[Loren] Previously on Before the 90 Days...
Okay. I made a wish.
[both laugh]
So are you my boyfriend?
Josko comes with a child, and I have no idea
what that might mean for us.
-Mmm. -Taking the shoes off.
But now that the relationship status has been established,
the chastity belt could potentially come off.
[kissing]
[Joe] Hearing how Magda is so adamant about
not being friends with an ex,
I definitely need to find a way to tell her
that I dated my friend Jill.
But we're about to go on this romantic trip.
[sighs] Oof.
I don't think she's gonna be too thrilled by it.
[sighs]
[Niles] I am so relieved that Mr. Arc agreed
to loan me the money for the bride price,
the ceremony,
but I really wish I had the approval of my parents.
What makes you think that I am not rational?
Father, I've been-- I've given it two freaking years.
At least talk to her first before you say that.
You won't be talking to her?
Okay.
If you can't accept my religion, I can't be with you.
[Veah] I just feel completely blindsided
and just really betrayed by Sunny.
I'm so frustrated.
I need to choose what is right.
Either she accepts or
[Veah] This is [bleep] you need to communicate with me.
I'm so confused. Like, I actually have to convert?
What the [bleep] are we gonna do?
Yes.
[Faith speaking in foreign language]
[in English] I not feel the love.
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] I have a science to packing.
Boom.
Um, do we need anything else?
Or we're good?
No, we are good.
We are ready to go.
To the magic mountains.
Yes, the magic mountains.
[Joe] I have less than a week left,
so I'm focused on just cherishing our time together.
Yeah, but I gotta carry the suitcase.
I don't know what--
how many things you think I can carry.
-Unless I use my-- -The orange, the orange one.
-Unless I use my penis. -Give me the--
[Joe] Today we're going to Zakopane.
Got a cute little cottage.
Very pretty views of the mountains.
Who's a good boy?
I'm still nervous about the short amount of time
we have to kind of like figure out our future.
And we still haven't been intimate
because Magda wants to wait.
Plus, I'm concerned how Magda is gonna react
once I tell her that I used to date my friend Jill.
Hades, are you excited for the mountains, dude?
You're like a little mountain dog/goat.
I know that I love her,
and I really do think we have a future together.
-Really? -Mmm-hmm.
The best night for me is to go to the cuisine,
drink,
and just relax.
And that's your ideal night.
-Yeah. -[laughs]
I'd prefer anal.
No way.
Never.
If you want,
put something to your ass.
And if you will be happy, we can try.
No way.
-You don't have a penis. -Because, remember...
Well, that's not a theory I want to test.
[laughs]
Ooh, I see mountains. Holy [bleep]! Is that them?
-Yeah. -No way.
[Joe speaking]
Look how cute everything is.
[Magda] Look, Hades.
Wow!
-[Joe] Look at this! -You will have a new friend.
[Joe] I could definitely milk that cow.
This is so beautiful and romantic.
[Magda] I'm so happy everything's been very well
between me and Joe.
But Joe will be going back soon
so we don't have much more time.
This looks very cute.
[Magda speaking]
Hades, it is Jacuzzi here!
Yeah!
-The dog? -Mmm-hmm.
Oh, yeah. That's who I got it for, the dog.
-What a nice view. -[Magda] So cool!
Come.
[Joe] And a little table.
[Magda] Yeah.
We are going for a walk.
-[Joe] All right. -Babe, I will take him for a walk.
The last walk today.
-So... -I'll get the place situated.
-All right. -We will be back in a minute.
Oh, no [bleep].
This is an old-school hot tub.
I like it.
Ooh!
Okay, I just burnt my thumb.
I think it's going.
Hi!
Say hi.
Hades.
[phone ringing]
Joey!
What's up, [bleep] face?
You like this? You like the Polish mountains?
We got a hot tub.
Wow, look at that.
I got a farmer's tan somehow.
I haven't really spoken with any of my friends
since I've been in Poland,
and Rob is one of my very best friends,
and, uh, I always appreciate
his honest advice on all situations.
So, how's everything going? How's Magda?
We're really bonding, um,
you know, talking about marriage and kids
and like, you know, all that fun [bleep].
Well, that's normal. Right to it.
Right to it-- It's normal, right?
To talk about that right when you meet someone.
[Rob laughs]
All right, but no red flags yet?
Everything is going good?
I mean, yesterday, I was playing volleyball,
and then I asked Magda about her ex-boyfriends
or if she dated any volleyball players.
How many did she date?
I don't think she dated any.
She said no. She doesn't [bleep] where she eats.
But then we got into the conversation of, like,
can you be friends with an ex?
And Magda said no.
Now I got to tell her about Jill, and, uh,
she's gonna [bleep] freak out when I tell her that.
Jill has been my friend for 15 years
and we dated seven years ago,
but Magda does not know that me and Jill dated.
I introduced them on FaceTime.
Oh, but Magda didn't know that you guys were dating.
Yeah. So then it seems like you were hiding it.
Yeah, that was probably stupid of me.
But I still have to like tell her.
I'm, like, mortified how this is gonna just hurt her.
[Rob] Yeah. I mean,
you gotta kind of explain the situation to her.
You know,
the longer that you leave this going on,
yeah, the worse it's gonna be.
It's gonna end up blowing up in your face.
You gotta get ahead of it.
Yeah. I mean, this isn't a great position I'm in.
She's a feisty one when she gets mad.
You got to, like, really tread lightly.
Get it over with.
Don't be stupid, Joey.
Okay, I'll try.
All right, thanks, dude. I appreciate the advice.
I'm always here for you, Joey. You know,
-Bye. Peace. -Toodles.
[Joe] It's definitely been weighing on my mind
that having a friend I used to date
could be an issue for Magda.
But I'm trying to avoid, you know,
her making me cut someone out of my life
that I care about.
It's very important to have Jill in my life.
It's someone that, like...
like I said, we've been through a lot
and I don't view it as an ex-girlfriend.
I view it as like a sister, almost, that I'm always...
there for and she's there for me if I ever need anything.
So I just hope that Magda will be understanding.
[Magda] Babe, I'm ready.
[Joe] Okay, feel the water and tell me what you think.
Babe, it's cold.
It's fire-lit.
You have to light it with an actual [bleep] fire.
It's taking a lot longer
than expected.
It's not horrible.
Sit in that corner. That's where the heat is.
[bleep]
Come here, come here.
Over here, over here, over here!
-[whimpering] -[chuckles] Oh, it's not that bad.
It is!
I thought you were a tough army woman.
No.
I'm cold.
How nice is this hot tub and the scenery?
I'm really happy to be here.
I'm happy, too.
Anywhere I'm with you, I'm happy.
No matter the temperature.
Or the conditions. I sweat a lot on this [bleep] trip.
Even though I'm trying to show Magda
a nice time in the mountains,
I do know I need to tell her about Jill tonight.
With Magda being in such a good mood,
you know, maybe she'll be more understanding.
But I've already seen the way she reacts
when she thinks I'm not being honest with her.
And I'm a little concerned that it could, uh,
you know, ruin this entire trip.
I'm just hoping that it doesn't result
in anything catastrophic.
[sobbing quietly]
[Faith speaking]
But after we left the immigration lawyer,
his personality changed.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Loren in English] This is upsetting, you know.
If I knew Faith was going to...
get upset about smashing cans and fidgeting with a knife,
I probably wouldn't have done it.
I think she perceived stabbing my hand with the utensil
as aggressive or destructive or towards her in some way.
But, really, I was just fidgeting with a utensil.
I'm sad that I upset Faith, I guess.
Like, that's something I don't like doing.
But it seems to be one of my skills,
upset Faith.
I respect whatever she wants.
And if this is what she really wants,
then that's what she gets.
So if Faith wants to run off on our last night,
I mean, I'm just gonna let her.
I'm feeling hopeless and distraught
at the whole idea of the K-1 visa anyway.
I'm in no mood to...
deal with just one more fight on our last night together.
[Loren] Mmm, I'm just gonna lay down.
I'm kind of in shock about what just happened.
I mean, it is hurtful that Faith was afraid of me.
I would never hurt her ever.
All I've done is be nice to her
every single day,
no matter how she acted
or what kind of nonsense was going on.
I always said, "I just want you to be happy,"
every single day.
It's been hard for me ever since Loren arrived in Manila.
It makes me feel like he never cared for me,
and maybe he was just using me to stay in the Philippines.
♪♪ I don't really understand ♪
♪♪ Why things like that happen ♪
♪♪ But I want to hold your space ♪
For me, I've been, you know,
I'm alone for how many years.
And...
[speaking in foreign language]
♪♪ When you're feeling all behind ♪
♪♪ Tell me that I feel alone ♪
♪♪ I'll take care of every word ♪
♪♪ But I'm not gonna run and hurt you ♪
[speaking in foreign language]
♪♪ When you're feeling all behind ♪
♪♪ Tell me that you feel alone ♪
♪♪ If you let me know ♪
♪♪ Then I'll show you I can never hurt you ♪
You think we can do it long distance and everything?
Somebody's gonna have to move.
[Vanja] I don't want to move to Croatia,
but at the same time,
he cannot leave the country with the baby.
So that could completely destroy
our relationship going forward.
[crying]
[Niles] I'm here at Matilda and I's wedding.
And without my parents standing by me,
I think I'm in over my head.
[Niles] This decision will change my life forever.
Yeah.
I know at least I'll be sleeping, though,
in my bed.
But I love kissing you.
I love being next to you.
[Vanja] It's my last morning in Croatia with Josko,
and I fly back to Orlando in a few hours.
We did not have sex last night.
Wah-wah-wah. Again.
Um, even though I feel super attracted to him,
it didn't feel right
because we had such an emotional day.
We were discussing such heavy topics,
and we just really wanted to spend
that time together in bed, just embracing.
And I felt like our closeness
just got stronger through that.
We didn't feel like physical intimacy
was what the situation was calling for at that moment.
And you think we can do it long distance and everything?
And then what?
Somebody's gonna have to move.
-You know? -That's fair.
Yeah.
Is it time for me to start getting ready?
Okay.
Boo. This sucks.
[sighs]
Here, let me take the purse.
Thank you.
[Josko speaking]
So what are you gonna do after you leave the airport?
[sniffling]
[Vanja] It feels so sad going back home,
unsure about our future together.
[Josko speaking]
[Vanja] I keep thinking about the fact that
if this relationship is going to work,
one of us is going to have to move.
I don't want to move to Croatia,
but at the same time,
he cannot leave the country with the baby.
So I don't know how we're going to figure this out.
[sighs] There are so many what-ifs in this situation,
and they're all real what-ifs.
What if he cools off?
What if he finds somebody else?
You know, what if I'm not a good mom?
What if I don't do the right things?
There's so many moving parts here
that haven't been figured out.
If one thing doesn't-- doesn't work out,
it could completely destroy
our relationship going forward.
[bleep]
[crying]
[Vanja] I'm gonna miss you so much.
-[Vanja] Promise? -Yeah.
Thank you for being so amazing.
You're the most special person ever.
Are you?
At least we're honest.
Yeah.
-I'll call you. -Yeah.
As soon as I land on my next stop.
♪♪ Lonely nights without your love ♪
[sniffles]
[joyful music playing]
[Niles] I'm about to get married.
[exhales] Wow.
It really is happening for me.
Today, Matilda and I are having our knocking ceremony,
followed by the wedding.
Even though it wasn't my original plan,
I do feel ready to get married.
However, there is something weighing on my mind right now.
Well, if I'm being honest,
why should I have to decide between my happiness
and my parents' love and my parents' support?
I don't know what their problem is,
but why do they equate my happiness with Matilda as...
somehow...
insulting them, hurting them,
disrespecting them?
Yesterday, my parents told me that they were not happy
that I was getting married.
They told me that they did not approve.
So, as much as it hurts me,
maybe this next step in my life
just isn't gonna include my parents.
I'll ask them how the sash is supposed to be done.
Otherwise...
I'm ready for action.
[speaking in foreign language]
[in English] I am so happy that I am marrying Niles today.
But he didn't leave me with much time
to put this wedding together.
[speaking in foreign language]
[in English] Even though this is not the dream wedding
I was waiting for...
I just hope that Niles was able to get the money from Mr. Arc
It's very important that he do this correctly.
Hey! [grunts]
[speaking in foreign language]
-[in English] Hey. -Hey, Mom.
-Hey, Dad. -Hey.
[Niles] I feel good.
A little nervous.
[Mr. Arc speaking]
-[Mary] This is 1,000 for the father's... -[Niles] For the father.
[Niles] Another 1,000 for the mother's side.
One...
Three hundred for the knocking fee.
[Niles sighs] Ah, man.
I understand.
[Niles] Well, Mr. Arc, he's very good at explaining
how things work in this culture,
but I didn't expect to hear that today.
Now we are going to Matilda's family's house.
Yes.
Yes, Mom. Yes, Dad.
Good God.
[Mary speaking]
[Niles] Thank you. You guys look nice, too.
Yes-- Yes, sir.
Yes, Dad.
[speaking in foreign language]
[Mr. Arc speaking]
-I sit there? -Yes.
We've talked so much about Ghanian tradition these past few weeks.
I've never felt so nervous in my entire life.
It's just...
I don't wanna make mistakes anymore.
[woman singing]
[women singing]
[Niles] Because of my autism, being in this room,
there's a lot of sensory issues
that I'm going through right now.
I'm surrounded by people that I don't really know.
Everyone is staring at me
and I'm about to participate in a ceremony that I don't quite understand.
-[woman] Okay. -[Ebenezer] Right.
[Niles] I know that Matilda is the love of my life.
But now that I'm here
and I'm about to do this without my parents standing by me,
I feel like I'm in over my head.
[Niles] This decision will change my life forever.
So my heart is pounding out of my chest, it's in my ears at this point.
So I just hope I'm doing the right thing.
[Sunny] I was planning to propose to her,
but because they are not going to convert to my religion, it's all for nothing.
[Veah] Are you okay?
[Sunny] Yeah, it was.
I didn't thought something gonna go like that.
That was hard for me.
Like, I don't know how to handle this thing
and what is the solution, even.
[sighs wearily]
I don't wanted to lose her because I love her, I care about her.
I was planning to even propose to her.
And I bought the ring for her.
It's a huge decision for me to make
because my religion, it's deep in my life,
in my family, every single thing that I have.
I don't know how to handle that.
I've been carrying this ring all this time with me.
And now I feel like this could be all for nothing
because Veah not going to convert her religion.
[Veah] Hey, babe, how are you?
How are you feeling?
Are you okay?
-[Veah] You need a hug? -I do.
The situation she put me in
that she's not gonna convert to my religion,
I don't know what to do.
-[Veah] You wanna go? -Yeah.
[Veah] I'll go get ready.
[Sunny] But I really wanna enjoy time spending with Veah before she leaves,
so I want to take Veah hiking.
There's a nice waterfall and I can't wait to take her.
Veah, look at this mountain.
[Veah] It's beautiful. I don't wanna go back to Durban.
-[Sunny] It's okay. We can stay here. -I wish.
I feel like I'm so confused with myself, where I'm standing.
I'm hoping that getting in the nature
gonna even help me to decide what to do.
[Veah] Look down there. That's actually really pretty.
Oh, my God, we gotta go across the water.
-[Sunny] Let's see. -We got this.
-[Sunny] Okay. -We can cross it.
Be careful.
[Veah] I only have a few more days left here in South Africa,
and at this point,
I don't know where Sunny's head is.
-[Sunny] Okay, let me hold the rope for you. -[Veah] Okay.
[Veah] It feels like the fact that I wanna keep my religion
might be a deal breaker for him.
But after spending the last two weeks with Sunny,
we started to get closer and I've started to see a future with him.
So if we broke up now, I would be devastated.
You made it.
[Veah] Okay, I'll hold the rope for you.
I don't think I could find what we have again.
We have something pretty special.
-We made it. -We made it. Let's go.
Look at that.
Oh, wow. This is so gorgeous.
Wow.
Did you say nature is talking?
Yeah, it's talking to me.
Nature is talking, huh?
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah speaking]
[Sunny] Over the past few days,
I've been thinking a lot about my relationship with Veah
because they're never going to accept her.
but in the same time,
Veah is really kind person.
She always stand by me when I was sad,
when I was going through struggle.
Veah is special to me, and I don't wanna lose her.
And I'm just really worried that all the differences we have is just too much.
No, it's okay. The air will dry me.
Okay.
There is something I wanna talk to you.
[Veah speaking]
[Joe] Good morning.
[Joe] I had every intention of telling her about Jill last night,
but then one thing led to another, and...
I've been having a wonderful time,
and there's just one thing I need to talk to you about.
It has to do with one of my really good friends
that you met on FaceTime, Jill.
Good morning.
[Joe] How did you sleep?
Very well.
I'm definitely more happy this morning than the other mornings.
[gasps]
-A little bit. -[Magda] How dare you?
'Cause we had a sex last night.
"A sex."
I can say I'm not disappointed.
He was really gentle, and all of it was perfect.
No, I mean, it was beautiful.
We have good endurance because we're both athletes. I mean it's... Done.
So what if you were disappointed today?
Oh, my God, I would have left.
No, I'd still be madly in love with you. It doesn't matter.
I'm happy you wait with me for that.
Don't push me of anything.
You're worth the wait.
But I'm definitely glad we didn't wait till six months or a proposal.
I changed my mind for you.
I hope that you will respect me
and love me forever.
[laughs] I think we have a great thing going here.
Amazing.
-Amazing? -Mm-hmm.
[Magda] So you want go out and explore?
[Joe] Okay, let's do it.
Okay, so let's go change.
Okay.
I'm glad that we were finally able to be intimate,
but my conscience is definitely weighing on me.
[groans]
I had every intention of telling her about Jill last night.
But we were in the hot tub, and then one thing led to another, and then...
here we are.
What's a wesele?
[Magda] Wesele. It's wedding.
Ooh, are we gonna have a wesele?
First, you have to propose me to have wedding, babe.
[Joe] I know that I probably should have told her right then and there,
but I'm in such a great place with Magda right now.
We're happy.
[Magda speaking]
[Joe] But I'm gonna be leaving Poland soon,
and the longer I put it off, the bigger deal it's gonna be.
So, I don't know. I definitely have to tell her today.
Wow, it's so pretty.
[Magda speaking]
Can we go and buy mini donuts?
-[Joe] Okay. -Okay.
Thank you so much.
Mmm. Baby.
Wow.
You wanna sit down over here?
Yeah, we can sit.
Okay, so...
I've been having a wonderful time with you here.
Like, I feel like we have a really good connection.
And there's just one thing I need to talk to you about.
It was a long time ago, but it has to do with one of my really good friends.
I've been friends with her for 15 years, that you met on FaceTime, Jill.
Yeah.
So we dated for a short time and then it didn't work,
and then we stayed friends again.
And I'm sorry. I felt really bad for not telling you
and I wanna be honest and upfront about it.
Well, I don't think it's that important.
It is important.
-It was a long time ago. I don't think it's-- -I don't care.
For me, it is big stuff.
You [bleep] your friend.
Not on a regular basis, it was like seven years ago.
I don't care when.
You [bleep] call me with her on video. You meet with her.
You [bleep] her seven years ago?
And I asked you if you had some past with your friends, and you said no.
You told me that.
[groans softly]
No, I know. It's just like... I honestly don't look at it as an ex-girlfriend, but...
I'm sorry. I didn't wanna lie to you.
You promise me it's nothing important, you two no more.
I mean, that's pretty much it. There's nothing else.
I don't believe you.
A few months ago, I ask him if he had a sex with some of his friends,
and he said no and he promised to me
he will never lied and hide anything.
And he did.
I told you, "Do one more thing again and we will be done."
[woman speaking]
My heart is pounding out of my chest, it's in my ears at this point.
So I just hope that I'm doing the right thing.
[people cheering]
[Matilda] I finally made it to my wedding.
Even though we have some issues
over the past three weeks,
I fall even more in love with Niles.
I know life will not be easy because of his autism
and the fact that his family don't support our marriage.
But the only future I want is with Niles.
Is it the lady that you intend marrying?
Is she the one?
Yes, she is the one.
[people cheering]
There was so much chaos leading up to today.
I was so overstimulated and overwhelmed.
But seeing Matilda looking so beautiful,
hearing her family, my family, cheering us on, everything feels so right.
I just cannot wait for her to become my wife.
[Mr. Arc speaking]
Okay.
[Mr. Arc speaking]
Put it on her finger?
Right here.
[man] Say something.
Matilda--
[woman speaking]
[Mr. Arc speaking]
[clears throat] Matilda, for better or worse,
for richer, for poorer,
no matter what comes our way, I promise you I will always be your husband.
I will always be loyal to you, I will always value you, I will always respect you,
and I will always love you.
-[Mr. Arc speaking] Amen. -[man] Amen.
[man speaking]
-You're finally Mrs. Valentine. -Yes.
I can now finally say that Mrs. Valentine isn't just my mother.
[Matilda speaking]
But I am very happy.
So the Lord God bless you.
-Amen. -[people] Amen.
Remember when I said that the day that I met you
was the happiest day of my life?
And me too, I said that.
I lied.
This is the happiest day of my life.
[Matilda speaking]
-Oh, definitely. -Yeah.
Thank you, all.
Thank you all for accepting me,
thank you for becoming my wife,
thank you for welcoming me into your family.
[Niles] The last 24 hours just don't even matter anymore.
I was so worried, and you know what?
It all ended up working out in the end.
I don't know what's gonna happen
once I bring Matilda with me to live in the US,
but sometimes, family is what you make it,
not necessarily what you're born to.
Come and help me.
[grunting and yelling in pain]
[Niles] Don't fall, please.
♪♪ No one loves you like I do ♪
I'm feeling not only happy, but more like this is supposed to be the way things are.
I have my wife, I have my video games, I have my laptop.
I have everything I need.
-Huh? -You have your squishy, too.
-Yeah. -Can always do your squishy squishies.
It took us two years and a very chaotic, crazy trip, but we did it.
You know, there was no big party, no big, lavish, all-out ceremony here,
but the important part is the love that Matilda and I have for each other.
Yes, I know one way to get it off.
Mmm-mm.
[Niles] And the night isn't over yet.
I'm confident that Matilda and I
are meant to spend the rest of our lives together.
But first we have some husband and wife business to attend to.
[Matilda] Thank you, baby.
Hey, hey, hey.
[Matilda laughing]
[Vanja] We missed each other so much
that Josko decided to come visit me
in Orlando for 10 days.
This kitchen has never been this sexy.
He has been saying that he would love to move here.
That's why what happened next could not have been more shocking.
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah speaking]
But Veah made me to feel that way
that she is worth it more than anything in this world.
Even though she doesn't wanna convert right now,
I'm hoping one day she will understand
what I'm compromising.
But you need to promise me one thing.
It's a huge thing I'm doing.
If you are with me,
How could I forget about you?
Are you sure?
I mean, it's been a year, and we didn't even meet and I never forgot about you.
Why would I forget about you now after we've met, you know?
That's true.
You know...
And how do we do that?
-Close my eyes? -Yeah.
-Not like that. -[Veah laughing]
I'm not gonna look.
-You're not looking, okay? -I'm not looking.
Babe, what are you doing?
You can open your eyes.
No...
Before you say anything, you must note my sacrifice.
You have to be with me forever, no matter whenever is that.
Think about it before you say anything.
-Think about it-- -I thought about it, and yes.
Are you sure? Because it's gonna be forever.
Babe, yes! Put the ring on my finger.
-Are you serious? -Yes!
Is that the right hand?
I said yes.
That's so cute.
[Sunny] I love you.
[Veah] I love you too. That's adorable.
Sunny honey put a ring on my finger
and he put it on the wrong hand.
I never proposed before, so I don't have much idea.
[Veah] It's okay. It was just so cute.
I was super nervous, I was thinking,
"Maybe if she say no."
But she didn't. Now I'm so happy.
Like, we're gonna be together forever.
Now we can plan our future of you coming to America.
You promised me. You say you're gonna be stay with me forever.
Don't change your mind.
I won't do that anymore. Now you are officially--
Now you can't.
[Sunny] No, you're my fiancee now.
Thank you.
After all the ups and downs that me and Sunny have had in our relationship,
I definitely wasn't expecting a proposal.
This is like everything I've dreamt of,
but there's a lot that just concerns me, especially with his family.
Yeah, but you know I choose you because I need you.
And that's why I fight for you to the whole world, you know?
I know I'm important in your life, I do.
So let's just make each other happy
because the love is important here right now.
-I love you. -I love you too.
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah speaking]
Come.
Oh, no, I'm not--
I'm not really sure about this bikini.
But pink is my favorite.
I am packing to go for a little beach day with my cousin, Sanela.
I've been home from Croatia for about two months now.
And it was so hard to leave Josko behind.
When I came back to Orlando,
we got into this cute little habit
of talking a couple of times a day,
which was really nice.
But after a few weeks, we missed each other so much
that Josko decided to book a ticket
to come visit me in Orlando for ten days.
I was so ecstatic and happy when I finally saw him.
His kisses are so delicious.
And it was just magic.
And I had this amazing itinerary planned for us.
-What do you think? -It's perfect.
I really wanted to make sure that he sees
as much of Orlando and Florida as possible
because he has been saying
that he would love to move here with his son.
And I really want to make sure
that he knows what he's getting himself into.
[Vanja chuckles]
It was very easy to visualize us
living together as a couple.
Someone's cooking lunch for me.
This kitchen has never been this sexy.
He actually made my house feel more like a home.
We started planning about what would happen
once the kid comes here as well.
Where would the crib be?
You know, how would we reorganize the house?
And this made me so excited
because this is becoming a reality
of what the future looks like for us.
All right.
Time to rock and roll.
I was so comfortable with him.
Felt like we have the trust built.
You know, the commitment and everything.
And, um, it's no secret that I haven't been intimate with somebody for six years.
But Josko broke the streak.
[Vanja chuckles]
[Vanja] Thank you very much.
You know, I feel like that stuff becomes so much more magical
when you actually have this close bond with a person and it has meaning.
So there were absolute fireworks.
There were multiple times, okay?
There's the airport where not that long ago Josko and I said goodbye.
I told him I was going to keep him hostage.
I was just gonna handcuff him someplace in my house and not let him leave.
That was my plan.
But then I don't look good in orange or stripes,
so I decided against that plan.
So I, unfortunately, had to let him go.
And, um, when that last day came,
I feel like we were both just so somber
because, you know, we, we just spent this magical time together.
And now, you know, it's going to be a long time
before we get to see each other again.
And, uh, it was really sad.
[Vanja speaking Croatian]
[Josko sniffles]
[speaking Croatian]
[Vanja chuckles softly]
[Vanja in English] It was so great.
And I thought we were going to start planning our next steps.
That's why what happened next
could not have been more shocking.
[line ringing]
[Sanela on phone] Hey, Vanja.
[Vanja] Hey. Where are you?
[Sanela] I'm under the green and white umbrella.
There's about 300 of them.
I don't see you.
[Sanela] All right. Um, nearby the lifeguard.
Hold on. I'm gonna come out and wave to you.
[Vanja] Okay.
I'm sorry.
I texted Faith to see if I could talk to her one last time.
I mean, we've been through so much the last few weeks,
we've built a real relationship.
It's hard to think there's no hope for us.
[Faith speaking]
[Loren] It's my last few hours in the Philippines.
My flight leaves soon.
And all I can do is think about
what happened last night.
I don't think I've done a single thing
to make Faith believe that I'm a dangerous person.
But now, it just seems like she hates me.
Do you know where the Bay Area Suites Hotel is in Malate?
-Yes. -Okay.
Can we stop there?
This morning, I texted Faith to see if I could talk to her one last time
and apologize for what I did.
But I haven't got a response yet.
I guess I'm just gonna sit outside her hotel, hope I get a text back.
And if not, I'll just have to go without saying goodbye.
If Faith will talk to me,
I don't know what I would say.
I mean, we've been through so much the last few weeks, right?
We've built a real relationship,
even if there was constant ups and downs.
But there's still something there.
Just maybe last night was weird, you know.
Maybe it just-- It wasn't right.
It's hard to think there's no hope for us.
[cell phone chimes]
[Loren] Yeah, she said she'll be down.
I'm leaving.
Yeah.
I'm sorry.
What do you feel sorry about?
[Loren] I'm sorry for getting gonorrhea.
I'm sorry that I denied someone
and it looked like I was flirting.
And I'm sorry that the night at the hotel wasn't what you wanted.
[Faith speaking]
Ever since Loren came to the Philippines, lots of things happening.
The cheating, the lying, the betrayal.
And now, he made me feel unsafe.
I finally realized that this is not the relationship that I really want.
I deserve love from a man who will treat me right.
Give me 100%, the care, trust,
and that's not Loren.
[Loren] I just hope you're happy one day.
With somebody. Of course, not me.
-[Loren] I know. Me, too. -Yeah.
I guess I just don't want you to think of me
as a bad person before I leave.
[Loren] Yeah.
Yeah.
So, I have to go to the airport.
[Faith speaking]
Thank you for having me.
Yeah.
[Loren] I'm sorry.
For everything.
-Okay. -Okay.
Take care. And--
You, too.
-Bye-bye. -Bye bye.
[speaking Filipino]
[sobbing]
♪♪ I got what I want ♪
♪♪ So much different Than I need ♪
♪♪ Alone on the floor So numb ♪
♪♪ I've forgotten How to bleed ♪
Okay.
Manila Airport.
♪♪ Careful what you wish for ♪
It's heartbreaking.
The life that I sought out
for me and Faith in the Philippines is gone.
And I mean, I put everything into it, right?
This was it.
And...
I'm literally back to doing nothing.
You know, this is--
Nothing to go back to.
Ultimately, I would have been okay
with leaving my dream of the Philippines behind.
As long as I'm with Faith,
I think I could be happy anywhere.
But now, I don't even have that.
I would have done anything for Faith.
I feel like every single day I tried to make that clear.
But I don't know.
If she doesn't want it, she doesn't want it.
♪♪ I got what I want ♪
♪♪ You got what you need ♪
♪♪ I'm all I've got ♪
♪♪ And you don't Have to deal with me ♪
[Loren] Have a good day, sir.
But I think I really want Faith to know that...
I was the bad guy.
I was the one who messed up.
♪♪ Be careful What you wish for ♪
[Loren] I hope so.
But I'm gonna be stuck in the US.
Why am I going to reach out to her?
I can't get back there. There's no hope.
And no matter what happens, I just want her to be happy.
[exhales deeply]
[Sunny speaking]
I think we should tell your dad.
Are you serious?
[Veah speaking]
I know my dad is not going to accept anything.
He's going to get crazy and mad.
This could even ruin my relationship with my father.
[sighs]
Good morning, my wifey.
I'm gonna be your wifey.
So, how are you feeling?
Like I don't want to leave this place.
It's so beautiful and so peaceful.
[Sunny] Babe, this was an amazing trip.
And I love that we are here together.
No other people is bothering our relationship or anything.
-Me, too. -Just me and you.
-It's magical. -It is.
-And-- -And we're engaged.
Hip, hip.
Yesterday, it was the most amazing
happiness happened in my life.
Veah is wearing my ring.
And she's willing to say that she is my fiancee
and she's going to be my wife.
This makes me to feel amazing.
Like, I have a family. Like, I'm a family man now.
[Veah] We have to get out of here.
Okay, baby. Let's get ready.
I'm feeling sad that we need to leave this place
and we need to go back to Durban.
But Veah's flight is in two days' time,
so we have to face the real world.
-Bye, monkeys. -[monkeys chittering]
-Hello. -[driver] How are you?
-Hello. -Good.
It feels amazing to have Sunny as my fiance.
[Sunny] Thank you.
[Veah] To know he chose me,
even though I'm not converting,
and it's going to lead to a lot of obstacles for him,
it just shows me how much he really loves me.
It's a good feeling to have somebody there for you.
-[Sunny] We're leaving, baby. -[Veah] It's okay, though.
We have to go back to real life.
-[Sunny] That is reality. -This was a nice little getaway.
-I got a ring out of it. -That's true, but we have something, you know.
We haven't told anybody about this.
But we're engaged right now.
[Sunny speaking]
Because the last time, things didn't go well with my dad.
Sunny likes them.
I don't think so.
[Veah] Mm-mm.
[Veah speaking]
Can you get seated up, please?
[Sunny speaking]
[Veah] Do you plan on being honest and open
with your family about our engagement?
[Sunny] Me and you, we should keep it secret for now
because I know they're going to be angry and hurt about you not converting.
Oh, my God.
I don't like keeping secret from my dad, but I know my father.
He's going to need the time to accept Veah as a daughter-in-law.
I think we should tell your dad.
[exhales deeply]
Just be patient. Not now. I can't tell that--
Are we gonna tell him before I leave?
-I mean, it will make more sense-- -[Sunny] Tomorrow?
Are you serious?
Okay, well, listen, it would make more sense
because If we hide it for a long period of time from your dad,
he's going to be more upset, I feel like.
I understand that Sunny is in a tough position.
But I didn't have the support of my family growing up,
and I want things to be different in my future with Sunny.
So I'm really hoping to get on Sunny's dad's good side
before I go back to America.
[sighs]
[Sunny speaking]
And if my dad say from now,
"Don't talk to me." Like--
It's, like, same, like, disowning me.
Like, kind of, stuff like that.
[Veah] I'm sorry. I don't want to make drama.
I just want you to set your ground and--
I know for Veah, it's a really important conversation
that she wanted to share with my dad.
But she don't know my dad at all.
And I know my dad is not going to accept anything.
He's going to get crazy and mad.
This could even ruin my relationship with my father.
But other side of it, Veah is my fiancee,
Veah is my woman now,
so I have to stand by her also.
I just hope my father will understand
how much love we have for each other.
Okay. I'm gonna be here.
I told you I would be here, and I'm gonna be here.
[Magda] After I had sex yesterday with you,
you told me the [bleep] today.
Today!
I wonder why he hide this.
I don't know if he have some feelings to her,
or maybe she have some feelings.
How you can even think I will be friends with her?
-[Joe] I get it. No, I understand. -No, you don't get it.
I told you, do one more thing again
and we will be done.
I didn't mean to, like, hide it from you.
-Like, I didn't want-- -Yeah, but you did.
You hide and you lie again.
I'm sorry.
Like, I didn't mean to, like, hurt you by doing it or hide anything.
It's not enough to say sorry.
Because now I feel like you hide something more right now.
I already been through this before.
The last boyfriend, he lived in Germany.
And then when I moved there, everything was changed.
Like...
Why when you called me with her on video...
Yeah, I didn't really think it through.
I was just, like, hoping that you guys would be friends.
I care about both of you.
Yeah. You care about her. Not about me.
-This is the problem. -No. I care about both of you.
-I reckon-- -This is the problem. No, you don't care.
I'm in [bleep] Poland for you.
-I do care about you. -No.
-I do. -Yeah? Show me.
What-- What do you mean?
You have to choose, me or her.
Oh, God.
There's no world where you would like...
No.
-...consider being friends with her? -No.
Even you can't be friends with her.
You can't even speak to her.
Because you lied to me.
I'm not friends with my exes.
I'm not friends with people I [bleep] before.
Okay.
But it's not--
This was, like, a long time ago,
and we've been friends for, like, 15 years.
It's not, like, something that keeps happening.
I don't care how long ago.
I don't care about that. You lied to me again.
I don't trust you.
and go to USA for a person like you.
I'm done with this conversation.
I don't want to speak.
And I won't come back to home. Sorry.
That's enough for me.
All right.
I don't care if he had some past with Jill,
they didn't work out.
I get it.
It's not the point.
He lied to me.
He hide again.
That's why I'm pissed off.
After I opened to you and had sex yesterday with you,
you told me the [bleep] today.
Today!
-I know. It was a horrible time. -Yeah, yeah.
Horrible time.
I don't want to change his life, his friend.
But that's made me wonder why he hide this.
I don't know if he have some feelings to her,
or maybe she have some feeling.
But I sacrificed everything.
I quit my job.
I opened to move to America for him
to have a family, be married.
And I don't think he's committed the same way like me.
So I can't imagine to be with him right now.
You know how I feel right now?
Like a piece of [bleep].
I'm sorry. I didn't mean it.
-Like I said, I-- -Yeah.
The same [bleep], like, from the beginning with the first situation.
"I didn't mean to hurt you.
I didn't want to hurt you."
[Joe] I shouldn't have hid it from you.
I shouldn't have waited.
But it's not in any way sexual.
Like, just [bleep] a really close friend that--
I thought maybe if you guys could get to know each other, then it wouldn't be as bad.
-And-- -Maybe she would've told you.
-I don't know. -Oh, yeah.
How you can even think I will be friends with her?
-I get it. No, I understand. -No, you don't get it.
I will [bleep] take her eyes and your too,
and [bleep] eat them.
[sighs]
[Magda] I'm done.
I'm definitely regretting not telling Magda the truth about Jill sooner.
I'm sorry.
I try my best from the beginning with all of it,
but I have enough.
[Joe] I was really hoping at this point
she knows how committed I am.
And I was hoping that she wouldn't react, like, so angry about it.
I feel horrible.
And I wish I had just told her from the beginning.
I didn't think it would be this bad.
[Joe speaking]
[woman] Next time on Before the 90 Days...
Well, in Alabama, they can fire you for no reason at all.
[Matilda] It really worries me
because Niles lied to me a few times before.
Oh, my God. Where do we start?
We were planning our future together.
He had to go back home.
And then all of a sudden, I get a text message,
he said, "I don't think I can be with you."
[Joe] Good morning, sunshine.
I really don't even know
where this relationship stands.
I just hope, like, she gives me one more chance.
I'm very sorry for hiding the Jill thing.
I really don't want to lose you, Magda.
[Magda speaking]
[speaking Bengali]
-[in English] Hi. -[Veah] Hi.
[Sunny's father speaking]
[Veah] So he has to choose between me or you?
Yes, of course.
[Tigerlily] He's given power of attorney to his brother.
But I don't want the brother having access to my assets.
Adnan has been making decisions
that put me in financial danger.
And it's scary.