There's a memory every person finds hard to forget.
That memory is known as loss.
Have you ever experienced loss?
My family and I have endured several losses.
My father passed away when I was a kid.
My sister, Rani, took on his role.
I've loosened it. Please iron it and deliver it right away.
Okay, Mom.
Besides helping out Mom with work,
she also married young to support all of us.
She was like our hero.
However…
Eventually, she also left us…
…along with her two unborn babies.
YASIN AND TAHLIL IN MEMORY OF THE LATE RANI YULIANTI
BASED ON THE BEST-SELLING NOVEL BY ABAY ADHITYA
I was furious. It felt like fate was messing with me.
To the new students just arriving, please line up.
Those who are already lined up, be mindful of your appearance.
I know that you don't want to go to that school
because your sister used to go there, right?
Still, this school is the best in town.
I wish for you to be
God's strong athlete.
Make sure your uniform and tie are neat and tidy.
Come on, new students, line up for the ceremony.
- Please trim your hair tomorrow. - Yes, sir.
Then one day, fate led me here,
to this girl,
to the three seconds when our eyes met.
And that was the beginning of our story.
CLASS X.1
Athar. Over here.
Sit next to me.
Peace and God's blessings upon you.
And upon you peace and God's blessings.
Good morning, students.
Morning, ma'am.
Time for roll call.
First, Ahmad Hidayatullahrahmat.
Here.
What should I call you? Ahmad, Hidayat, or Rahmat?
- It's Mamat, ma'am. - Oh.
Sure, that works, Mamat.
Mamat is here. I'm ready to serve and dedicate myself.
Great. You should all follow Mamat's enthusiasm.
- Thank you, ma'am. - Right.
Next, Arifah Putri.
Here.
Aurora Cinta Purnama.
Here.
Next, Bintang Atharisena Firdaus.
Bintang Atharisena Firdaus.
Psst, Athar.
- It's you. - Bintang!
Here.
- You're Bintang? - Yes.
Daydreaming this early?
I haven't had breakfast yet.
Me neither.
Next, Bunga.
Here, ma'am.
This life is in line with God's will.
When there's an action, there's a reaction.
But no matter what I did,
she never reacted.
If 3 squared equals 9,
it means that the logarithm is 3 log 9 equals 2.
Understand?
Yes, ma'am.
Athar.
- Did you get that? - Sure did.
So come forward.
Come on.
Go forward.
- Come forward. - Right.
Take off your hat.
Why haven't you cut your hair?
The banyan tree was cut down, so the barber left.
He was scared.
Fine. Write it down.
Done.
Oh my goodness.
Why did you write the question again?
You told me to write it down.
Mashaallah, Athar.
Can anyone solve this question?
Mamat, can you?
Uh, Ara can do it.
Ara. Help me out.
Ara. Come forward.
Ridiculous.
Ara, solve it.
Oh…
Ma'am.
There you go.
Well done.
Looks like you complete Athar.
Nice one.
All right. Go back to your seats.
Yes, ma'am.
- Excuse me. - Excuse me.
Interclass band festival?
Shall we?
- Heck yeah! - Let's do it!
♪ At first sight ♪
♪ When we first met ♪
♪ It felt as if ♪
♪ It was a fleeting dream ♪
♪ I could not believe it ♪
♪ Something so unexpected ♪
♪ A girl as lovely as her ♪
♪ Came over to me ♪
♪ Oh, because of her ♪
♪ I almost lost myself ♪
♪ At first sight ♪
- ♪ When we first met ♪ - ♪ When we first met ♪
♪ Thanks to her beauty ♪
♪ And her gentle heart ♪
♪ She gave me the courage ♪
♪ To take on the world ♪
Let's just go to the cafeteria.
♪ At first sight ♪
♪ When we first met ♪
Athar!
INTERCLASS BAND FESTIVAL PUBLIC HIGH SCHOOL SUKARESMI 1
Allahu Akbar.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh.
You just got home?
Yeah.
Have you eaten?
Not yet.
Go take a shower and then have dinner.
I set aside some gourami for you.
Okay.
You're free to join a band
or come home late,
but all I ask from you
is that you don't neglect your studies
or forget to pray.
That's all.
So I can have a girlfriend?
Huh?
Is there someone who wants to date you?
Well, of course there is.
You're too young to be dating.
Sheesh.
But what if I actually fall in love with someone?
If so, ask God. Seek His guidance.
Okay.
Let me tell you how.
"Dear God,
if my feelings for her come from You,
please show me the right way
"to love her."
That's too serious.
Falling in love is a serious thing. Who said it was simple?
You're being so serious.
That's just how it is!
I don't get it.
It's not that you don't get it, you just refuse to understand.
- Well… - Go take a shower.
And pray.
Afwan, akhi, and ukhti.
Please put your shoes away.
Don't you feel for my dedication?
Sheesh. What a mess.
I've found a pair of black shoes
with white socks with the following characteristics:
They reek!
Come get them from the cleaning room.
Mamat! Hey, Mamat!
They're mine! Where are you taking them?
Here. I'll put them like this.
You're disturbing my sleep.
Your stinky feet are disturbing!
So what?
Go take a wudu.
What for? It's not even time for the Dhuhr prayer yet.
Are you kidding me?
Pray the Dhuha prayer then! If you're just going to nap, do it at Mr. Ncep's place!
Ara.
Did you finish the math assignment?
Not yet.
- You? - Me neither.
Okay, let's finish it together after this.
Whoosh.
- Hey. - Hey!
Your hand stinks!
Because of your feet.
What's your problem?
Stop staring at her, Athar.
I didn't mean to.
But why did you keep doing it?
You like Ara, don't you?
My goodness. Athar.
Ara is on another level.
There's no chance she'll fall for a messy sleepyhead like you.
Improve yourself first.
- Improve? - Exactly.
What do you mean, Mamat? Hey!
If I do that, will Ara like me?
Hey!
Good afternoon, everyone.
Afternoon, sir.
Where are Athar and Iyong?
There. You're done.
- What? - Easy.
I think he's cheating, guys.
What are you saying, bro?
You might be hiding the card under your armpit.
Check him!
- Let me see your pocket! - Let me see!
I seek forgiveness from God!
Athar! What are you guys doing?
You're playing dominoes?
Unbelievable!
You should be punished
so you don't set a bad example for the other students.
You too. Your hair is too long.
Sir. Not my hair. Sir!
You should've gotten it cut earlier!
Oh my God.
What's wrong with them?
They skipped class.
You will stay here until school's over. Don't go anywhere.
We're letting your parents know!
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Mom.
Forgive me, Mom.
Mom.
I'm sorry.
Maybe you're upset about your situation,
but please
don't disgrace your late father or your sister, Rani.
God is kind.
In fact, too kind.
We are the ones who are whiny,
ignorant,
forgetful,
and ungrateful.
Love is the most powerful force in the universe.
It's love that encourages me to change.
My love for my mom,
and for the girl who has changed
my mornings, sunsets, and nights.
I know your minds are all over the place,
but when it comes to shoes, keep it tidy.
Tidy up!
Please! Help me out a little!
Mamat!
What is it, Athar?
How do I… improve myself?
What's your reason for improving?
Ara?
Are you serious about her?
I am, Mamat.
- I won't make Ara my girlfriend. - What will she be then?
She will be my wife!
What?
My wife.
- Wife? - Yup.
Hey, guys!
This high schooler wants to get married!
Shut up!
- Are you serious? - I am.
Then you'll have to change.
Hijrah.
- Hijrah? - Yes.
Where?
Gosh.
Come on. You're my friend, aren't you?
Help me out. I know nothing about this.
- You want to learn from me? - Yeah.
- Me, Mamat? - Yes.
You've found the right teacher.
I know a bit about life philosophy.
I call it the art of self-improvement.
What is that?
Listen, young man.
First.
Do your homework. Don't just stare at it.
Can anyone solve this question?
Second. Be an active student in class.
Don't sleep all the time.
- So, no one. - Me, ma'am!
Go ahead, Athar.
DETERMINE THE VALUE OF X FROM THIS EQUATION
Well done.
Third.
Clean up your hair.
What hairstyle do you want?
I want to look handsome.
I can't do the impossible, you know.
Good looks are from God, not a barber.
NO MATTER HOW ROUGH, KEEP CALM AND PRAY BEFORE GETTING A HAIRCUT
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Where have you been?
My hands smell like onions.
It's fine.
I got a haircut.
Mashaallah, son.
What?
You look so handsome, just like your father.
You made Mom cry again.
I'm not.
It's because I'm chopping onions.
Let me help you, Mom.
- No need. - Let me, Mom.
Ara.
Are you spacing out?
I seek forgiveness from God.
I'm okay.
It's Dhuhr time.
Mashaallah, Athar.
Let's go pray.
Praying?
Good on you for improving yourself.
Fourth.
Join the Rohis Club.
A band member joining the Islamic youth club?
You're making changes for yourself, not for others.
Don't you want to be Ara's husband?
I do.
Indeed, what God wills for a believer
is always in their best interest.
Keep your spirits up when seeking God's blessings.
- Gosh. - Mom.
How was it?
You ranked first.
Thank God.
I told you, I knew you could do it.
See?
Hey.
Peace be upon you, Ara.
And upon you peace.
I know I was chosen as a candidate for club leader,
but I feel like I'm unqualified.
All is set by God's will.
Your nomination for this leadership position
could be a reflection of your serious commitment to self-improvement.
Let me offer you a piece of advice.
Whatever your role or job may be,
perform it with sincerity.
Do it to seek God's love,
not for earthly rewards.
Yes, sir. Thank you.
You're welcome, Athar.
Let's give a warm welcome to our new Rohis leader,
Bintang Atharisena Firdaus.
You've improved beyond my expectations.
Go on.
- Congratulations. - Thank you.
Peace be upon you, everyone.
And upon you peace.
Our programs will be about returning to God's place.
I encourage each of you to strive for self-improvement
with the programs we will launch together, God willing.
- Looks good. - Ramadan study.
- Nice. - Mashaallah.
Peace be upon you.
- And upon you peace. - And upon you peace.
Athar.
Here's the sponsorship letter you requested yesterday.
I printed it for you to sign.
Right. Thanks, Ara.
You're welcome.
Let me see.
I'm sure we'll get a sponsor.
For sure.
Athar.
You've changed a lot,
and I'm happy to see it.
Thanks, Ara.
Whew, nice.
I didn't see anything.
- But you heard it. - A little bit.
What's up with you? You've been so quiet.
Is something bothering you?
No.
I'm okay.
It's okay if you don't want to talk about it.
I won't insist.
But if I tell you,
promise you won't be mad?
I won't if you didn't do anything wrong.
- What is it? - Don't laugh either.
See? You're already laughing at me.
Okay.
What's the matter?
- Mom. - Mm?
Was your love for Dad…
True love?
Do you remember when I was devastated
after your dad and your sister passed away?
Yeah.
My love for them was so strong
that I forgot…
That they belonged to God.
I cried so much
that I neglected you and your little sister.
Then it got me thinking
that if I was angry with God,
maybe it wasn't true love.
Maybe I was being selfish.
And if…
Our love for something is sincere and for God,
our hearts will be at peace.
I hope you find true love that God favors
and realize it
through marriage.
In the name of God. Please, ITB.
SNBP SELECTION RESULTS
How is it?
YOU FAILED TO PASS
Is the result out yet?
Did you pass?
Athar. Did you?
I didn't.
Huh?
It's okay. Don't be sad.
It's okay, Athar.
It's still in Bandung. It's close to ITB.
- Smile, handsome. - Hey, Ara.
Hi.
Arifah Putri.
Excuse me for a bit.
Ara. Did you pass?
I'm not applying to a public university.
Where are you going to college?
My dad wants me to attend Muhammadiyah University in Jakarta.
- How about you? - Are you asking me?
- I'm… - Ahmad Hidayatullah.
I'm…
- It's my turn. - Okay, go.
Excuse me, Ara, Athar.
I'm going to Bandung, God willing.
Oh.
My mom suggested a business school there.
Hopefully, I can still continue my hobbies as a musician and a writer.
You're impressive.
I don't know what to do next.
But I'm still upset about not getting into ITB.
Don't be like that.
What we want isn't necessarily what we need.
Let's have faith in God.
No matter which university we attend,
we can still pursue our dreams.
Thanks…
Aurora.
You've never called me Aurora before.
It's a beautiful name.
Move.
You shouldn't be alone with a girl.
When two people are alone together, the third one is…
Mamat.
When is the proposal happening?
I got a batik but haven't used it.
I'm ready to be a wedding witness.
Bintang Atharisena Firdaus.
Coming.
Come with me.
I'm done with mine.
You said we shouldn't be alone with a girl.
But Ara…
She'll be fine.
You're jealous? You're not even her husband yet.
- Just come. - What if they give me two diplomas?
That's fine. Come on.
You know, Athar.
You should confess instead of keeping it all inside.
What if she rejects me?
Oh, Athar.
Is your goal to confess your feelings or to impose them?
You just want to tell her how you feel, right?
It's not about her saying yes.
It's about your own peace of mind.
Sure, but what if I end up heartbroken?
My God.
Dhikr. Have some courage.
Ara!
Ara.
Can we talk?
About what?
It's… about you, Ara.
About my feelings towards you.
Do you remember
when we first met?
I'll never forget that moment.
When our eyes locked for three seconds.
And
after that, I've always hoped that you
would be my soulmate.
Athar.
Soulmates are God's secret.
I hope that whoever our match is,
they are in God's favor.
Let's just focus on our dreams.
Our college. Our future.
We have an obligation to serve our parents first.
If we are meant to be, the path will reveal itself.
How do you feel about me, Ara?
I'm not looking for just feelings.
Neither of us are ready.
We can work on it.
Athar.
We are not God,
who can manifest what He says.
Let's not wait for each other
or make commitments.
We just have to let go and trust in Allah.
Right.
I wish you good luck, Ara.
I hope God reunites us someday.
God willing.
See you.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
MAKE PEACE WITH YOUR HEART
GOD IS KIND. IN FACT, TOO KIND. WE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE WHINY.
"BE A STRONG ATHLETE FOR GOD"
Aurora Cinta Purnama.
Ahmad Hidayatullahrahmat.
Bintang Atharisena Firdaus.
Brother!
Next, let's welcome our school's beloved band, Edelweiss!
GRADUATION PUBLIC HIGH SCHOOL SUKARESMI 1
I can't believe it's been three years since my batch and I started school here.
I want to thank the teachers for their guidance
and patience with us these past three years,
and I also want to thank all my friends…
Athar!
Metal!
And I would like to thank someone
who has inspired me in many ways.
I wrote this song for her.
"Make Peace With Your Heart."
♪ The first time I met you ♪
♪ Though it was just for three seconds ♪
♪ It was the most precious moment Of my life ♪
♪ You made me know the light ♪
♪ I felt an unexpected shiver ♪
♪ And I believe you are ♪
♪ My soulmate ♪
♪ We are still so young ♪
♪ But fate says we must part ♪
♪ Letting go of it all ♪
♪ God, please watch over her For me forever ♪
♪ Keep our hearts in Your will ♪
♪ I hope to be reunited ♪
Looks like you complete Athar.
♪ Even if our story may end ♪
♪ Make peace with our hearts ♪
♪ In the heavenly realm We were once one ♪
♪ Hoping to unite once again ♪
♪ God, please watch over her For me forever ♪
♪ Keep our hearts in Your will ♪
♪ I hope to be reunited… ♪
- Sir. Not my hair. Sir! - You should've gotten it cut earlier!
♪ Even if our story may end ♪
Mamat.
Yes?
Give this to Athar.
Thanks, Ara.
♪ Keep our hearts in Your will ♪
♪ I hope to be reunited ♪
♪ Even if our story may end ♪
♪ Make peace with our hearts ♪
I love you, Athar! Edelweiss!
Give them a round of applause, guys!
That was the last time I saw Ara.
We parted ways without exchanging any promises.
Still, I had hope
that we would be reunited someday.
Are you sure?
- Cianjur-Bandung. - Really?
I hope so.
Sorry, Athar.
No worries.
Also, Athar.
This is my best friend's address in Bandung.
His name is Zein.
You can contact him once you reach Bandung.
And please send my regards to him.
- Thanks, Mamat. - You're welcome.
- Take care. - Good luck.
- You too. - Amen.
- Metal! - Cut it out!
- My goodness. - Just kidding.
Mom.
Athar.
I'm not asking for another person to watch over you.
I asked God to watch over you.
God's love is greater than anything.
Even greater than my love for you.
Always remember to pray.
Yes, Mom.
Be God's strong athlete.
Mom.
- I hope everything goes well. - Amen, Mom.
- Wish me luck. - God willing.
God willing.
Tiara.
Take care of Mom.
After you graduate, come join me in Bandung.
I'll pay for your college.
Good girl.
Mom.
I love Ara and I will miss her.
But now, I've come to accept our goodbye.
Trusting that if it's meant to be,
we'll find each other again.
Where are you heading to?
Bandung, sir.
Really? For work or college?
College and work.
- Working on the side? - Yes.
That's amazing.
It's rare for young people today to work while studying.
Since I didn't make it into a public college
and didn't receive a scholarship,
so I must work while I study.
I see.
You can easily make extra money in Bandung.
You can do arts, music, and much more.
What's your name?
Athar.
I'm Farhan.
Mr. Farhan.
If you ever have some free time, come visit my shop.
I run a shop in ITC Kebon Kelapa.
Feel free to stop by.
God willing.
ROOMS AVAILABLE FOR RENT FOR MEN
Kang.
Just a pinch of sugar.
Peace be upon you. Excuse me.
Hello. Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Are you looking for someone?
Does someone named Zein live here?
Yes. Come in. I'll take you to him.
- Okay. - Allow me. Come inside.
Okay.
This is Zein's room,
but he's in my room right now.
- Mm-hmm. - Come.
Kang.
Someone's looking for you.
What?
And upon you peace.
- Athar? Mamat's friend? - Yeah.
Mashaallah. Welcome.
Let me introduce you. He's Eko.
I'm Eko. But call me Steve Jobs.
You can call me Mr. Jobs.
Okay, Mr. Jobs.
What was your name again?
Avatar?
It's Athar.
- Athar. - Yes.
I'm a big fan of Steve Jobs.
He's got many inspirational quotes,
but this one stands out to me.
It says, "stay hungry, stay foolish."
It means we should stay motivated for both work and learning.
- Yes. - Right?
Zein is selling merchandise.
He's working on his thesis and doing business on the side.
Mashaallah.
- I'll be taking this. - Okay.
Anyway, my room is over there.
I met Mamat at a boarding school in Garut.
I was already doing community service when Mamat was just a new student.
I need to tell you something, Zein.
I'm afraid I won't be able to pay any rent for the first couple of months.
My money's going toward food and my tuition.
Don't worry.
You can help me and Mr. Jobs with sales.
Are you sure?
- Yeah. - Oh my God.
Thank you! Sorry for the trouble.
Not at all. Times like this
make me recall what Mamat said.
Mawaddatush shodieqi tadzharu waktadh dhieq.
Which means?
"A friend's loyalty
shows itself during times of crisis."
Since Mamat helped me before…
Now it's my turn to help Mamat's friend.
Thank you.
Being away from home requires us to struggle.
When I first started college,
my parents struggled with money,
so I had to support myself
by tutoring and selling materials for religious classes.
But relax, you're not alone.
We're not born rich.
Whenever I feel down, I like to watch house geckos.
How can they eat mosquitoes even though they can't fly?
With God's blessing,
He won't ignore His servant who prays and works hard.
Mister, come and take a look.
Welcome, Mister.
A must-buy if you love God!
- It comes in several colors! - High-quality shirt! Try it on!
It's affordable! A must-buy if you love God.
Guys.
It looks like the hijab is more in demand.
A blessing is something that's set, and God oversees it.
Don't worry about me, Mom. I will be fine over here.
For my daily needs, I want to try
selling merchandise.
As for tuition,
if I have a great GPA,
I can apply for a scholarship.
Wish me luck.
Excuse me. Is this seat free?
Yeah.
Sorry.
It's fine.
I've been wanting to read that book for a while.
This book would be great for you.
They say that visualizing and creating a clear plan
can help in achieving your dreams.
Here. You can borrow it.
For real?
Thanks.
"You are the designer of your destiny."
"The pen is in your hand."
"Feel good now. That's the only thing you have to do."
Okay.
In the name of God.
Allahumma yassir wala tu'assir.
God, make it easy for me. Don't make it difficult.
LIFE ROAD MAP
Tari.
That book you lent me has been a great help.
Writing my dreams down makes them more clear.
It also motivates me to pursue them.
Thanks.
"Singlelillah"?
Ah…
That's
a term I made up myself.
It means, like, we're single by choice, while still having a clear goal.
A clear goal?
And what do you mean by that?
It means we have a road map of life.
Ambitions.
GRADUATE, JUNE 2019
And also love.
GET MARRIED, JULY 2019
I plan to get married in three years, God willing.
So, from now on, I must prepare everything and improve myself.
Have you found someone yet?
God willing.
Mister! Miss! We have a new design. Singlelillah.
"Single by God's will." Please, have a look.
Consider today National Sympathy Day.
I can't sell it at that price.
We have a new color.
Avatar! Police!
Police!
Hey, wait!
Get out of here!
- Don't run away! - Let's go!
Hey!
Stop!
Stop running!
Hey! Come back!
Stop running!
Hey!
- Stop right there! - Stop running!
Hey, stop!
Stop!
- Sorry! Move out of the way! - Gosh! What the…?!
Mr. Farhan, please help me! They're chasing me!
- Where did he go? - What's going on?
Did you see a guy running?
- You mean the twink? He ran over there. - Come on!
Not there, that way!
You're safe now.
Gosh, mister.
What happened?
Thank you. I would have been caught without you.
I was selling merchandise, and they started chasing me.
That's just business. There are ups and downs.
Otherwise, you wouldn't know where my shop is.
Sorry I haven't been able to visit. I've been busy with college.
I hope this serves as a sign.
Of what?
That you should come over.
- To your place? - Yes.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
- Athar? - Yes.
Come in. My dad is waiting.
Okay.
Mashaallah.
Let's go inside, Kang.
Please.
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Mr. Farhan, I brought Zein along
since he's not only my friend but also my mentor in business.
Is that so?
Where are you studying? Have you graduated?
This is my last semester, God willing.
I major in Arabic literature at UPI.
Just like Salsa.
She's in her last semester as well.
What literature was it?
English literature, Dad.
Yeah, that. English literature.
Listen Athar, Zein.
Since I had a heart attack,
I've been less involved with Salsabila Fashion.
Would you and Zein be interested in helping us with the business?
Yes, we're interested.
- Really? - God willing, yes.
Hopefully, with you and Zein,
Salsabila Fashion will continue to thrive.
- Amen. - Amen.
We'll share the profits.
Don't worry about that.
May God bless our good intentions.
Amen.
We should start by reciting bismillah.
In the name of God.
Oops. Sorry.
Go for it, please.
Okay.
How are the online orders looking?
Thank God, they've doubled as compared with the previous month.
Doubled? Mashaallah.
- Where is this going? - Jakarta.
Okay, Jakarta. Take care.
- What's inside this? - Plain fabric.
Keep the plain fabric in the warehouse. Don't mix it with the patterned fabric.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Congrats. New room for you.
Thank you.
LIFE ROAD MAP
GET MARRIED, JULY 2019
Athar.
Tari.
Are you busy this afternoon?
Can you come with me?
This is my favorite place.
Looking at books
makes life feel more colorful.
They have amazing books here.
I'd love to have a community-based library like this one.
Maybe not as big as this one,
but having a spot for young people to hang out and gather.
Do you remember
our conversation from two years ago?
About you wanting to marry young.
That's happening in a year, right?
Right.
There's something I want to tell you.
Please read it.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
UNDER THE GUIDANCE OF LOVE
Peace be upon you, Athar.
I don't know if you've met your soulmate yet.
Would it be possible for me to ask you to do ta'aruf with me?
If you're up for it,
we'll have a mediator for the ta'aruf process.
Just yesterday…
Someone asked me to do ta'aruf.
Mashaallah.
Who was it? What will you say?
I'm not sure.
My marriage goal is approaching,
but I still have someone in my heart that I want to find
and fight for at the right time.
Is it wrong to refuse a ta'aruf offer?
Refusing is not wrong.
But don't rush into making a decision.
There's no harm in giving it a try.
Maybe your feelings and heart can change.
Or, it might be best
to ask someone more wise.
A study session about ta'aruf is coming up soon.
You should go.
Hopefully, you'll get some answers from it.
Okay.
If a person falls in love,
but it distracts them from their prayers and work,
it may not actually be love.
It might be lust.
Mashaallah. Thank you, Ustad. Very insightful.
We will start the Q&A session now.
Please raise your hand if you have a question.
There are quite a few, but let's begin with the ladies.
Please, the lady in the pink hijab.
Peace be upon you and God's mercy and blessings.
And upon you peace, and God's mercy and blessings.
Hello.
My name is Aurora.
I have a question, Ustad.
If my father has arranged a match…
Ara?
…with a supposedly good man,
but I feel hesitant inside,
what should I do, Ustad?
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Ara!
Mashaallah. Wonderful question.
The first thing to do is istikhara.
We must seek guidance from God
to help us find the best person for our lives.
May God provide
the best partner for love in our life.
Ameen ya rabbul alameen.
DIVE INTO THE CONCEPT OF LOVE AND TA'ARUF
Peace be upon you. Ara?
And upon you peace. What's wrong?
Sorry, wrong person.
Ara.
Ara! Ara!
Ara!
Oh my God.
Thank you, Tari.
You're the first girl to offer me ta'aruf.
You're amazing
for not waiting on others to decide your life's path.
In the end, I decided to attend a lecture
about understanding love and ta'aruf.
There, I saw… someone.
She is someone who still means a lot to me.
I'm sorry, Tari.
I don't mean to hurt you…
But it's what my heart's decided.
I must find her.
What makes you certain…
That she is your soulmate?
I'm trying to find the answer to that as well.
That's why I must meet her.
Okay.
That's fine.
Tari.
If the person you wish for doesn't fight for you…
Someone who yearns for you will.
I wish for you to find a partner like that.
You too.
I'm going home.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Keep the change, sir.
Brother? Mom!
Brother's home!
Athar! You're back home?
Yes, Mom. Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Is that a new motorcycle?
You borrowed it?
- It's mine, Mom. - What?
Thanks to God, and thanks to your prayers.
- Really? - Yeah.
You bought it?
Yes.
Mashaallah.
It looks great.
- It's the newest model. - Really?
Yeah, look. New helmet too.
Oh my God.
There. Every dish is your favorite.
What's this?
The result of my hard work in Bandung.
Please accept it.
I don't need it, dear.
I'll open it.
Yes.
Mashaallah.
Praise be to God.
It's not that I don't want to accept it…
…but you need it more than I do.
I send you only a little each month,
which may not be enough for you.
Mom. Please take it.
- Dear, no. - I wouldn't be here without your prayers.
My God.
That is my duty as a mother.
And this is my duty as a son.
Stay healthy, dear.
I will.
- Sit down. Come on, eat. - Okay.
- How about you, Mom? - Of course I'll eat too.
Assalamualaikum warahmatullah.
Praise be to God.
- Athar. - Hm?
Have you made any friends in Bandung?
Of course I have, Mom.
Zein and Jobs.
Not them.
A close friend.
Oh.
- There's something I want to ask. - What?
But don't laugh.
- Forget it. I'm going to eat. - No, wait!
- Athar! - I'm going to have dinner.
Come on.
What is it? What, what, what?
Remember the song I performed at the high school graduation?
Sure.
I wrote that song for someone.
And?
I've told her how I feel, but she hasn't given me an answer.
Oh.
Now that I feel more settled,
my goal for the next year is
to get married.
Mashaallah.
I want to ask for your permission.
For what?
Can I have your blessing to try and find that girl again?
You can.
- Really? - Yeah.
Are you serious?
I'm serious.
You are young,
and you are responsible
for every choice you make.
So, if you're ready,
say bismillah.
Thank God. I'm getting a license?
You already have one.
Not a driver's license, license to marry.
Oh.
Right.
- You'll allow me? - God willing.
Thank you, Mom.
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Excuse me. Is this Aurora's home?
Yes.
Thank God.
Who are you?
I'm Athar. I was her friend in high school.
Doesn't ring a bell.
She never told me about a friend named Athar.
Ara is not home.
You should go home.
Okay. I'll see you around.
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Huh?
Dear.
Yes?
You didn't invite him in?
- That's Ara's friend. - Who?
He used to be the Rohis Club leader
and his band performed at the graduation ceremony.
Rohis Club leader?
And a band member too?
Get that water gallon delivered fast!
My shop is a fast and trustworthy gas and gallon supplier!
Keep going! Don't slow down!
What are you doing with the empty drum? Where's the money?
Were you paid?
You're staying silent? Cat got your tongue? Hey!
Another debt? Oh my God! Dadang!
I'm going to get skinny from starvation everyone keeps not paying!
Gosh. What is wrong with people?
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
This must be the voice of someone looking to borrow money.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you…
Athar!
- Oh my God! It's Athar! - Hey, stop!
- Oh my God. - My buddy!
You're looking good. Metal!
- I don't do that anymore. - You don't?
How are you?
- I'm good. You? - I'm great.
How's life, Athar?
I must find Ara in Jakarta.
Gosh.
Still hung up on Ara?
Can you help me find her phone number?
You used to be close to her friends.
Wanna try contacting Pani?
Pani. Ara's best friend from the Rohis Club.
Yes, please.
Let's pray.
In the name of God.
Hello, Pani.
Sorry. It's Mamat.
Aurora Cinta Purnama, I've tried to let you go.
Yet, after all this time,
my heart still holds the same belief that you will be my soulmate.
- Excuse me. - Yes?
Is there a student here named Aurora Cinta Purnama?
What batch is she?
2016.
No.
- Okay, thank you. - You're welcome.
SCHOLARSHIP SERVICES
Mom!
Thank God you're finally home!
My beloved daughter.
I'll help you set the plates, Mom.
Okay.
Dear.
Yesterday, your friend who performed at the graduation came over.
Athar?
And?
Dad sent him home.
I'm sorry. If I see him again,
I'll ask for his phone number.
It's okay, Mom.
Maybe we're not meant to meet yet.
What about your dad's plan? How do you feel?
To be honest, I'm still hesitant, Mom.
But I have no choice, do I?
Listen.
Follow your heart.
Girls should also have courage.
If God wills it, Mom.
How's your thesis going?
Is it done?
Yes, Dad.
I hope to finish my thesis this semester, God willing.
Wish me luck, Mom, Dad.
Yes, of course. I hope everything goes well.
God willing.
Every parent wants the best for their children
and always prays for it.
We should also
inform Raka's parents
about the best date for the engagement of our two children.
Ara.
Hey.
Raka comes from a good family.
If God wills it,
a good family raises a good child.
Right?
Yes, Dad.
And to Him you will be returned.
Shadaqallahul adzim.
Here's some coffee after recitation.
Thank you.
Have courage.
Acceptance or rejection is a matter for later.
It's part of the proposal.
Take me and Ningsih as an example.
Huh?
You're married?
Praise be to God. Nope.
She rejected me.
That's why, to this day, I'm still single and tired.
But if God wills it,
you won't face the same fate as me.
Wish me luck.
God willing.
There you go!
So when's the proposal?
When you propose, I have to be there.
Why would you be there?
"Why"? So that if you get rejected,
you'll have a shoulder to cry on.
Mashaallah.
Your friend is nervous, you know.
Stop making fun of me.
Gosh.
Bismillah, she'll accept you.
Bismillah.
Amen!
Salsa.
Can we talk?
Sure, what's the matter?
Please don't…
Take what I'm about to say as me being insolent.
Because that's not my intention.
What I'm about to say
is a way of saying
that I think very highly of you.
I'm sorry?
I'm not sure
if you feel the same way I do,
but ever since we started working together,
I've felt a connection with you,
and your personality.
For example…
When we talk about work,
family, and hobbies,
I feel as though we're always on the same page.
And I hope
you feel the same way.
I also…
Have some water. Here.
Oh my God.
Drink this.
- In the name of God. - Slowly.
What is it you want to say that's making you so nervous?
In the name of God.
Salsa.
Would you accept it
if I proposed to you?
Praise be to God!
Astaghfirullahaladzim.
Oh my God!
AL-HIKMAH ORPHANAGE
This place provides a home for orphans.
I built it following the passing of Salsa's brother, Rendi.
I hope this good deed reaches the late Rendi in the afterlife.
I want to follow the Prophet, who was compassionate towards orphans.
Athar.
You remind me of Rendi.
Your appearance, your speech…
Thank you, Athar.
And Zein, too,
for helping us grow our business.
I should be thanking you.
I think of you as my own son.
I also think of you as my father.
I've been thinking lately.
There are three things I wish to ask of you.
What are they?
I'll do my best to make them happen, God willing.
First,
I'd like you to help out in this orphanage.
Second, I'd like you to take over Salsabila Fashion.
Think of it as doing my job, since I'm getting on in years.
I'm ready for it, God willing.
And thirdly…
I hope you're willing to marry Salsa.
Salsa doesn't have any siblings.
Her mother is gone too.
I have no idea where my siblings are.
As her father, I want nothing but a good man
who is perfect for Salsa.
Will you do it?
Maybe…
You need time to think it over?
Um…
Let me think about it, sir.
Right.
You're a good man.
Good for you, Zein.
So when are you going to talk to Mr. Farhan?
Peace be upon you.
- And upon you peace. - And upon you peace.
Come here.
What is it?
Have you heard?
What?
Salsa said yes to Zein's proposal.
Mashaallah.
Really?
Praise be to God.
Listen, Athar.
I plan to ask Mr. Farhan directly if I can marry Salsa.
But…
What if Mr. Farhan turns me down?
Why don't you tell him directly?
I wanted to do that.
But if Mr. Farhan doesn't respond positively,
I need to prepare myself.
Athar.
Can you do me a favor?
Please let Mr. Farhan know about this.
Sure. God willing.
But I need some time.
Okay. Thank you.
You're welcome.
Mamat. Please, I beg you.
This will be the last time! Please give me Ara's number.
Okay, Athar.
This dude, I swear.
HELLO, CAN I CALL YOU? IT'S ABOUT ATHAR.
Peace be upon you. Mamat.
And upon you peace. Athar!
Should we talk here or go somewhere else?
- Here's fine. - Okay.
So?
Yesterday, I managed to talk to Ara.
Thank God. And?
And I told her about how you've been searching for her.
But she just kept silent.
But, hey.
I also offered your phone number to her
so she could speak to you directly.
And?
She refused.
Okay. Thanks for helping me out, Mamat.
Sure, Athar.
I've asked her if she'd like you to come to Jakarta.
Unfortunately, she declined that too.
She doesn't want to meet you in Jakarta.
Because
she's coming to Bandung!
Ara is coming over to Bandung!
- For real, Mamat? - Yeah!
Ara!
Peace be upon you, Athar.
And upon you peace.
Hey!
Snap out of it! Greet her back!
And upon you peace, Ara.
Sorry.
Now go ahead and talk, you two.
Resolve whatever you need to.
I won't intrude.
Did you come looking for me at UMJ?
I study at Uhamka,
Muhammadiyah University of Prof. Dr. Hamka.
Oh, God.
Honestly, I didn't expect to see you again.
It feels like a dream.
Did you come to Bandung just to see me?
No.
I came here for my thesis research.
But I also wanted to see you.
So what do you want to tell me?
Do you remember what I told you in the past?
Which thing?
About soulmates.
Yes.
I'm not the same as I used to be.
I've dedicated myself to improving myself each day,
and God willing,
I'm ready for marriage.
But Ara, there's something that's stayed the same.
Something that can never change or disappear.
I still believe…
That you are my soulmate,
and I've always wished for you to be my wife one day.
Athar.
Remember when…
You performed at our high school graduation?
I wrote that song for you, Ara.
Thank you.
I never had the chance to tell you
that it was a great song.
But just so you know,
I was secretly crying at the time
because I thought we wouldn't meet again.
So…
Our feelings
and beliefs
align?
If God wills it,
I am ready for marriage.
And I want to give you an answer
about the feelings
I've been holding in my heart
and in my prayers.
If God wills it, I'm willing to be your wife.
Are you serious, Ara?
God willing.
Oh my God, thank you.
It's all thanks to your stinky shoes, Athar!
Don't cry, Mamat.
I'm ready to be a wedding witness.
Okay.
- Hurry up and get married. - I know.
My best friend.
What about your old dreams?
Thank God, I still have my old dreams.
I have more now.
Now I aspire to be a writer,
a songwriter,
a religious poet, and a business owner.
What about you? What's your dream?
My dream…
Is to be by your side until all your dreams come true.
I'm aware that the way God works is unpredictable.
Sometimes, He brings people together to separate them.
Other times, He separates them to reunite them.
But I truly don't understand
why Ara and I were brought together
only to be separated.
How long are you staying in Bandung?
Tomorrow, I think.
After that, I'm going back to Cianjur.
Right.
Athar.
Were we destined to be reunited, and then separated?
What do you mean?
In two days, someone is going to ask to marry me.
He is someone my dad chose.
But I want you to be the first in my life to meet my dad.
Would it be possible?
Ara.
My mom said
to not speak of fate
if we haven't finished praying and trying.
Okay?
God willing,
I will visit your place tomorrow.
God willing.
Then I'll see you then. My friend is waiting.
Okay. Oh, Ara.
I wrote this poem for you.
FOR AURORA
Please read it.
- Thank you. - You're welcome.
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Bismillah, Athar.
All my best prayers are going up for you.
Thanks.
Now I have two tasks.
The first is to propose to Ara,
and the second is to decline Mr. Farhan's request.
The second one seems more challenging.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Please have a seat.
- I'll get the drinks ready. - Yes, please.
Sorry to bother you this late.
What are you saying? You're never a bother.
So?
Do you have an answer?
Um…
Yes, sir.
Which is?
Before that, I'd like to thank you.
For your kindness to me.
Athar, please. Don't say that.
But I'm sorry, I must be honest with you.
I can't marry Salsa, sir.
I think of Salsa like my own older sister.
And…
I already have someone in mind
to be my future partner in life.
I won't insist.
I can only hope and pray
that whoever becomes your partner,
you both find happiness together.
Hey.
Athar., Mr. Farhan is in the ER.
To God we belong and to Him we return.
Thank you.
Salsa. How's your dad?
It's another heart attack.
They're taking Dad to the ICCU.
Dad.
I have to tell you something.
ER REGISTRATION
He had a heart attack because of me.
Did you know that
your dad asked me to marry you?
I said I'd think it over at the time,
and I gave him my answer this evening.
I couldn't fulfill his request.
Do you remember
the girl I've been looking for?
I finally found her,
and she's willing to marry me.
I'm sorry for not being honest from the start.
I'm sorry, Salsa.
I didn't mean to hurt your dad.
I'm sorry.
"No misfortune can happen on earth or in your souls
but is recorded in a decree
before we bring it into existence.
"Truly, that is easy for God."
"So you need not grieve for what you miss
or gloat over what you gain."
I seek forgiveness from God.
Thank you.
Thank you for being honest.
I'm sure you must be conflicted.
But if you still want to…
Fulfill Mr. Farhan's last wish…
I support you.
Perhaps our actions
will be our last act of devotion to our parents.
Dear God, the Most Benevolent.
You know that I'm hoping for Ara, who awaits me.
Right now, I only ask for one thing.
Please let whatever happens to me next be in accordance with Your will.
I promise to submit and follow,
whatever it may be.
If that's what you've decided…
I give you my blessings.
PARAMITA HEART AND BLOOD VESSEL HOSPITAL
I'm sorry, Ara.
I can't fulfill my promise.
I can't be the first person to propose to you.
I hope…
You can accept my decision.
I always think
that what we believe is best for us
might not align with God's will.
God willing,
your decision is the one favored by God.
I
Don't regret
having met you,
or wishing for you to be my future Imam.
Because you're a good man.
You even put a father's feelings first
before your own.
I will learn…
To accept this fate.
Athar.
Maybe God brought us together…
So we could come to terms…
With this separation.
I will always pray for you.
Me too.
I'll always pray for you.
Peace be upon you.
And upon you peace.
Ara.
Thank you.
My mom told me
that to love is to learn to let go,
not to hold on tightly,
because everything belongs to God.
At any moment, we can be united or separated by God's will.
"My Aurora."
Moving up to the north
A flash of light colors the sky
Moving freely like a fiery dragon's tail
Existing solely in beauty She is the Goddess of Beauty
She has adorned my heart
She is my Aurora
Dad.
Did Athar tell you?
He must be upset with me.
Not at all.
No one is upset with you.
Don't cry, dear.
I just wanted to do what's best for you.
I know, Dad.
God willing,
Athar and I will get married.
Is Athar okay with it?
And you?
I love you, Salsa.
Don't cry.
Thank God, Dad is awake
and can be moved to a care room.
- Oh my God. - Praise be to God.
Athar.
I agree.
Kang.
Bismillah, Athar.
God willing.
You're a good kid, Athar.
Please take care of the orphanage for me.
I don't know how much time I have left,
so I want Salsa to get married today.
Can you help me?
Yes, sir.
God willing.
- Is it lawful? - Yes.
Thank God.
I'm sorry, dear.
I didn't know about your feelings.
Zein.
Will you allow me to wed you off with Salsa?
Thank God.
Thank you, sir.
I will, God willing.
Athar. Remember.
Al Waqtu Atsmanu Minadz Dzahabi.
"Time is more precious than gold."
Right. Please pray for me.
Ara, are you ready?
God willing, Dad.
Soulmates are God's secret.
I hope that whoever our match is, they are in God's favor.
But I want you to be the first in my life to meet my dad.
Tidy up!
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Athar?
- Dear. - Yes?
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
You?
In the name of God, I'm here to propose to Ara.
- Peace be upon you. - Peace be upon you.
- And upon you peace. - And upon you peace.
I'm the first one, right?
Aren't you married?
He's married?
I can explain. Sir, ma'am.
I didn't Marry Salsa.
Zein did, and that's what they wanted.
So now I'm here to propose to you.
I'm the first one, right?
What's going on?
Are you also a doctor?
I'm a business major.
Wouldn't a doctor be better?
Everyone, I'm sorry.
This might sound rude, but I can explain.
Before accepting the proposal from Raka's family,
I had already received a marriage proposal from Athar.
I'm sorry, Dad, but may I make my own choice?
Dad.
Mom.
So what now?
Mr. Sabri,
ma'am, and Raka.
I…
As Ara's father…
I'm sorry.
My apologies.
Unfortunately, I have to call off the introduction today.
Okay.
Then we're going home.
- Peace be upon you. - And upon you peace.
Let's go.
What a joke!
Let's donate all these gifts to orphans for blessings!
Okay, okay. Just get in the car first.
Hello, babe.
Babe. The proposal is off.
God willing, I will fight for you again.
Yeah.
Are you against
Ara…
Deciding on her own match?
I wanted only the best for my daughter.
How can you be sure that that was best for her?
Dear. Stop.
That's enough, dear. Remember your cholesterol.
All this time, Ara has never opposed you.
She mustered up the courage to follow her heart.
It's God's guidance that led her to make this decision.
Dear, stop it.
Oh my God, dear!
Dad.
Well?
Every father
wishes for his daughter's happiness.
Your father has a daughter, right?
Ask him.
He'll understand what I'm going through.
Right.
My late father had two daughters.
One of them, Rani,
has already…
Joined him.
The other one, my little sister, her name is Tiara.
If I'm not mistaken,
your mother is still with you, right?
Yes, praise be to God.
My mom owns Ratih Tailoring.
Oh.
Hold on.
Is your late father
Nur?
Yes, sir.
Mr. Nur
was a good man.
He was my best friend.
Mashaallah.
So?
What's your plan going forward?
In the name of God.
I came here to ask for your daughter's hand in marriage.
Before you reject or accept my proposal,
may I explain my vision and mission?
Go ahead.
My vision is to ensure
Aurora's well-being in this life and in the hereafter.
And my mission…
Is to marry her.
I also want to build a family
filled with peace, love, and blessings.
…In full.
I accept the marriage with the agreed-upon dowry, paid in full.
Witnesses, is it lawful?
Yes! Absolutely!
Praise be to God.
Mashaallah.
That's your wife, Athar.
Ara was right.
If it's not meant to be, encounters can lead to goodbyes,
but if it is, then goodbyes can turn into reunions.
MINISTRY OF RELIGIOUS AFFAIRS MARRIAGE BOOK
Ara is the woman you chose.
Don't you break her heart.
I won't.
Our lives go on happily, thanks to God.
God chose her for me, and God brought her to me
so that we could love one another with sincerity.
Can I hug you now?
Forget hugging, you can even spin me around.
We're one now.
Mashaallah. Oh, my husband.
Mashaallah. Oh, my wife.