
But, baby, it's not good if you play with
your men and the volleyball
because it's nice for the beginning,
but then you start to fight.
Why you don't take these balls?
Spike. Why you didn't do that...
Yeah, you can't [bleep] where you eat.
You don't want to mix business with pleasure.
It's for me like...
I don't think so you can be friends with your ex.
[Joe clears throat]
So you don't think people can remain friends if you dated?
No, you can't be friends with your ex.
Always will be some problem.
You've had sex.
You have some feelings to them.
It's impossible to share your life and...
No, no, you can't-- You cannot.
[Joe] Ha!
This is a little complicated for me
because one of my good friends,
Jill and I have been friends with 15 years.
I did date her for a while.
I tried to serve. Didn't go good.
But I didn't tell Magna 'cause I did not think it was a big deal.
There's nothing between me and Jill.
It's not a threat. There's nothing romantic.
All right. I'm tired, Magda.
Let's go pack.
Hearing how Magda is so adamant about
not being friends with an ex...
and knowing it's very important to not hide anything from her.
Now I realize it is something that I do need to tell her about.
But we're about to go on this romantic trip.
Let's go.
Oof! I don't think she's gonna be too thrilled by it.
It's scary 'cause things are finally going really well between us
and I don't want to mess that up again.
[upbeat music playing]
I think that's everything.
-[Adnan] That's everything? -Mm-hmm.
If I forget anything, you can just take it with you to Jordan.
[Adnan] Yeah. That's right.
After spending a week in Istanbul with Adnan
today I'm leaving to go back to Texas
and Adnan is going back to Jordan.
[Tigerlily] Okay.
[Tigerlily] We don't really know how long it will take
for Adnan to get his visa to the US.
Thank you.
So not knowing whenever we're going to see each other again
definitely makes it harder.
I can't wait until we're together all the time.
Not back and forth.
Mm.
[Tigerlily] Aside from working on our problems,
the priority for our trip this time
was to make a baby.
And I think that we definitely put a lot of effort in there,
and hopefully we'll be, you know, successful.
[upbeat music playing]
Thank you.
[both in English]
Okay?
I know, baby.
-Yeah? Bye. -Yeah.
-Bye. -I love you.
-Yeah. -Okay. Bye, honey.
[in English]
So I started having, like,
some lower abdominal, I guess...
...pressure since the baby making trip.
So it totally may be too early.
But I made sure to travel in my prime time
ovulation window.
So I ordered this test.
It says that, like, this is the best one.
It's supposed to be super early.
So and I'm hopeful that it's positive...
We'll just find out.
All right.
Test.
Fingers crossed.
[flushes]
Okay. I just took the test.
And now...
we wait.
Totally nerve-racking.
[percussion music playing]
All right.
I'm really nervous.
All right.
Here we go.
It's positive.
I am pregnant.
And Adnan's going to be a father.
This is like an absolute dream come true for me.
But it's also a little scary.
My husband is halfway across the world.
I can't wait to tell Adnan.
He's actually calling me right now.
[cell phone ringing]
I can't answer. This is, like, huge.
This is not something that you tell someone on the phone.
I'm gonna have to look and see when I can go next
and tell him in-person.
I just hope he gets his spousal visa approved as soon as possible,
because how am I going to do this alone?
I still can't. I still can't...
believe it. I don't even know what to say.
What--
I need to do all the things. Like it's been so long since I've had a little baby.
Like, I need a new stroller.
How am I gonna fit another car seat in my Lamborghini?
I may have to get a new car.
I want to see where this goes with you.
It's my last night, but Josko has not brought up what's going to happen
with us when I leave tomorrow.
So then what is it that we're doing?
Um...
Like, are you my boyfriend?
[upbeat music playing]
I'm glad I get to spend another night with you.
I'm there. Yes. A hundred percent.
[bleeps]
How are you so naughty?
I am still processing everything that Josko has said at the top of the hike.
It's literally everything I've been hoping to hear from someone.
But then at the same time, it's a lot for me that he has a kid.
And the fact that we live in different countries
makes this so much more complicated.
Ooh, it's cold.
[Josko speaking]
-[Vanja exclaims] -[Josko speaking]
[Vanja chuckles]
On top of everything else, it's my last at night in Croatia,
and he has not brought up talking about what the next steps might be.
So I am starting to wonder what's going to happen with us when I leave tomorrow.
Could I have the vegan Nutella and the pistachio?
[salesman speaking]
Thank you. Appreciate it. [laughs]
Thank you.
Thank you so much.
-Have a good night. -Cheers.
Yummy.
So good.
It's delicious.
I can't believe this is our last night together.
[Vanja] So what are you thinking?
-You want to come visit me? -Yeah.
-if you'll have me there. -Yes.
For you, yeah.
[Vanja] Wow.
That makes me so happy.
-Yeah? -I would love that.
Yeah, that's super cool.
-Let's go do it. -Yeah.
[Vanja] The toe is here.
So you touch, you make a wish and then you wait
for your near future and see if it works out.
Apparently, a lot of people have made a wish.
Yeah.
Okay.
You did it. Your turn.
Is it about me?
Well... Whatever it is, I hope it comes true.
So-- So then, what...
What is it that we're doing?
Is this, like, gonna be, like a long-distance relationship, or...
What...
So are you my boyfriend?
Well, I'm still glad we're official.
Yeah.
[Vanja] This is what I want.
I want-- I want to see where this goes with you.
I guess that the toe worked!
Even though-- even though I didn't tell you.
That's what I wished for...
[Vanja] That's so funny.
[Josko speaking]
Okay, let's go do it.
What's happening?
This is crazy.
Especially considering I came here for a different relationship.
And that all blew up in flames.
And I thought I was wasting my time here.
I thought this was all for nothing.
But no, it wasn't because it was just a weird way for
the universe to get me to...
to meeting the, the love of my life.
This is amazing.
Wow.
-[Josko speaking] -Yeah.
-Mm... -Take your shoes off.
Are you leading in the right direction? [laughs]
Now that the relationship status has been established,
the chastity belt could potentially come off a little bit easier.
Do you think that there's ever a place
where we can both have our separate religions?
If you can't accept my religion, I can't be with you.
I'm not [bleeps] becoming Muslim.
I'm sorry.
-Sunny. -No, I'm going home.
I am not going to do that.
You have to.
If you can't accept my religion, I can't be with you.
I'm sorry, that's the truth.
But I do accept your religion.
I just don't want to be... Muslim.
I'm confused what you're talking about.
I think that you feel a lot of pressure from outsiders,
like Ali and your dad.
[Sunny] No, that's not true.
That's totally not true.
Then why didn't you tell me this before?
Because I believed that people can be changed
and I can change people if I want to with love.
And I wanted to love you first, and I did.
So I've been waiting for a time...
that when is the time gonna come
I'm gonna talk to you about that.
It's not like nobody pressure me.
Ali is right what he's saying.
My dad is right, what he's saying.
They are right because that's who I am.
If you're like...
"Oh, yeah. Like, I really follow my religion. 110."
Like that just doesn't make sense to me.
Like clearly if strict Muslims aren't going to have sex before marriage.
So you are conflicted.
I am hundred percent Muslim.
I believe my religion.
I do, and I try my best to do.
But I'm still young.
I do sometimes mess up.
But at the end of the day, I'm a human being, you know, I do mistake.
I love my religion more than anything in the world.
But why does your religion matter more than mine?
Babe, I'm not telling you to change your religion right now,
right away in this dinner.
But I'm never going to... I don't think I'm ever going to change.
Like, I have no desire to... cover my hair.
I've done that before.
I was forced to do that and it confused me...
-...so much. -Whoever did that to you. it's a wrong thing.
They didn't have any right to do the things to you--
But you're asking me to do that.
Is there, like, do you think that there's ever...
a place where we could both have our separate religions...
and still to have a successful relationship?
Like, I just don't understand, babe.
Like why there can't be a place where if you worship Allah
and I worship my... Like who I believe in, like God, you know.
I feel like you're giving me an ultimatum.
Like eventually it has to happen or...
That's like forcing your religion on me I feel.
Hearing that I have to convert to Islam
or we're not going to be together.
It just crushes me.
I mean, I just feel completely blindsided.
And just really betrayed by Sunny.
I think love should just be enough.
We can have our own separate religions and be in love.
And why is love not enough for us?
Why is our love not enough?
I can't change myself to be with somebody.
Once you understand my religion, how is work,
how is feeling, you're gonna find the peace. I'm telling you.
My religion have so much peace...
if you believe.
I'm not telling you to change it one month, two month.
In six months, as long as time you need.
But if you have a mind that you're never gonna do that, I can't be with you.
Well, Sunny, that's just gonna break our relationship
because I'm not [bleeps] becoming Muslim.
-I'm sorry. -Sunny.
[Sunny speaking]
I'm so frustrated.
And I'm so angry.
I know that Veah never going to understand my feelings with this.
I feel like she's being a selfish.
Babe, come here.
No, I'm going home. I'm not gonna do that.
It's very important to my family, and it's also important to me.
-Babe, come here. -Veah, please.
But at the end of the day, I need to choose what is right.
Either she accepts or either she'll go away.
If God wants me to be with her, I'll be with her.
If God doesn't want me...
[Veah] Sunny, look at me.
This is [bleeps] you need to communicate with me.
I'm so confused because you never told me,
like, I actually have to convert.
What the [bleep] are we gonna do?
No? Almost.
[Faith speaking in English]
-Yes. -I think it's not.
[Faith] I'm his fiancee.
I am supposed to mean the world to him.
[soft music playing]
[Loren] Let's go.
Yeah.
[Faith] This is your last night.
It is my last.
[Faith speaking]
Hmm-hmm.
[Loren speaking]
[Faith] Yeah.
[Loren] Yeah.
Are you happy for that?
[Loren] Of course.
[Faith] It's Lauren's last night here in the Philippines.
To make this special night,
he booked a room at a romantic hotel
with the money he has left.
[Faith] And we're here.
Yeah, hotel time.
[Faith] I know that Loren is upset from
the lawyer's advice because...
-Thank you. -Thank you.
[speaking Filipino]
This is the nicest hotel that I ever stayed.
And tonight I feel ready to go to the next level with Loren.
Sexy time.
-Look at the view. It's super nice. [giggles] -Oh, yeah?
Yeah.
[Faith] And, you know...
[Loren] There's a cake there.
Can you do a picture before going, a little bit?
Cheese.
Are you saying cheese?
-I have to say cheese? -Yes.
Cheese.
-See? -[laughs]
[Faith] Cheers.
Yeah.
[Loren] Right now I'm in my head about everything.
I had pictured a life with Faith in the Philippines.
So I'm just having a really hard time with that.
But I want to enjoy my last moments with Faith.
So I'm trying to hide how depressed I feel.
So you know, um...
...the lawyer told us the option, the K-1 visa,
Mm-hmm.
So that means you need to hire a lawyer.
I mean, I guess I don't have to.
Mm-hmm.
[Loren] You can do that one.
[Loren laughs]
-There's no plan. -You're leaving for tomorrow.
I've got a couple of friends that are like, "Yeah, come live with me."
But...
I don't know which one I want to live with.
Nope? Almost.
What?
Get ready to go back to America.
I don't know.
What?
Why not?
It's not sharp--
Sure.
-Yes. -I think it's not.
Okay, then I'm not gonna crush any more cans.
Yes.
Yeah.
[speaking Filipino]
[Faith] I'm his fiancee.
I am supposed to mean the world to him.
But...
[continues in Filipino]
[in English] I am not feeling the love.
Yeah.
Um...
I thought it was gonna be happy today.
But I'm scared.
See him.
[Sunny] Next time on... Before The 90 Days...
[speaking in foreign language]
[Niles] Now that I'm here, Matilda and I's wedding,
I think I'm in over my head.
[all speaking foreign language]
[man speaking foreign language]
Without my parents standing by me, I'm feeling like I'm alone.
So I just hope that I'm doing the right thing.
[all cheering]
-[Vanja] I'm gonna miss you so much. -[Josko speaking]
It's Josko's first time at Lake Eola.
It's perfect.
Josko decided to come visit me in Orlando for ten days.
This kitchen has never been this sexy. [giggles]
We spent this magical time together.
He has been saying that he would love to move here.
So what happened next could not have been more shocking.
I've been carrying this ring all this time with me.
I was planning to propose her,
but now I feel like this could be all for nothing.
Because Veah not going to convert her religion.
The Bay Area Suites hotel in the Latte.
I texted faith to see if I could talk to her one last time.
Last night was weird, you know.
Maybe just... It wasn't right.
But I mean, we've been through so much the last few weeks.
We've built a real relationship.
It's hard to think there's no hope for us.
Yeah, I'm sorry.
Good morning.
[chuckles]
I've been having a wonderful time.
One thing I need to talk to you about...
one of my really good friends.
We dated for a short time.
You [bleeped] your friend?
You lied to me again.
He promised to me that he will never lie and hide anything.
And he did.
I shouldn't have hid it from you.
I shouldn't have waited.
-I get it-- -No, you don't get it.
I will [bleeping] take her eyes and your too, and [bleeping] eat them!
I'm done.
[sighs in exasperation]